Is it silly ?

[Jessica]

I was surfing a site where old school friends can get together as well as people who worked together.

My " we are slowly separating" companion and i worked together so there were 2 employees listed last time i looked and tonight, i saw 3, so i went to see who was the 3rd ( as 3 people joined the company later on).

i saw my " ex" had created a second profile on which he says he is single, and it's very recent because his new job is listed and he started early this month.

I don't know why, i don't love him anymore, especially after all the hell he put me through and all the threats and the pressure, but seeing he specifically said he is now single kinda hurt.

Because on one side, he is still giving me grief, he doesn't let go and yet, he says he is single.

Is it silly to feel this way ?

Empty, sad, tired.

But yes, very very sad.

I haven't been sad until now, just angry.

Now, i'm in a good blob of tears.

[Lisa]

just ignore it and don't even think about it Jess...you are def in a better place for you and your son.
You can't help feelings, I know that but it is a tad silly....you are better then that

[Bandita]

I don't think it is unusual to feel sadness over the loss of something even if you know you are doing the right thing by leaving it behind.  It's all part of the process of moving on.  I know it's cliche, but the only thing that truly helps is time, I am sure this has been a real emotional time for you.

It's probably best not to look at that site either if you know how it's going to make you feel.

I don't know you but I wish you the best to get through this.

[mrlee]

i felt the same thing recently.

but then i bumped into a new nice girl, which has now took me totally off my ex.