Here Today... Gone To Hell!

his hot young wife is really flirty with me and i love it, plus i don't know the dude that well, we've been off-an-on friends for a year or so and that's it. i don't like to do this type of stuff but i'm missing out on a big-ass oppertunity if i don't. plus you only live once, and the guy's moving out of town after he completes his studies in august. what would y'all do? :P

How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot?

Afterall you reap what you sew.

sow, you mean? i don't really sew.
but the boot is indeed on my foot.
i'm young and carefree.
btw, this is not a "bragging thread", just to make that clear.
it's just that she seems bored with her marriage and it's rare to meet a woman that looks so hot and that's smart and gets on with me 100%.

I always thought it was ' you reap what you sew'   it is actually both. Ive just google'd the saying...lol. We both win!


Anyway back to the topic....Seems you have made up your mind.  In that case, 'fill your boots'. but don't forget to bag it.

If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you - someone who betrays their partners trust is just a dishonest person and therefore not worth the time and effort

Plenty of single ladies out there that are also honest - try them, you'll get more from it in the long term

Excellent point.  Although the guy seems like he simply want's to knock the back out of her. I may be wrong.

Assuming your somewhat sane, you need to assess the respective crazy meters of this husband and wife.  Specifically, determine the odds of him going OJ and her going Glenn Close.  As far of the morality of it, you're probably going to Hell anyway.

i say dont be a douchebag....if he's really your freind then be one back and dont do it

extremely stupid thread

just put yourself in your "friend's" shoes

extremely stupid answer.
just put yourself in my shoes.

well you asked for help some guy gave a sensible answer of put yourself into the others guys position and what would you do, seems you have your answers done already eh

are you fucking kidding me? get some will power...and get your own girl ::)

unless you hate your "freind"....but still if it were me personally i wouldnt :-\

ok enough with the criticism, i knew i had to make it clear why i made this thread, it is because i'm debating myself on whether or not it's morally right, and i wouldn't do it if it was a good friend either. he's my friend, but we're not that close and don't really hang out often at all. why the hell can't i make an honest thread about it, if i had my mind made up about this i wouldn't start the thread, this is actually my first ever thread in the jungle. grow up, this is a relevant issue for me. and don't you think i have will power? you don't know shit about where i come from or what i have accomplished so far in my life. get a clue.

agreed - using the excuse that you're "young and carefree" is such a bunch of bullshit.  Its one thing to cheat, but when you enter marriage it becomes a whole nother ball game.  How do you even know she wants to sleep with you?  Maybe shes just one of these chicks who loves to flirt for the constant attention.  Be so funny if you put the moves on her, she shoots you down and then tells her husband who then kicks your ass.

like someone else said, plenty of non-married chicks out there.

look, you don't know me, you don't know her, you don't know him, you haven't even seen me or know anything about me so i suggest you stop assuming things. the reason i asked was for people who've had similar "problems" to say something about what they would do.

you asked people what they would do - they gave answers.  some of them you didn't like and you got pretty defensive.  if you were truly looking for advice/opinions with an open mind you'd be considering other peoples responses, not attacking them.

If I knew a woman was married I wouldn't even think about doing such a thing...pretty fucking disrespectful ?if you ask me.

And if I was your "friend" I would personally tear you a new asshole, hell maybe even two or three for even giving this thing serious thought

Do it

U want to so why the fuck even ask people's opinions?


Just hope the guy isn't violent cause it wouldn't be worth getting your head blown off for a piece of ass.



Also, what if u are misinterpreting her flirting?

Some girls are just flirty but they dont actually want to fuck, So u should be 100 percent positive or you could really lose your friendship over nothing.

All I can say though:

"With friends like u, people sure the fuck dont need enemies."

I personally hope u sleep with her and the guy finds out and beats your fucking ass. : ok:


I've had similiar opportunities and I WOULD NEVER DO IT.


I believe in karma and u may fuck this guy's wife and then 5 years later u may get married and your wife may fuck your best friend, have a baby, say its yours and then u find out it isnt your a few years later.

Karma is a motherfucker.

Cheating is not morally right period ::) i dont care who you are or where your from....its just not right....simple :peace:

thanks D, you're a sweetheart : ok:

what if i'm misinterpreting her flirting? so what? people flirt all the time, either it leads to something more or it doesn't, i like to keep an open mind. another point i want to make is i don't necessarily just want to sleep with her, i mean i know this woman pretty well by now and she's not very happy in her marriage. me and her have way more in common than her and her husband. and why would i make this thread if i have made my mind up? i haven't, that's why i asked. if that's the way people are supposed to think, why ever make a thread about anything? maybe you want to hear people's opinions on your thoughts?

anyway, i've never done anything like this before but this is an exception simply because she is so great and not really happy with her marriage, so i'm giving it some thought. i wouldn't do it if it was a close friend's wife, so i don't think i'm an asshole for giving it some thought.

hmmmm.....You know her pretty well but you dont hang out often.... :hihi:

ok then ::)

sterling: she has given signals about it, yeah. and no she hasn't told me that she's leaving him, but i don't see it lasting for much longer either, the way it is now.
and i'm not sure what i want, i don't just wanna sleep with her either, i think if she comes to the conclusion on her own that she would be more happy with me than him then i'm all for that. so maybe my real task now is to give some signals that i like her. and we'll see what happens from there.

neemo: i've known her for a year and me and her are friends through him of course so i've met her quite a lot. thanks for questioning my own life! : ok:

Dude, this thread is great and has sparked excellent debates so dont listen to people saying its dumb.

It sure beats another political thread.


Anyhow, Temptation is SOOOOOOOOO hard, I mean if she comes up to u and asks u to do it, then That would be extremely hard to turn down and no one could blame u if u did.

I would never ever approach or proposition her though, WAY too risky, I know tons of girls who are flirty and u would swear they want u but as Hannahat said earlier, A lot of girls just love attention.


Im gonna be evil for a moment.

Assuming the woman is mentally stable and isnt a psycho, she may want a Fuck buddy on the side to spice up her dull ass boring marriage.

This works in your advantage cause, she would never tell her husband unless GOD forbid she fell in love with u and then u are fucked.

If its understood that its meaningless fuck her so hard u try to puncture her lungs no string attached sex, then u stand very little chance of ever being found out.

However u must let HER make that decision. ?


Personally, I wouldn't do it, but I have friends who do it and they seem to never regret none of it.

haha peace bro :peace: I'm a monogamous person so i dont agree with it at all... i cant stop you from doing anything, you're right i dont know you so i dont care what you do...if you want it go for it...but i never would is all, you asked for opinions...thats mine :peace:

(btw youre the one that posted about your life and asked for advice :P )

Wait Wait:

Just read the last two posts



If u think their marriage isnt gonna last. Id just wait till they got the inevitable divorce, THEN try to hav e something more meaningful with her.

peace neemo, it's all good.

D: that's some good advice right there and i appreciate your post, i'm glad someone manages to put themselves in my situation without bringing out the moral whip. and i don't know if their marriage is going to last or not but after knowing them and especially talking to her for a year, i have strong indications that she is pretty fed up with him. and a divorce would definately open the door for something more meaningful with her, but what if i manage to, without actually approaching her directly about it, speed up that process a bit by making her more interested in me? :P

I see now.


U actually want a relationship with her correct?


OK, I think a lot of people misinterpreted this as u just wanted to fuck her which is why everyone came down so hard on u.


U are in a sticky situation but u gotta soul search and try to figure out exactly how deep your feelings are.

If u truly feel she is that ONE person for u, I say follow your heart but be prepared for some messy stuff.

And also, while you're at it, tell him about his girlfriend's game.

sterling, the "female tactic to gain male attention", let me just say something about that. i'm no sucker, i've never been used by a woman and i never will, i'm the type of guy that is a cynic when it comes to these things, i know women quite well and i don't put them on a pedestal like that. i'm not your ordinary gullible joe! ;D the thing is, if she is flirting with me, for whatever reason that might be, it's another sign her marriage isn't really satisfying her, and in addition to that me and her get on with each other perfectly so i want to keep the door open for anything, so to speak. i just have this stupid gut feeling that tells me it's wrong, i wish i could get rid of that :P

thanks for replying in a sensible manner! :beer:

^
NO NO NO horrible advice


Never ever do that, cause the guy will 100 times out of 100 take his wife's side and then your friend will never speak to u again and you will have blown your chance with the woman.

People think being a good friend is telling your friend if his woman is doing bad stuff, but in the end it all gets turned around and u are the one who suffers.


I know tons of guys like that.

rofl, haha so fucking true :rofl:

besides, i would only put my friend through some bad shit with his wife so i consider myself a better friend for not telling him shit :hihi: plus i wanna keep my health! :beer:

thanks for replying guys, i will have to give this some serious thought i guess.

fuck her and have a good time.

You could just fuck her, then kill her and conceal the body. That way your friend will never know and you spare him of being married to a bitch, and you get your fix.

Or you could just drop it and hook up with one of the other 3 billion women out there and avoid getting yourself into trouble on several fronts.

thanks, i'll have to give the alternatives some thought.

You females tsk Just put on the earth to fuck with Guys heads  ;D

Like that wouldn't suck out all the excitement on her part. Bad idea.

But, I didn't see him post in this thread that stated she cheated with him. He's just saying that he likes her n' wants her.

Hmm...let it play out for a lil' while, closer to the end of his studies n' then see how it is.

If I'd have put myself in your shoes.......I would have jumped off a bridge a long time ago.  :P

 :rofl:

Hey i like your style man  :hihi:

alright, this is just a message board so enough with the e-thugging.
you two don't know shit about me and i couldn't be more happy about that, for someone who gets an erection each time the word "ban" is mentioned, you should lay low on calling other people losers, "anythinggoes" :-*

Your in serious need of a good kicking

Therefore i strongly advise you to cheat with this girl and have your treacherous hide hung from a lampost

Take care :)

alright, enough with the bitterness too...

let's stay on topic shall we.

On topic or not, you'll still be called a fool.

*sigh*

this is too pathetic to even get into.

keep it coming, it's easy when you hide behind your computers. not once since i signed up have i insulted another member, and i'm not gonna start now.

Then don't ask for it. Surely you must see that the topic title doesn't exactly instigate positive feelings towards you.

I remember you posting "fuck slash" atleast once.
He might not be a member here but that's the same shit.
You're just an attention whore. You're an idiot.

(http://i10.tinypic.com/4i4qwpw.jpg)

Pretty weird you have pictures of guys shirtless on your computer.  :nervous:

"haha"
don't address me again.
sad person.

Sad people are people who go to message boards seeking attention.
Sad people are people who would think about fucking his friend's wife.
Sad people spend time making "E-Thug" pictures.

Get a life.

when did i seek attention? man, you are stupider than i thought, i didn't make that picture i googled "e-thug" to find a picture to best describe your pathetic nature.

I thought you wanted to stay on topic.

ROFL @ EFISH deleting his post that said "that's funny cause your picture is hosted on tinypic.com"

take a look at this and weep. http://www.rotsmud.org/usr/upload/misc_files/421/ethug.jpg

go threaten to kill someone over the internet.

I realized it was on google after I searched it........but you're pic was still hosted on tinypic......so you still have shirtless boys on your computer.  :nervous:

clown. go obsess over another man on the internet, i feel uncomfortable with you around.

Well then you can leave. (http://www.gnr2k.com/board/Smileys/classic/seeya.gif)

you just get sadder and sadder... :no:

keep digging.

What was that?

that's it, i'm returning to this thread when the e-haters are gone.
going out, have fun with the thread now and try to refrain from hating too much, i hear it can be draining.
byeee. :-*

This is now e-locked because of all the e-hating going on in this e-thread.




/jarmo