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[anythinggoes]

So... can a few of the guys here answer this honestly.... is it a complete turn off if a girl is a virgin?

Id say no but its not a turn on either its the actual girl as a person that should be the turn on 

[Sin Cut]

So... can a few of the guys here answer this honestly.... is it a complete turn off if a girl is a virgin?

I'd say it would be a surprise.

If the girls over 15 that is.

Not a turn off tho, but I'd be more serious with the girl whos cherry I pop.

[monkeychow]

So... can a few of the guys here answer this honestly.... is it a complete turn off if a girl is a virgin?

Actually Kaybee most guys I know would be very into the idea that the girl is a virgin. Why? Well...i think its a few things:

1. All of us guys no matter how hung and how much of a stud have some deep burried performance anxiety. Its like what if she screamed more with the last guy? Or felt something more? Or - gasp - he had a bigger dick We learn not to think such thoughts...but theres no harm in knowing theres nothing to compare you with.

2. I can't speak for everyone, but for me a MAJOR source of my sexual enjoyment is the idea that i'm giving pleasure to the girl and causing certain feeings in her. Knowing that not only was I doing that, but it was the first time she'd felt them and thus novel would be an extra turn on.

3. Some guys see girls as conquests, and being the first to conquer something is always the most impressive.

4. Theres the obvious advantages of no STD issues.

5. While i have NO PROBLEMS with girls enjoying a healthy sex life. If she's a virgin, then she doesn't just "give it up" for anyone - makes you feel a sence of honour in that your special and somehow better or worthy of her.


I guess theres also some downsides:

1. She may not know how to do various acts well (but it can be fun to teach surely?)
2. Theres additional pressure to be memorable and good - cos its her first time. (but then i always try and be good! who doesn't!)

So while not everyone may agree with me, I personaly would find no problem in the girl being a virgin, and if i was going to be honest - i'd say it would turn me on.

[monkeychow]

oh..i'd just like to add - if you or someone you know is a virgin...make sure you tell the guy in advance rather than after the deed....then if he is a decent guy he can make some effort to make sure your first time is as enjoyable as it should be - otherwise might not go so well...

[Sin Cut]

well, the only downside is that, like monkechow posted, the inexperience.

Sure I've taught a girl or two and they've been fast learners, but if I got to choose obetweentwo girls virgin and not-a-virgin, I'd take the one who'd all ready got ridden of it.

Minus points of virgin sex;
1. Women with experience tend to do it better.
2. Women who've done it earlier usually gives it easier when virgins tend to think they have some valuable good they must hold onto, really it doesn't wear if used. Older virgins are a different case, I'm talking about teenvirgins here)

Minus points after nailing a virgin.
3. When worked a virgin they tend to date you (really it was just sex, not a proposal) and it's not nice to press a guy like that.
4. the problems that will follow if I find she really wasn't my type and I've realized this after I've popped her cherry. And since I was her first and bla bla, she'll get some crazy idea that I used her and sends, for an example, her crazy brother after me.
5. often first time must be something special with candles and wine and some poetry and cliches like "I'll be gentle", "I love you" or "no teeth, no teeth!" or just having to use white lies like "If you gotta ask I've only been with three girls before you".


Plus points. (As my addon to those monkeychow wrote)
1. When you get to train 'em from the start and if you know that game you can train 'em just the way you like. (-1 point; if a break up happens the next guy will get a fully trained sex machine to fullfill his every need.)


And really Ms. Virgin, I'm sorry not everything works out.
But I stole nothing and if you want me, masturbate to my memory, instead of calling me 4 a.m.

And really I don't see the point of boasting about scoring a virgin, since usually they are younger and easy.
But if you get two virgins into threesome I'll give you respect.

[Chelle]

So... can a few of the guys here answer this honestly.... is it a complete turn off if a girl is a virgin?

Was that a serious question?   

[Kujo]

So... can a few of the guys here answer this honestly.... is it a complete turn off if a girl is a virgin?

Was that a serious question?? ?

Just answer the question

[anythinggoes]

So... can a few of the guys here answer this honestly.... is it a complete turn off if a girl is a virgin?

Was that a serious question?? ?

Just answer the question

shes a chick she is excluded

But she could answer it from her point of view on a male would it be more or less of a turn on for a female if the male was a virgin.

[Mr. Dick Purple]

I think is just kiddin but, I gotta say is not a turn off, cause 1st you can have this girl for the first time and make her feel for the 1st time like a real woman, 2nd she wants to do it with someone special and Im not being old fashion here lots of women want that, lets be real. And 3rd Come on is a virgin it will be very tightened

[Kujo]

she is excluded

No she's not. Answer the question Chelle   

[anythinggoes]

she is excluded

No she's not. Answer the question Chelle

am i missing something here is she a dude

[Chelle]

Kaybee, I used to tell alotta guys that hit on me that I was virgin, to see their reactions. ?So damn predictable... ?I don't how many guys ?(almost every one, w/o exception) would immediately take a different approach, and try to give off the impression that although any other man would be turned off by the fact... he would do me a huge favor and overlook it, have sex with me, and then it wouldn't be such a burden to me. ?Sounds great, hm?

And would say this in all seriousness, stupid assholes... ?


EDIT: I don't mean to imply that all men are like this, but hell, the majority of college guys....

[slash666]

sex is sex 

[Melrose Chick]

At the end of the day this should not be about the guy.... (no disrespect fellas)... this is about you and what is right for you.... dont go sleeping with a guy just to get rid of your virginity..... that's ridiculous.... you should be having sex with the guy who you are totally in love with and it just seems right or...... that you are totally in lust with and cant help yourself......... either way (hopefully) you'll be happy with the outcome (except if he's a virgin too! apologies once again fellas).? So hold on a while babe and wait for the guy who totally floats your boat..... it'll be worth the wait.........

[Mr. Dick Purple]

Kaybee, I used to tell alotta guys that hit on me that I was virgin, to see their reactions.  So damn predictable...  I don't how many guys  (almost every one, w/o exception) would immediately take a different approach, and try to give off the impression that although any other man would be turned off by the fact... he would do me a huge favor and overlook it, have sex with me, and then it wouldn't be such a burden to me.  Sounds great, hm?

And would say this in all seriousness, stupid assholes...   


EDIT: I don't mean to imply that all men are like this, but hell, the majority of college guys....

You didn't go with that rutine with me 

[Danny Top Hat]

So... can a few of the guys here answer this honestly.... is it a complete turn off if a girl is a virgin?

No way!  It'd make no difference to me at all.

[Elrothiel]

Virgin boys are annoying...  they tend to either be complete geeks, or they're just whiny cuz they haven't got any yet. Oh, and they tend to last about five seconds. And they have no idea at all how to go down on a girl. Also they're more prone to "ewww I don't wanna screw your ass! I'm not gay!" Grrr...

I can imagine that for a guy, a virgin girl would be a good thing... they're tighter!

[Chelle]

Virgin boys are annoying...? they tend to either be complete geeks, or they're just whiny cuz they haven't got any yet. Oh, and they tend to last about five seconds.

Good point...   

[HamsterDemocracy]

Virgin boys are annoying...  they tend to either be complete geeks, or they're just whiny cuz they haven't got any yet. Oh, and they tend to last about five seconds. And they have no idea at all how to go down on a girl. Also they're more prone to "ewww I don't wanna screw your ass! I'm not gay!" Grrr...

I can imagine that for a guy, a virgin girl would be a good thing... they're tighter!

I'd say that's kind of a blanket statement and not exactly very nice!

[Elrothiel]

Hamsterdude... I'm not nice. I'm a bitch. The bitch. And to you that's Queen Bitch!