Relationship Question

[D]

Gotta throw my 2 cents in



Depends on what u want like everyone else has said.

If she is someone u want to Date and have a big time relationship with, Then dont do anything.


1. U don't want a girl who would cheat on her boyfriend, cause that usually signifies she'd cheat on u.? They are in college, so more than likely her current BF will do something to fuck shit up.


2. Do NOT GET IN THE FRIEND ZONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If she starts treating u like one of her girlfriends, or throws u into the gay companion role, U are fucked. So know when to hang out and when not to.


Here is a good idea, Risky but good


Next time she calls u to hang out, Tell her u have plans to go out on a date with a girl and that u will call her tomorrow.


that will get her to thinking "HOLY SHIT" I really like this guy and I may lose him.  Will get her out of the Having her cake and eating it mode where she has a guy she dates, and u for extra.

Could definitely change the situation for the good, unless u are in the friend zone and then she may be happy for u which would suck.





NOW THE OTHER SIDE

IF she is some chick u just want to hook up with, hang out with, crush a few times and not get serious with, I say FUCK THE GUY SHE IS WITH and do what u do with no regrets or guilt.?



Or u can get a girlfriend and then tell the girl u like that relationships are like Algebra. My Girlfriend cancels out your boyfriend, so it really isn't cheating.

[Layne Staley's Sunglasses]

Gotta throw my 2 cents in



Depends on what u want like everyone else has said.

If she is someone u want to Date and have a big time relationship with, Then dont do anything.


1. U don't want a girl who would cheat on her boyfriend, cause that usually signifies she'd cheat on u.? They are in college, so more than likely her current BF will do something to fuck shit up.


2. Do NOT GET IN THE FRIEND ZONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If she starts treating u like one of her girlfriends, or throws u into the gay companion role, U are fucked. So know when to hang out and when not to.


Here is a good idea, Risky but good


Next time she calls u to hang out, Tell her u have plans to go out on a date with a girl and that u will call her tomorrow.


that will get her to thinking "HOLY SHIT" I really like this guy and I may lose him.? Will get her out of the Having her cake and eating it mode where she has a guy she dates, and u for extra.

Could definitely change the situation for the good, unless u are in the friend zone and then she may be happy for u which would suck.





NOW THE OTHER SIDE

IF she is some chick u just want to hook up with, hang out with, crush a few times and not get serious with, I say FUCK THE GUY SHE IS WITH and do what u do with no regrets or guilt.?



Or u can get a girlfriend and then tell the girl u like that relationships are like Algebra. My Girlfriend cancels out your boyfriend, so it really isn't cheating.

Isn't this the dramatic bullshit girls do to guys?

Why stoop to that level?

[*Timothy*]

Well D is a big girl,So.....

[Sin Cut]

well, D told me just the other day that he almost got laid.

I asked, what happened.

D told me the girl's mom walked in.

I asked him, what did she say.

D replied "Baa".

[GunnerOne 84]

So update. The girl and her boyfriend split up today. I knew something was up, she's been miss flirtatious the last 3 days towards me.

She's a little upset, and wants to talk about it.

Question is, how do I play this so I don't end up in the dreaded friend zone.

[fuckin crazy]

One word, Liquor.

[gcluskey]

Be straight up, man. Tell the girl you're into her, you like her, wanna see more but ask her what's the deal with the other guy? Maybe she just wants to have a bit of fun and hang out with a few guys. Maybe get with a few. She probably isn't ready for any big relationship or anything. When I started college I remember seeing a few girls here and there and by my 3rd year I decided to stay with one girl. We went out for about 3 years then. Just have fun, don't get too focused on relationships, you'll enjoy college life much better if you take things in your stride!

[GunnerOne 84]

Haha, thats funny. She actually begged me to go out last night and get drunk but I have 20 page thesis due today and I couldn't go. What an idiot I was.

[gcluskey]

That's cool man, get your work done. If she's really interested she won't give up on you. If you give in too easy she'll walk all over you. She likes you, dude. You're laughing!!!

[Jessica]

I'll tell you what, both me AND my brother gave up on work for people we loved, probably because both of us are incredible cretins !

Never give up on your work/studies and your friends for ANYONE.

Ever.

Capiche ?

[GunnerOne 84]

I'll tell you what, both me AND my brother gave up on work for people we loved, probably because both of us are incredible cretins !

Never give up on your work/studies and your friends for ANYONE.

Ever.

Capiche ?

Don't worry, school/work is first. I just knew I missed out on a good time.

And I was laughing at the Liquor comment.

[CheapJon]

Question is, how do I play this so I don't end up in the dreaded friend zone.

i have no answer for that, it has happend to me?

Haha, thats funny. She actually begged me to go out last night and get drunk but I have 20 page thesis due today and I couldn't go. What an idiot I was.

yeah you kinda were, because this can/will haunt you for years ?

One word, Liquor.

next time, do that^ yes?

Be straight up, man. Tell the girl you're into her, you like her, wanna see more but ask her what's the deal with the other guy? Maybe she just wants to have a bit of fun and hang out with a few guys. Maybe get with a few. She probably isn't ready for any big relationship or anything. When I started college I remember seeing a few girls here and there and by my 3rd year I decided to stay with one girl. We went out for about 3 years then. Just have fun, don't get too focused on relationships, you'll enjoy college life much better if you take things in your stride!

this guy is probably half right half wrong IMO.. don't ever start with telling her that you like her.. that will probably scare her.. ask what's with the other dude though, you can learn from that.. as he also said maybe she aint ready for a big relationship.. and to be honest do the whole relationship thing after school.. be serious in your school work and just see girls from time to time.. be a lil player hombre ? after college you can find the love of your life?

[GunnerOne 84]

Yeah at this point, my whole goal is to just hang out with her. She told me she'd give me the whole run down about this guy later today, so I'll see where I stand from that.

We are supposed to be getting together later in the week to hang, so all systems are go for now.

And I'm not telling her anything just yet....gotta wait this out a little.

[Bandita]

Yeah at this point, my whole goal is to just hang out with her. She told me she'd give me the whole run down about this guy later today, so I'll see where I stand from that.

We are supposed to be getting together later in the week to hang, so all systems are go for now.

And I'm not telling her anything just yet....gotta wait this out a little.

Be a little wary of the gal that wants to tell you her problems with other guys though.  That is usually a one way ticket to the "friends only" zone.  Just sayin.

[Lisa]

Yeah at this point, my whole goal is to just hang out with her. She told me she'd give me the whole run down about this guy later today, so I'll see where I stand from that.

We are supposed to be getting together later in the week to hang, so all systems are go for now.

And I'm not telling her anything just yet....gotta wait this out a little.

Be a little wary of the gal that wants to tell you her problems with other guys though.? That is usually a one way ticket to the "friends only" zone.? Just sayin.

I was thinking the exact thing. One way to remedy that is shag her face off! ...then 'talk' about it.

[Jessica]

It's funny, the biggest love of my life was also my best friend and we talked a lot of the past, both our pasts, and people attached to it, it never stopped us from being passionately in love and in lust.

we were confidents as well as the rest.

[GunnerOne 84]

It's funny, the biggest love of my life was also my best friend and we talked a lot of the past, both our pasts, and people attached to it, it never stopped us from being passionately in love and in lust.

we were confidents as well as the rest.

I have heard from quite a few female friends today that my best shot is to be there in the short term and listen and listen to her. If there is something there it should make itself readily apparent before too long. I am not exactly wishing to sit and wait for months on end for something to happen, I'd just like to see if it's already starting to be there. If it is great, if it isn't then on to the next.

[leatherebel]

All women lie!
But it's all good as long as you don't love them....

[Lisa]

All women lie!
But it's all good as long as you don't love them....

you're single aren't you?

[TAP]

So update. The girl and her boyfriend split up today. I knew something was up, she's been miss flirtatious the last 3 days towards me.

She's a little upset, and wants to talk about it.

Question is, how do I play this so I don't end up in the dreaded friend zone.

Show her this thread