My husband is a lying cheat

[the dirt]

Damn, The Dirt never fails to surprise me.? Great words, and I'm being serious.?
Just when ya think it's all for smiles and laughs, you come out with something really heart-felt, rock on!

I have a serious side too man... somewhere.

Cheers.

 

[2112]

Thanks for all the support, it is really appreciated.? I've just finished work and shut the salon door after the day from hell. He came round to my salon at lunchtime and demanded that I speak to him.? Of course I had a salon full of clients so I took him out the back when he started shouting.? He said I'm being unreasonable!? Can you believe the cheek of it.? He said I'm being irrational and that he was going to tell her they were finished and had intended to do that anyway.? So the bastards had half the day but still hasnt made THAT call.? I told him I need some time and that I'm going to my mums (my son is already there) for a couple of days and that I think he ought to move out while I have the time I need.? The bastard lost it, grabbed me by the throat and banged my head of the wall.? I'm not very big you know I'm only a size 6/8 english size and he is 6 feet 3 and weighs 18 stone, like I can really defend myself against him.? While I was down on the floor he kicked me twice and now I'm covered in bruises.? The icing on this particular cake is that, this afternoon he sent me a dozen roses!? As if I want his fucking roses!!!!!!!!
Sorry about the swearing, I'm just really upset right now.? Once again, thanks for all the support, it means a lot.LOL

Oops, hadn't read this bit

LEAVE

NOW

Me neither.

Kill him.

Or get someone to do it for you.

[2112]

Thanks for all the messages and support.? This weekend has been hell.? I got kept in hospital overnight Saturday night cause it just got so much worse.? I didnt get to close the door on my salon, he came from around the corner and shoved me back through the door.? He locked the door and it all got real nasty.? The cops arrested him and charged him with actual bodily harm, thats for breaking two of my fingers and cracking a couple of ribs.? Apparently though they are not going to charge him with rape because we are married.? He's been cautioned to stay away from me, its a condition of his bail.? I cant stop shaking.? I know this makes me sound like such a coward but I'm still in shock and I cant stop what happened running through my head.? I've got an appointment with a lawyer tommorrow, I'm definitely getting a divorce.? I cant live like this, I'm sick of being frightened of his moods and what he will do if I disagree with him or try and think for myself.? Even my stepson supports my leaving him.? He wants to come and live with me.

hadn't read this bit either.

damn.

[Genesis]

I don't know how I would feel about getting an abortion after all, no matter what, this baby didn't ask to be concieved, I can't and wont punish it because of it's father. At the end of the day I'll decide on what I think is right for me and the children I have responsibility for now.

You don't need our advice, Prettytiedup. You have all the answers and you're more mature than half the posters in this thread. Just do what YOU feel is right. Things will get better. 

[jabba2]

Im sorry, but how this story began two days ago with the husband cheating, now we are at multiple beatings, rape, divorce and possible bastard pregnancy in two short days, im not sure i can believe this anymore.

[Timothy]

Prettytiedup I?m very sorry that you are having to go through all this .


Guys like this make me sick . And are a real shit stain on the underwear of life..

[pebbles]

hes such an asshole, just leave is an easy thing to say and sometimes very hard to do, but you have to be strong and do it, once they hit you they dont usually ever stop, it just gets worse. take care of yourself and put your feelings first and then kick his ass to the curb.

[Gaymo, the Hobbit]

you should ask some of your friends do give him a decent beatdown.. what a dickweed. inhuman fuck

[Shirell]

I went to the Lawyers yesterday, mostly filling in some paperwork just to get the ball rolling.  It feels right to finsh this marriage so I'm going ahead with that.  Other decisions will have to wait until I'm more clear headed.  On the positive side I had a great night and the show last night with my son.  He's the best concert buddy I've ever had!

[Layne Staley's Sunglasses]

Glad you had a great time!  Must have felt REAL good to get away from it all.  And I think you've made the right decision...stick to your guns adn everything will turn out OK! 

[pebbles]

I went to the Lawyers yesterday, mostly filling in some paperwork just to get the ball rolling.? It feels right to finsh this marriage so I'm going ahead with that.? Other decisions will have to wait until I'm more clear headed.? On the positive side I had a great night and the show last night with my son.? He's the best concert buddy I've ever had!

I know what you mean, im married but i didnt go to the nyc warmup with the shithead, i took my kids and my youngest is 9 and we absolutely loved it...