Girlfriend Question

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

OK
lets you have a girlfriend (american)


and she says that she is so tired and hurt of waiting for you and says : " i met somebody "

what does that mean ?
what does "met someone" mean ? kisses ? sex ? date ? dinner ? movies ?

[Cornell]

Someone that she either has or wants to do all those things with.

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

that's bad

[DeN]

or maybe she just wants to move your fat ass.

so, buy her some flowers, go see her and express your fucking feelings before you lost her.

[The Dog]

Thats not good.  It means she met somebody she likes and shes basically going to be with that guy and hang out with him and do the things guys and girls do.

Give her credit for being honest though - most american girls would say "lets just be friends" or "its not you its me" hehehe.

Like that one guy said, shit or get off the pot - if you like her and want to be with her one of you has to move to be near the other. 

Imagine Wat-ever living in America...I think his head would explode.  That could be a reality show.   

ALl jokes aside, if you're not going to move I would try to move on and meet another girl - it sounds thats what shes doing (moving on that is, not necessarily with a girl)

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

yeah ... thanks.

i dunno, these past 5 months has been hell to her cause i couldnt give an answer to when i can move to the usa and all ... cause of work ... i know it's my fault

but it's so wierd to see her doing that so fast, i guess she wants to protects herself, i dunno.


hey HH, i did live in the usa for more than a year ! post 911
and it was cool !
i'm a wendy's fan !


well, life sucks, at least i'll go see NIN tonite

[Prometheus]

hey HH, i did live in the usa for more than a year ! post 911
and it was cool !
i'm a wendy's fan !

lol the first line followed by the wendys bit... lol.... priceless...... you and me my friend must have some totall diferent ideas on what we call cool......lol

you are among the few that are a fan of wendys..... the only reason why it was akin a profit was thanks to tim hortons..... a canadian staple..... slowly spreading through the US....... all your coffee WILL be bought from us.....

[D]

WAIT HOLD UP!!!!!!!!




What the previous posters have said are all true, A lot of times this means bad bad news.


BUT


She could just be testing u to try to get u to hurry up and move.  I guess she feels the nice approach and the patient approach isnt working, so she may be trying to speed things up via extreme measures.

Meaning, I've met somebody and if u dont move your fucking ass over here, I am gonna entertain the idea of being with someone who is here.

So its not necessarily final that she is sleeping or going out, its just she is getting lonely and she is starting to lean in that direction.

She could have a guy who is a friend but she could see herself going further with and she is telling u "Look, make a decision, stay there and we are over OR get your ass over here ASAP and we will be together"

Sounds more like an ultimatum to me.

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

yeah ... i asked if she was lying and playing with me to test me, she sincerely crying said NO.
i know she didnt have sex or anything, i trust her on that.
now. the thing is that i CANNOT move my ass off right now and move to the usa. my job.

what is wierd is that we both know that after a painful relationship, you dont jump to another b/f or g/f right way. i dont get it.
man ! who is this guy?
i want to ask questions, but i dont feel its a good thing ....

and she emailed saying that " no one will be better than me, and that even in 2 years if i move to the usa she would go with me ... "
im lost



Promo > i dont know, i just have good tasty memories of Wendy's, the number 6, spicy chicken

[freedom78]

That sucks but, on the bright side, by my count there are about 3,000,000,000 women in the world.  SOO, keep fishin'.

[D]

yeah ... i asked if she was lying and playing with me to test me, she sincerely crying said NO.
i know she didnt have sex or anything, i trust her on that.
now. the thing is that i CANNOT move my ass off right now and move to the usa. my job.

what is wierd is that we both know that after a painful relationship, you dont jump to another b/f or g/f right way. i dont get it.
man ! who is this guy?
i want to ask questions, but i dont feel its a good thing ....

and she emailed saying that " no one will be better than me, and that even in 2 years if i move to the usa she would go with me ... "
im lost



Promo > i dont know, i just have good tasty memories of Wendy's, the number 6, spicy chicken

U gotta have the talk with yourself in front of the mirror:

How much do u REALLY love this girl.

Think about it honestly.

Is she someone that without you are a different person, someone who doesn't feel whole?


If it were a girl I was in love with, I would fight, scratch, claw, scream, yell, whatever it took to get answers and to find out why things are going bad.

Now is not the time to be polite or to hold back. If you love her, U have to fight for that shit, never say die when it comes to the one u love.

If she is someone u care for but u feel u can live without, just chalk it up to bad timing and move on.

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

i do love her
i think she is my best friend
and i love her
i'd rather spend time with her than with my friends.
and i ma sexually and physically attracted to her. and her defaults / issues / negative sides , i love them too.
we do fight a lot tho.

now
i just cannot move to the usa.

i have a job here. and even if i change job, several companies wants me here.
no american company (equal job quality / status) will take me : paying the visa, nationality ....

i wish i could just drop everything and move to the us, but i cant, legally and logically.

i guess i'm the bad guy

i just dont like the fact that she actually moved on .... nah .... i dont know .... i want her happy tho....

[wink]

 " i met somebody "

what does that mean ?

she means she is dateing someone else and is breaking up with you

[The Dog]

Just wondering - does she read your posts on this site about how much you love America? hehe just teasing.

[RJ1221]

coles notes version: she doesnt love you anymore

so grab a 12 pack, drink away your missery then get your buddies to bring you to a strip joint


you'll be fine after that

[Cornell]

hey HH, i did live in the usa for more than a year ! post 911
and it was cool !
i'm a wendy's fan !

lol the first line followed by the wendys bit... lol.... priceless...... you and me my friend must have some totall diferent ideas on what we call cool......lol

you are among the few that are a fan of wendys..... the only reason why it was akin a profit was thanks to tim hortons..... a canadian staple..... slowly spreading through the US....... all your coffee WILL be bought from us.....

Isn't that the only place to get coffee in Canada?  Hell, I went there before a hockey game once and stood in line FOREVER!

#6 Wendy's is my son's favortie too.

[Prometheus]

ya same here... its the only thing i order there myself....... mmmmmm must get that this weekend..... damn you alll


and ya it is pretty much the only place to get coffee...... we do have starbucks and second cup..... and....... some outfit called robin's..... which blow....... but i dont like starbuks coffee.... only the hot chcolate, and second cup tates like crap in general...... though their tea was better until timmies went al steeped teas...... plus the fodd at timmies is really good and filling and not al that expensive


cant take a thread off topic can i 


but on topic.... im onboard with D on all points

[Bodhi]

OK
lets you have a girlfriend (american)


and she says that she is so tired and hurt of waiting for you and says : " i met somebody "

what does that mean ?
what does "met someone" mean ? kisses ? sex ? date ? dinner ? movies ?

"i met someone" ususally means she is dating someone else....that can include all of the above mentioned activities.....sorry dude.....

[gandra]

in my country means "sex"

[freedom78]

in my country means "sex"

It could mean anything.  Because Wat-ever is across the pond from his lady, it probably means, more than anything, that she's fallen for someone else.   

That would be more difficult if two people lived near each other, and saw each other regularly, when "I met someone" probably means "I got drunk and fucked some guy, but I was gonna break this off anyway, so..."

There you have it.  I stand by my geographic interpretation.

And the Single w/ Cheese Combo, with Dr. Pepper is the way to go.  Common sense, people.