My husband is a lying cheat

[Brody]

does he have a computer? I could plant some kiddie porn on it.. jk.. get rid of the pig.. he gives good men a bad name..

[Shirell]

Let me get that straight....

You are pregnant now?

Yes, I got told on Saturday night at the hospital. ?They don't x-ray until they know for sure you're not pregnant. ?I got asked if there was any chance I might be pregnant, and since I've missed quite a few of my pills this month (the bastard keeps hiding them) then I had to say that I could be. ?Turns out I am. ?I don't know what to do though. ?The last thing I wanted was another baby. ?I had a terrible time having my son. ?I really don't want to go through another pregnancy especially now.

[Lara]

You don't know if you want to give birth to the child of a fucking beast? 

You'll only be a miserable mother with a miserable child.

That's the last thing you need right now. 

*That's just my advice,  I'm trying to put myself in your shoes and think of how I would handle it.

[anythinggoes]

hey im so sorry to read what has happened but please be careful with whatyou post on here because if he finds out and this all goes to court im afraid that it could be used against you in a trail you know how slimy these lawyers are they will dig at anything so please for your sake i would speak to your close friends only for now about this or via pm through true friends here

best of luck i truely hope things work out for you

[Jessica]

PTU, although some will reply to this with upsetting shit, abort darling.

Every time you'll look at the baby, you will see the person who raped you, and it will interfer with how you love the baby. if you have this baby, you will probably have a breakdown along with it.

I am so sorry hun, but don't forget, on this forum, you have a women's group that doesn't always get along, but in times of trouble, women stick together, and i am sure we are ALL here for you. Always.

[Genesis]

PTU, although some will reply to this with upsetting shit, abort darling.

Sure, abort darling... and afterwards we could have tea and biscuits to celebrate... U make it sound like a trip to the fucking salon..

You don't have any right to dispense such advice, so shut up.

[Jessica]

PTU, although some will reply to this with upsetting shit, abort darling.

Sure, abort darling... and afterwards we could have tea and biscuits to celebrate... U make it sound like a trip to the fucking salon..

You don't have any right to dispense such advice, so shut up.

you don't know what intonation i used and yes, she is a darling to me, a great person.

And us women know what it is like, it will never be anything but something awful to do.

So just shut up.

The reason why i said people would come in with upsetting shit is because usually, men are against the very idea of abortion.

Are you pro rape too ?

[journey]

Sorry about your situation. The best thing to do is to weigh your options and decide what is best for you and your children. I personally think your husband is a danger to you, obviously from his actions. Maybe you could stay with your mother or someone for a little while until you get things figured out.

[Will]

About abortion: she can do whatever she wants with her body, no one should judge her anyway about this.

I'm sorry you ended up with such a low life. Not only does he give good guys a bad name, but he also gives mankind a bad name. What a fucking creep. You will win the trial, no doubt. I'm so sorry it ended up like this, but in a way it's for the better. I will never understand how people can turn in such lame-ass pathetic bastards.

Stay strong and I wish you the best, really.

[Genesis]

Are you pro rape too ?

Anti-abortion = Pro rape. Just the kind of warped conclusion that i expected u to come up with. Piss off.

My advice to u PrettyTiedUp: Don't take advice from a message board. People couldn't care enough to think twice, coz it's easy to just post anything they feel. Do what ur heart tells u and get advice from the people u trust (family/ friends). All the best.

[Neemo]

My advice to u PrettyTiedUp: Don't take advice from a message board. People couldn't care enough to think twice, coz it's easy to just post anything they feel. Do what ur heart tells u and get advice from the people u trust (family/ friends). All the best.

Very well said Genesis...

a super tough choice PTU.... best wishes and please make sure you're sure before you do anything

[Neemo]

Actually i wanna say something else...no matter what you may think of the father...the child will be the thing you love most in this world and single parenting will be tough...i would never change my life right now...yeah it's tougher financially but having my daughter around...she's so beautiful and every time i look at her it makes me smile...please make sure you talk to your real life supporting cast before making this decision...it is a huge one t hat involves your life, your ex's life and your child's life...not to mention the grandparents, your other siblings if any...


please like i said before make very sure that it's what you want

[Shirell]

Have you got any brothers ?

No I havent but I have got a couple of brother in laws who are offering to ensure he meets with an unfortunate accident, but I've told them not to do anything, he's not worth it. 

Thank you all for your advice about my ... god, my pregnancy.  I'm not going to make any rash decisions about it.  It is too important to make a rush decision, whatever I decide on will affect the rest of my life and I have a son and stepson to think about.  I havent told my mum I'm pregnant cause she's catholic and I know exactly what she is gonna say.  Please, I understand that it's an immotive subject but I've got enough hostility around me at the moment.  I really appreciate ALL your comments.  If everyone was saying abort or everyone said dont there would be no balanced view which would be the most unhelpful advice of all.  It's more helpful than you can possibly know to have such support especially when there are some things I can't tell my family.  I'm only at the beginning of this pregnancy so I have a little time.  All I know right now is that I don't want to be pregnant and I don't want another baby, but I don't know how I would feel about getting an abortion after all, no matter what, this baby didn't ask to be concieved, I can't and wont punish it because of it's father.  At the end of the day I'll decide on what I think is right for me and the children I have responsibility for now.

[Neemo]

At the end of the day I'll decide on what I think is right for me and the children I have responsibility for now.

for sure...I was just giving you my 2 cents ultimately it is your decision like you said and i don't envy that choice best of luck to you on whatever path you choose take

[SuperMike]

I don't respect any man who hits women.

[kerry]

Watcha babe.  I cant remember how ya told me to send you a msge thru this site so I thought Id post here.  Youre not pickin up ya phone, understanding that.  That's one hell of a fuckin shina that bastard landed ya with.  Fucking cunt, I'd like to bust HIS fuckin face in.  Anyhow ya bitch ya still look prettyer than me.  Cow!  Huggin ya babe.  Pick up this msge and let me no how to send ya a msge back.  Ill see ya tmrow sweets.  Lovin ya babe.   

[the dirt]

How long have you been married to this dingo and was he violent with you from the beginning?

As for your pregnancy issue, I feel that a child should be the product of love, the love you share with one another. What would this child be a product of? Rape, anger.... not love.

[kerry]

How long have you been married to this dingo and was he violent with you from the beginning?

As for your pregnancy issue, I feel that a child should be the product of love, the love you share with one another. What would this child be a product of? Rape, anger.... not love.

I dont feel Im speekin out of turn here.  I no this girl for a long, long time and we are good mates.  She's a fuckin sweetheart.  Everyone who knowin her thinks so to.  Shes beutiful, inside n out, pretty as a picture (fuck I wish they had spell check on ere!), a real good person ya no what I mean.  He's a fucking cunt.  He treets her like shit.  Yeh all nicy, nicy one minuite but a real bastard the next.  It dont take a fuckin megabrain to work out that shes afrayd of him.  Shes a little dot hes built like a fuckin tank.  Im sick of seein bruses on this girl.  She deserves much better. 

[Elrothiel]

How long have you been married to this dingo and was he violent with you from the beginning?

As for your pregnancy issue, I feel that a child should be the product of love, the love you share with one another. What would this child be a product of? Rape, anger.... not love.

I dont feel Im speekin out of turn here. I no this girl for a long, long time and we are good mates. She's a fuckin sweetheart. Everyone who knowin her thinks so to. Shes beutiful, inside n out, pretty as a picture (fuck I wish they had spell check on ere!), a real good person ya no what I mean. He's a fucking cunt. He treets her like shit. Yeh all nicy, nicy one minuite but a real bastard the next. It dont take a fuckin megabrain to work out that shes afrayd of him. Shes a little dot hes built like a fuckin tank. Im sick of seein bruses on this girl. She deserves much better.

You mean its not just This time he's hit her?

FUCKING HELL!!! How can someone be so fucking callous and disgusting to someone they're supposed to love!? Its not right!

PTU, I know how this is gunna sound, and I know you (and a lot of others) may not wanna hear this, but ending this pregnancy is a wiser choice than keeping it going. This is a very stressful time for you, and pregnancy is just gunna make it so much worse. Of course it is up to you, and that is just my opinion, but yea...

I know the baby didn't ask to be conceived, but the fact that you don't want to have another kid, and you don't want to be pregnant, and it is all part of that disgusting man's plan to be even more disgusting. Its not the baby's fault, but it would be fairer to it to not have it at all than for it to be spawned of such an angry and terrible time...

Aww hun I'm sorry you had to go through such a terrible experience!

*big hug*

[Axl4Prez2004]

As for your pregnancy issue, I feel that a child should be the product of love, the love you share with one another. What would this child be a product of? Rape, anger.... not love.

Damn, The Dirt never fails to surprise me.  Great words, and I'm being serious. 
Just when ya think it's all for smiles and laughs, you come out with something really heart-felt, rock on!

PrettyTiedUp, does anyone in your life know about the pregnancy?  A message board is one thing, but loved ones are another.  I personally believe the majority of problems we experience in society are directly related to unwanted/unplanned children.  That is not to say that all unplanned children are unwanted, it's just based on percentages, more unplanned children are unwanted than planned children. 

Just be glad you have the choice.     I wish you all the best, and just enjoy the show with your son!!!  I wish I had a mom that cool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!