Question to all women on this forum

[Jessica]

How often have you lied or do you lie to men about your REAL sexual experience ?

[25]

This should be interesting.
No, wait. Predictable. This should be predictable. 

[Jessica]

Well, considering the responses in the male thread, i want to know if women feel like they have to lie so men date them properly rather than thinking they are few nights sluts.

Personally, i have never lied about anything, but i only attracted assholes who thought sexual liberty was a male only privilege, and who thought i probably wouldn't mind has i'd had a lot of experience. Most long relationships i had were with men who had less sexual experience than i.

So i wonder.

[Drew]

Personally, i have never lied about anything, but i only attracted assholes who thought sexual liberty was a male only privilege, and who thought i probably wouldn't mind has i'd had a lot of experience. Most long relationships i had were with men who had less sexual experience than i.

So i wonder.

Jessica, I am not an asshole! 

Okay ladies, carry on......

[Jessica]

Personally, i have never lied about anything, but i only attracted assholes who thought sexual liberty was a male only privilege, and who thought i probably wouldn't mind has i'd had a lot of experience. Most long relationships i had were with men who had less sexual experience than i.

So i wonder.

Jessica, I am not an asshole!?

Okay ladies, carry on......

I should have dated YOU

[Axlfreek]

I have never asked any of my girlfriends about there past sex life. its irrelevant.

as long as there having sex with me and me only i'm happy 

[Sin Cut]

I have asked.

Then I multiplied the count by three. 

And I was still ahead so I can't really say, how I would REALLY feel if a girl would've had more partners than I.

But I guess it would be irrelevant as long as I would trust her. But sure, it would give a new spin at a situation where we have a fight and she heads to a bar to cool of with some friends, since a lot pf partners = she's easy. Or certain.

And it's easier to screw up if you're angry, isn't it?

[Drew]

I should have dated YOU

I have to say Jessica, I agree with YOU 100%!! 

[MCT]

I have never asked any of my girlfriends about their past sex life. It's irrelevant.

At some point the usage of condoms becomes more of a hassle than it's worth. And at that point in a relationship (though preferably before) it'd be nice to know if you're at risk for a flaming urethra, or worse, AIDS, or bad enough, anything in between!

So either you (Axlfreek) always wear a condom or you're stupid. But regardless of any of that, you're just plain irresponsible if you don't think and act on the sex history of your partner.

[Axlfreek]

I have never asked any of my girlfriends about their past sex life. It's irrelevant.

At some point the usage of condoms becomes more of a hassle than it's worth. And at that point in a relationship (though preferably before) it'd be nice to know if you're at risk for a flaming urethra, or worse, AIDS, or bad enough, anything in between!

So either you (Axlfreek) always wear a condom or you're stupid. But regardless of any of that, you're just plain irresponsible if you don't think and act on the sex history of your partner.

I totally agree with you.

But i think jessica was asking if it would make her boyfriend jelous if he knew how many partners she has had in the past. At least thats the im interpreting this discussion.

[MCT]

...i think jessica was asking if it would make her boyfriend jelous if he knew how many partners she has had in the past. At least thats the im interpreting this discussion.

She likes the cock, you made an open-ended comment and I added my two cents. That's my interpretation.

[Axlfreek]

...i think jessica was asking if it would make her boyfriend jelous if he knew how many partners she has had in the past. At least thats the im interpreting this discussion.

She likes the cock, you made an open-ended comment and I added my two cents. That's my interpretation.

well its good to know your such a responsible little angel 

[MCT]

well its good to know your such a responsible little angel 

^ Not funny.

...you're stupid...just plain irresponsible...

I totally agree with you.

^ Funny.

Please stop picking on me now.

[Jessica]

First of all, no one should go without a condom, it only takes the once.

And in a relationship, that's me, personally, i never go without a condom unless we have both been tested for aids for 9 months ( 3 times with 3 months in b etween each time) and hepathitis as well as the other 14 most common std's.

It's an allaround blood  test in france and for me, it's that or i will not go without the condom.

[Axlfreek]

Please stop picking on me now.

Im sorry. Didn't mean to hurt your feelings.

[Jessica]

so, since men in this thread got me wrong and since women stay shy, what i really mean is :

( directed at women) :

if you have had, let's say, well over 50 lovers, and suddenly you meet someone REALLY interesting, someone you can see yourself having a future with, do you tell him the truth about your experience hoping he doesn't care or do you minimize so he settles down with you, keeping a " little angel" image of you as he walks you down the aisle ?

[Jessica]

i don't hide, but then, my truths are a bit heavy for most guys.

So unless i marry a rockstar or someone who has had a full life experience of women, i don't think a " normal" guy could handle my truth.

Too many truths 

[Sin Cut]

so, since men in this thread got me wrong and since women stay shy, what i really mean is :

( directed at women) :

if you have had, let's say, well over 50 lovers, and suddenly you meet someone REALLY interesting, someone you can see yourself having a future with, do you tell him the truth about your experience hoping he doesn't care or do you minimize so he settles down with you, keeping a " little angel" image of you as he walks you down the aisle ?

Not telling is the same as lying.  Lying to ensure someone marries you is wrong.  I say, let it all out there.  Not on the first date or anything, but if you are with someone long enough and know them well enough to contemplate marriage, you should be open about things.  How would he feel if you kept it from him and then he found out after he married you?  How would you feel if he did it to you?  It's not worth it, and not fair to him.

Have you actually been with over 50 different people???

Is 50 that much?

To you women; if a guy has been with over sixty girls and you're seeing him and sometime comes the time you're asking some numbers, so would it be better to, let's say count those you've been with a year back or tell the truth? Or does this bodycount matter to you?

[Jessica]

i don't think 50 is a lot at all 

[Edward Rose]

i don't hide, but then, my truths are a bit heavy for most guys.

So unless i marry a rockstar or someone who has had a full life experience of women, i don't think a " normal" guy could handle my truth.

Too many truths 

I can handle your truth my lady 

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