Oh. Fuck!!

[Elrothiel]

Aww SIVR... dude hey, try and work it out... obviously if it really can't work, then I'm afraid its time for a break... but do your best to stay friends! I hope you're alright dude!

Oh yea, and DON'T do anything drasticly emo to yourself...

[slashisvr]

Aww SIVR... dude hey, try and work it out... obviously if it really can't work, then I'm afraid its time for a break... but do your best to stay friends! I hope you're alright dude!

Oh yea, and DON'T do anything drasticly emo to yourself...

please dont associate me with that word lol 

but yeah im trying, i just feel empty and kissin her just feels like to much effort i just cant be bothered and i look at other couples and feel like, why??why, once i get out of this im never having a gf again!!i duno tomorrow ill prob be fine, just having a down cupla weeks i guess


she liked the GNR concert though 

[slashisvr]

another one conveted

[Elrothiel]

Aww SIVR... dude hey, try and work it out... obviously if it really can't work, then I'm afraid its time for a break... but do your best to stay friends! I hope you're alright dude!

Oh yea, and DON'T do anything drasticly emo to yourself...

please dont associate me with that word lol

but yeah im trying, i just feel empty and kissin her just feels like to much effort i just cant be bothered and i look at other couples and feel like, why??why, once i get out of this im never having a gf again!!i duno tomorrow ill prob be fine, just having a down cupla weeks i guess


she liked the GNR concert though

Aww hey, don't say you won't have another girlfriend ever! You might meet the right one someday and if you vow never to have a girlfriend...  then... well it won't be pleasant...
You'll feel better tomorrow, come the mornin' light now baaaaby...

And hey at least you converted her!

[slashisvr]

you dont know how many times iv said that to someone when they feel down "come the mornin light now BABY"

lol

i duno, i love it for a while then just get bored after a while!!iv converted all 4 of my serious GF's lol, one now owns all of there albums lol

[blaqktiger]

Ha.. you know how I wish I could convert my GF 

[Shirell]

If someone makes a mistake once, and they feel utterly shit about it, then they should be forgiven... TWICE however, extreme anger and not so quick to forgive. Three times, NO WAY!

I agree with you on that. ?Once is forgiveable and at least he does know he's wrong and is sorry for it. ?I hope you work it out hun, a good man is very hard to find if you have one hold onto him and don't let him get away! ?Seriously though, if there is love and respect you will get through it.  I'm starting to think it's the silly season for guys.  So many of my gf are having man trouble at the moment.

[Elrothiel]

If someone makes a mistake once, and they feel utterly shit about it, then they should be forgiven... TWICE however, extreme anger and not so quick to forgive. Three times, NO WAY!

I agree with you on that.  Once is forgiveable and at least he does know he's wrong and is sorry for it.  I hope you work it out hun, a good man is very hard to find if you have one hold onto him and don't let him get away!  Seriously though, if there is love and respect you will get through it. I'm starting to think it's the silly season for guys. So many of my gf are having man trouble at the moment.

That's what it must be!! Silly season!
I mean we had a bad patch last year... he didn't do anything but we just had a hard time last year and we got through that alright! So perhaps its just this time of year!

And he is a good man, a really good man! The best thing that ever happened to me, and I'm not gunna let him go so easy! It shouldn't be too hard either because there is a LOT of love and respect.

[Chelle]

Silly season... must be.   

[Axl4Prez2004]

Hang in there Skynyrdgirl.  If he aint the one, you know what to do.   

[D]

U said u were about to break up BEFORE the kiss right?

So the thing is, Happy people dont go around contemplating breaking up.

there is obviously something wrong in the relationship that has absolutely nothing to do with his kissing of another girl.

Communication is the absolute number 1 key to a healthy long lasting relationship.  If u cant talk about everything and I do mean everything, then there is a good chance u guys have communication problems.

Why communicating is so important is because tensions build in relationships. Small things happen and after awhile they get heavier and heavier until finally u explode.

If u arent able to communicate, a wide variety of little things here and there can slowly eat away at the love and the positive feelings.

When u communicate it releases all that stress and pent up frustration.

So the second something bothers u or him, u have to have the ability to talk about it then and there and not let it build and build.

A comforting thought:

In the event the worst happens and u guys dont make it, Time will heal u. Dont turn into a whore and start having sex or doing things u normally wouldnt do with a bunch of different guys.  When u lose a love, that just means its one less guy u have to search through until u find the true one for u.

The true one for u will make u feel a million times happier than the wrong ones will which is hard to believe but its true.

[Danny Top Hat]

This thread is lovely.

[Elrothiel]

U said u were about to break up BEFORE the kiss right?

So the thing is, Happy people dont go around contemplating breaking up.

there is obviously something wrong in the relationship that has absolutely nothing to do with his kissing of another girl.

Communication is the absolute number 1 key to a healthy long lasting relationship. If u cant talk about everything and I do mean everything, then there is a good chance u guys have communication problems.

Why communicating is so important is because tensions build in relationships. Small things happen and after awhile they get heavier and heavier until finally u explode.

If u arent able to communicate, a wide variety of little things here and there can slowly eat away at the love and the positive feelings.

When u communicate it releases all that stress and pent up frustration.

So the second something bothers u or him, u have to have the ability to talk about it then and there and not let it build and build.

A comforting thought:

In the event the worst happens and u guys dont make it, Time will heal u. Dont turn into a whore and start having sex or doing things u normally wouldnt do with a bunch of different guys. When u lose a love, that just means its one less guy u have to search through until u find the true one for u.

The true one for u will make u feel a million times happier than the wrong ones will which is hard to believe but its true.

Aww thanks D!
The truth is, a break up WAS on the cards before this happened... I didn't want it to happen and he knew that, and actually we do communicate a LOT! I always tell him how I feel about a certain thing, and he tells me too! Whenever he's feeling down, and we speak, I always cheer him up. Always!

Anyway I feel much better today than yesterday, and so does he! Everything seems to be slightly better now, and it seems that the hurt has not entirely, but decreased a LOT!

Thankyou everyone for your support!! I love all of you! :kiss:

[Kaybee]

Maybe you do just need a break. Perhaps spending some time apart will make you realise that you really do want to make the relationship work, or it could make you realise you're better off apart, as friends.

Whatever your outcome, good luck 

[D]

I have another suggestion for couples.


Have hobbies that have nothing to do with the other.


this allows u alone time to have fun and do something u enjoy while your GF/BF does exactly the same thing.


This gives u time away from each other to do something positive and constructive for yourself.

No relationship could survive if u were constantly around each other 24/7 with no releases or hobbies to stay in touch with yourself.

[Elrothiel]

I have another suggestion for couples.


Have hobbies that have nothing to do with the other.


this allows u alone time to have fun and do something u enjoy while your GF/BF does exactly the same thing.


This gives u time away from each other to do something positive and constructive for yourself.

No relationship could survive if u were constantly around each other 24/7 with no releases or hobbies to stay in touch with yourself.

That's correct D... I've been wanting to get back into horseriding actually... although there's no decent stables around where I live, and bloody hell is it ever expensive! BUT I'm going to art college in a month and a bit, so I'll be able to concentrate more on that! I can't believe I haven't done a canvas painting in over a YEAR!!! I can't wait to get started again!!! At the moment because I live in the middle of nowhere, I read a lot, I watch a lot of movies, I draw loads, I learn about whatever I want to learn about (thankyou Wikipedia), and I love Photoshop... as well some of you know, and I actually spend a lot of time just thinking... and I've realized since I've left school and college last year that my handwriting has become severely messy! I must neaten it!

Course... my BF is still my main priority. He's a LOT better today, and I can't wait to see him tomorrow!!

[Elrothiel]

We broke up...

[journey]

We broke up...

I'm very sorry.

[MCT]

We broke up...

Better than breakin' down...

PS - Call me.

[Butch Français]

U said u were about to break up BEFORE the kiss right?

So the thing is, Happy people dont go around contemplating breaking up.

there is obviously something wrong in the relationship that has absolutely nothing to do with his kissing of another girl.

Communication is the absolute number 1 key to a healthy long lasting relationship.  If u cant talk about everything and I do mean everything, then there is a good chance u guys have communication problems.

Why communicating is so important is because tensions build in relationships. Small things happen and after awhile they get heavier and heavier until finally u explode.

If u arent able to communicate, a wide variety of little things here and there can slowly eat away at the love and the positive feelings.

When u communicate it releases all that stress and pent up frustration.

So the second something bothers u or him, u have to have the ability to talk about it then and there and not let it build and build.

A comforting thought:

In the event the worst happens and u guys dont make it, Time will heal u. Dont turn into a whore and start having sex or doing things u normally wouldnt do with a bunch of different guys.  When u lose a love, that just means its one less guy u have to search through until u find the true one for u.

The true one for u will make u feel a million times happier than the wrong ones will which is hard to believe but its true.

thats.... ...beautiful!
 
but anyways, it's true

damn, SG, sorry to hear you broke up. but you're a great girl, not bad looking either you'll find the right one soon enough!

MCT...