hurt

[Robman?]

HURT-NIN

i hurt myself today
to see if i still feel
i focus on the pain
the only thing that's real
the needle tears a hole
the old familiar sting
try to kill it all away
but i remember everything

what have i become?
my sweetest friend
everyone i know
goes away in the end
you could have it all
my empire of dirt
i will let you down
i will make you hurt

i wear this crown of shit
upon my liar's chair
full of broken thoughts
i cannot repair
beneath the stains of time
the feelings disappear
you are someone else
i am still right here

what have i become?
my sweetest friend
everyone i know
goes away in the end
and you could have it all
my empire of dirt
i will let you down
i will make you hurt

if i could start again
a million miles away
i would keep myself
i would find a way

Did you know Johnny Cash covered that song?  kinda cool considering he was like 60 or 70 or something and listening to NIN.  He was a real music connaisseur.

Anyway man, sorry about the hard times.  In my opinion, it seems like she's saying that b/c she likes it when your around, but you don't live up to her expectations of what she wants in a full time boyfriend.  So she's making it so the breakup won't seem too bad.

For you, It will take some time to recover, but you are best to just move on.  as time goes bye, the wound will scar up and eventually heal, leaving a little mark, but you'll be able to look past it.  Try to keep your head up, and you'll find someone else in time.

Sorry to go off topic, Hurt was Cash's last music video actually, in the year of his death. He was 78 or so at the time, ore something like that.

To be on topic, sorry man, I hope everything works out for the best.

[Sin Cut]

Love hurts, love scars,
Love wounds, and marks,
Any heart, not tough,
Or strong, enough
To take a lot of pain,
Take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud
Holds a lot of rain
Love hurts, ooh ooh love hurts

Im young, I know,
But even so
I know a thing, or two
I learned, from you
I really learned a lot,
Really learned a lot
Love is like a flame
It burns you when its hot
Love hurts, ooh ooh love hurts

Some fools think of happiness
Blissfulness, togetherness
Some fools fool themselves I guess
Theyre not foolin me

I know it isnt true,
I know it isnt true
Love is just a lie,
Made to make you blue
Love hurts, ooh,ooh love hurts
Ooh,ooh love hurts

[guitar solo]

I know it isnt true,
I know it isnt true
Love is just a lie,
Made to make you blue
Love hurts, ooh ooh love hurts
Ooh ooh love hurts
Ooh ooh...

Is this "here today... gone to hell idols"?

[Mama Kin]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DxiYt8stABU


This always cheers me up. Hope it helps you.

[Graciela]

Aww hun that sucks!

To me her excuse sounded pitiful. You can do so much better than her! You need someone who'll treat you better and actually consider your feelings.

Some chicks piss me off so much! They're so superficial and refuse to get off the "All Men Are Shit And Have No Feelings" bandwagon because it makes them feel "powerful"... pffffft! If they want to feel powerful, they should get into bondage!

Damm! Seriously, why do you always have to make everything into "women are this, women are that"?? I was given that very same excuse out of the blue by a guy not long ago. And on top of everything I was dumped with a lousy email. Yeah, it sucks... But I guess I deserved it, right?


It sucks, big time, and I'm sorry for you, GeraldFord, the best thing to do is move on. Now I wish I could follow my own advice

[GeraldFord]

What are some ways you guys get over someone?

It's so hard to really care about someone, and really love them, and then, just like that they cut you out of their life....

[2112]

Humor.

You gotta do fun things.
And laugh.

And laugh about it.
And accept.
Than laugh some more.

[avesia]

and be patient...eventually you'll get over it

[GeorgeSteele]

What are some ways you guys get over someone?

Calling her and then immediately hanging up always worked for me.  Not too often, maybe just 3-4 times a day.

Seriously, it seems to me that you're on the right track by not avoiding the pain and dealing with it directly.  Give yourself time to nurse your wounds and soon enough you'll be pardoning shamed ex-Presidents like never before.

[Czr]

Sorry for your pain my friend.....we've been there and done that at some time or another, for both us guys and the gals here! Music always has been the key for me. Booze helps too though 

[Sin Cut]

What are some ways you guys get over someone?

It's so hard to really care about someone, and really love them, and then, just like that they cut you out of their life....

Hey.. I know this wont work for all, but the night my ex-gf hooked up with someone else I was trashed.

The next night I scored a new and sure I think about her, hell she's coming today so I can score her, but it made me feel better.

The acception or that after a long time (7 months) I still know my game.

U k now it works, it's not a miracle cure but you'll feel a lot better when you've had a pretty girl ride you.

[Elrothiel]

^

aka

"The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else!"

[polluxlm]

^

aka

"The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else!"

Pretty much.

[GeraldFord]

Nah,

I would only want to sleep with someone that I was in love with.

[GeraldFord]

And all that Could Have Been- Nine Inch Nails

breeze still carries the sound
maybe i'll disappear
tracks will fade in the snow
you won't find me here

ice is starting to form
ending what had begun
i am locked in my head
with what i've done
i know you tried to rescue me
didn't let anyone get in
left with a trace of all that was
and all that could have been

please
take this
and run far away
far away from me
i am
tainted
the two of us
were never meant to be
all these
pieces
and promises and left behinds
if only i could see
in my
nothing
you meant everything
everything to me

gone fading everything
and all that could have been
could have been

please
take this
and run far away
far as you can see
i am
tainted
and happiness and peace of mind
were never meant for me
all these
pieces
and promises and left behinds
if only i could see
in my
nothing
you meant everything

[GeraldFord]

I just had a few shots of rum.

Damn, I hurt, so bad.

I loved her so much. I miss her so much.

[D]

Trust me

U are now one step closer to finding the ONE.


Dont dwell on the lost ones and dont let them prevent u from finding the right one.
how long were u all together?


Why give up so easy if u love her so much? call her up and try to win her back.

[GeraldFord]

We were together for two months, and she has made it clear that we are done. I have to move on.

[D]

Two Months shouldnt take u too long to get over. At least ufound out now rather than a couple years down the road.


I always find it weird how someone can just decide they dont want to be with someone all of a sudden. Had u all been having problems or did she just pop up out of the blue with this?

[GeraldFord]

She went from being very warm to kind of stand-off-ish, this will hurt for a long time.

[chineseroses]

She went from being very warm to kind of stand-off-ish, this will hurt for a long time.

dude thats just kinda happened to me, went out with her for exactly a month, starting on valentines day. We were really close but she she just spoke to me and said she didn't love me  anymore, and she had been drifting away for like two days.

It hurts like fuck sometimes, thoughts are all jumbled up and it doesn't help that there is now an awkward tension between us. It sucks so much coz theres no escape from the feeling, physical pain you can fight or take pills but emotional pain theres nothing. In the end its just about going through the pain and coming out the otherside wiser and having learnt from any mistakes you made, whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger.