I'm gonna have a baby

Thanks everybody, your support means a lot. I'm coming to terms with the fact that I'm pregnant, I didnt think I'd be having any more kids so this is more shock than surprise but it'll be cool I'm sure. My lawyer has sent him an amended divorce petition stating the pregnancy because obviously there is the child support issue to be worked out. He's not violent with the kids so I've offered some contact times and I'm waitng to see if these are accepted. I'm divorcing him, he's not divorcing the kids and I think it is important that a child have a good relationship with their dad if its possible. The only condition I'm making is that it must be at the family contact centre so that I dont have to worry about him coming to the house. He can pick our boy up from there and drop him off there so I dont have to be around him at all. My stepson is living with me and he is still pretty angry at his dad and is refusing to see him. He's 17 and bless him he feels he has to protect me. We went to London together for the Wembley show and had an amazing time. He got absolutely hammered but it was okay we just chucked a blanket over him and left him on the floor! He's still nursing his headache. Thanks also to Jim (I read through all the comments on the thread) you are a gentleman. Thanks for all your good wishes. PTU