Here Today... Gone To Hell!

OK
lets you have a girlfriend (american)


and she says that she is so tired and hurt of waiting for you and says : " i met somebody "

what does that mean ?
what does "met someone" mean ? kisses ? sex ? date ? dinner ? movies ?

Someone that she either has or wants to do all those things with.

that's bad :(

or maybe she just wants to move your fat ass.

so, buy her some flowers, go see her and express your fucking feelings before you lost her.

Thats not good.  It means she met somebody she likes and shes basically going to be with that guy and hang out with him and do the things guys and girls do.

Give her credit for being honest though - most american girls would say "lets just be friends" or "its not you its me" hehehe.

Like that one guy said, shit or get off the pot - if you like her and want to be with her one of you has to move to be near the other. 

Imagine Wat-ever living in America...I think his head would explode.  That could be a reality show.   :hihi:

ALl jokes aside, if you're not going to move I would try to move on and meet another girl - it sounds thats what shes doing (moving on that is, not necessarily with a girl)

yeah ... thanks.

i dunno, these past 5 months has been hell to her cause i couldnt give an answer to when i can move to the usa and all ... cause of work ... i know it's my fault

but it's so wierd to see her doing that so fast, i guess she wants to protects herself, i dunno.


hey HH, i did live in the usa for more than a year ! post 911 :)
and it was cool !
i'm a wendy's fan !


well, life sucks, at least i'll go see NIN tonite :(

lol the first line followed by the wendys bit... lol.... priceless...... you and me my friend must have some totall diferent ideas on what we call cool......lol

you are among the few that are a fan of wendys..... the only reason why it was akin a profit was thanks to tim hortons..... a canadian staple..... slowly spreading through the US....... all your coffee WILL be bought from us..... :)

WAIT HOLD UP!!!!!!!!




What the previous posters have said are all true, A lot of times this means bad bad news.


BUT


She could just be testing u to try to get u to hurry up and move.  I guess she feels the nice approach and the patient approach isnt working, so she may be trying to speed things up via extreme measures.

Meaning, I've met somebody and if u dont move your fucking ass over here, I am gonna entertain the idea of being with someone who is here.

So its not necessarily final that she is sleeping or going out, its just she is getting lonely and she is starting to lean in that direction.

She could have a guy who is a friend but she could see herself going further with and she is telling u "Look, make a decision, stay there and we are over OR get your ass over here ASAP and we will be together"

Sounds more like an ultimatum to me.

yeah ... i asked if she was lying and playing with me to test me, she sincerely crying said NO.
i know she didnt have sex or anything, i trust her on that.
now. the thing is that i CANNOT move my ass off right now and move to the usa. my job.

what is wierd is that we both know that after a painful relationship, you dont jump to another b/f or g/f right way. i dont get it.
man ! who is this guy?
i want to ask questions, but i dont feel its a good thing ....

and she emailed saying that " no one will be better than me, and that even in 2 years if i move to the usa she would go with me ... "
im lost :(



Promo > i dont know, i just have good tasty memories of Wendy's, the number 6, spicy chicken :)

That sucks but, on the bright side, by my count there are about 3,000,000,000 women in the world.  SOO, keep fishin'.

U gotta have the talk with yourself in front of the mirror:

How much do u REALLY love this girl.

Think about it honestly.

Is she someone that without you are a different person, someone who doesn't feel whole?


If it were a girl I was in love with, I would fight, scratch, claw, scream, yell, whatever it took to get answers and to find out why things are going bad.

Now is not the time to be polite or to hold back. If you love her, U have to fight for that shit, never say die when it comes to the one u love.

If she is someone u care for but u feel u can live without, just chalk it up to bad timing and move on.

i do love her
i think she is my best friend
and i love her
i'd rather spend time with her than with my friends.
and i ma sexually and physically attracted to her. and her defaults / issues / negative sides , i love them too.
we do fight a lot tho.

now
i just cannot move to the usa.

i have a job here. and even if i change job, several companies wants me here.
no american company (equal job quality / status) will take me : paying the visa, nationality ....

i wish i could just drop everything and move to the us, but i cant, legally and logically. :(

i guess i'm the bad guy :(

i just dont like the fact that she actually moved on .... nah .... i dont know .... i want her happy tho....

she means she is dateing someone else and is breaking up with you

Just wondering - does she read your posts on this site about how much you love America? ;) hehe just teasing.

coles notes version: she doesnt love you anymore

so grab a 12 pack, drink away your missery then get your buddies to bring you to a strip joint


you'll be fine after that

Isn't that the only place to get coffee in Canada?  Hell, I went there before a hockey game once and stood in line FOREVER!

#6 Wendy's is my son's favortie too.

ya same here... its the only thing i order there myself....... mmmmmm must get that this weekend..... damn you alll


and ya it is pretty much the only place to get coffee...... we do have starbucks and second cup..... and....... some outfit called robin's..... which blow....... but i dont like starbuks coffee.... only the hot chcolate, and second cup tates like crap in general...... though their tea was better until timmies went al steeped teas...... plus the fodd at timmies is really good and filling and not al that expensive


cant take a thread off topic can i  : ok:


but on topic.... im onboard with D on all points

"i met someone" ususally means she is dating someone else....that can include all of the above mentioned activities.....sorry dude.....

in my country means "sex"

It could mean anything.  Because Wat-ever is across the pond from his lady, it probably means, more than anything, that she's fallen for someone else.   

That would be more difficult if two people lived near each other, and saw each other regularly, when "I met someone" probably means "I got drunk and fucked some guy, but I was gonna break this off anyway, so..."

There you have it.  I stand by my geographic interpretation.

And the Single w/ Cheese Combo, with Dr. Pepper is the way to go.  Common sense, people.

I like the geographic interpretation!  I'm going to have to lean towards that.

P - I don't call ever seeing a starbucks in Canada, but I saw 1 million THs!  :hihi:  When I got back to the rink and handed our the coffees that I got, the refs were asking where theirs were.  :hihi:  They were quite quick for the length of the line and I didn't miss any of the game!

The only reason I dont drink coffee to this day is because I refuse to lose an hour of my life in a damn lineup at Tim Hortons :hihi:

It means you are history. Sorry. ..

Pretty much, yeah.

It means she'd had threesome with two guys.

Really, long distance relationships never work.

Did you talk with her a lot about politics?

If you have she's dating a marine.

Well, at least she's got plenty of space.........sorry.

Yeah, sounds like "someone" gets to fullfill her sexual needs, while you get to fullfill the emotional ones.

yeah .... i dunno.
i dont think she is having sex yet.

and she sent me a text message saying that " she will always love me ... " wierd. and that i can come to visit her when i want ...

im lost, sounds like she shifted strategy and is going 180?. i was the one "trying to take it slow cause we didnt know when we gonna be together " and now, she took a decision.

fuck.
should i ask details about the guy ? to her friends or something ?
i wanna know

he cannot be better than me, it's impossible ..... :(

:rofl:

sorry to break it to you, but the whole "I met somebody" means "I met a guy at the bar and I had sex with him later".

It's like that unless she's ugly as hell the only difference is that I (personally) wouldn't miss or date an ugly chick.

WAT-EVER, there is no point in debating about  these matters with Sin Cut you know. Just shut up and  heed his advice.Try to make notes if you can.

Haven't you read any of his posts portraying his active sex life in great detail?
If you had, you would know that Sin Cut is a street fighting mega stud who can have every girl he wants, and knows and understands "da game" better than any other male anywhere in the world. And get this, He Gets To Fuck Girls! Real, Live Girls! Something no other poster here has ever experienced.
Suggesting that someone else(such as you) would know/understand females and their desires, or the situation between you and your girlfriend for that matter, better than Sin Cut is just incredibly stupid.
If your girl friend was very hot, odds are that Sin Cut has been fucking her all along.

Sin Cut yay! I wish I was you!!

i didnt know sin cut was in fact Chuck Norris.


on a serious side
i really dont see a girl jumping on a guy and having sex with him so she can "end" a relationship.

again, should i investigate and try to see who the guy is ? what does he do ? and how did they meet ? or should i leave it like that ....

PEACE

Man, the best thing you can do right now for yourself is to recognize  that  it  is over.
Whether or not  she  had  sex, she  is not emotionally involved with you, she has moved on.
It is painful, but you have to see  that it  is over.
Give  her  space, don't push. If she really loves you she might come back.
To  ask about the other guy will only intensify the pain (although it is perfectly natural to want to know).
Good luck.

I'm not saying this applies to you, but in my experience....when a chick says she'll always love you.....she's lying.

I enjoy Sin Cut's posts more than most cause he's a funny, funny guy.? Still, this post has been long overdue. :peace:


WAT-EVER, trust me on this one - the less you know about this other guy the better.? Do fight for her if she's worth fighting for but do NOT ask questions about the other guy.? He's just a myth to you right now.

It means I love you but I am not in love with you.  (Basically we can be friends but no shaggin)

Wow.  A man of the world like WAT-EVER should know better than to have a long-distance relationship with an "American."

You fucked up homie.

1. Too many beers
subsection of this section is he was talking to the beer

2. Trying to get in your pants

3. Constant nagging has finally worn him down to the breaking point of saying it.

4. He honestly does.

That's a whole lot of vagina to choose from.

BUt you gotta watch out for the ones with the sharp edges!

And the ones with the same family tree as you do.


Not you personally, but the royal you.