You'll get "fucked" by fighting only if you lose or get caught.
Boys are boys and I don't regret my fighting past one bit, even if there came some fines to pay. Usually there ain't that many trying to pick a fight with me anymore and I got no longer anything to prove to myself. It's also good to know where my limits are. Last time I got jumped by some sorry teen who had something to prove to his gang. I didn't even hit him, even if he tried to connect four times - and missed.
Instead I put a lock on him and had him begging me to stop. He said "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry". I tossed him out from the pizza restaurant and told him to get the fuck home and cool down.
Now I kinda wish I'd give him a beat down, since he's one of the guys who robbed two of my friends with a knife two weeks ago. And beat a friend of mine to the hospital with the help of three of his buddies many months ago. Then again the cops caught him now.
Girls don't like a guy who's picking a fight all the time, but they like to know you got the ability if needed. And to have it you...
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