My husband is a lying cheat

[Shirell]

Sorr, need to vent..... I found a picture in my husbands luggage last night.  He works away most of the week and when he gets back he usually puts his washing downstairs and sorts his bag out etc.  Last night his mum phoned as soon as he got home and needed him to sort her computer out so he went straight down there.  While I was cooking his tea I thought I'd get his washing and put a load on.  Under the last of the washing I found a picture of this woman I'd never seen before.  Anway to cut a long story short when he got back I confronted him about it.  He tried to lie to me of course but eventually I got the truth, he's been staying with this woman through the week and he reckons at first they were 'just friends' but have been sleeping together for a couple of months.  I feel so hurt and so goddam angry!  How could he do that to me.  Oh he cried and said how sorry he was, was I feel as though I've got a knife stuck in my heart.  I've put up with some major shit from that man over the years and I've always stood by him.  How could he do this to me?  He says its me he loves and it's all a big mistake.  I wanna chop his f**kin dick off quite honestly.  I dont know if I can stay with him after this.  How can I ever trust him again?  I cant stop crying and I've gotta work today. I've had no sleep and I feel like shit.  Oh and on top of all this betrayal, he said I was being hysterical when I was screaming at him and he friggin' slapped me!  MORE sorry's.  I just feel like telling him to go F**K HIMSELF!

[Sakib]

leave him for a bit and if after say 3-4 weeks he feel you were being hysterical then divorce.

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

god, that's why i would never cheat on my girlfriend

sorry to hear that PT, but now, you're better off without him. he sucks. come to france.

[Shirell]

God I cant stop crying!!  I wanna kill him.  You should have seen the pic of this woman.  She's a fat, ugly sow!  I dont get it.  I just don't understand any of this at all.

[Layne Staley's Sunglasses]

The best thing you can do now is to get away from this mess.

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

God I cant stop crying!! ?I wanna kill him. ?You should have seen the pic of this woman. ?She's a fat, ugly sow! ?I dont get it. ?I just don't understand any of this at all.

1 you're too good for him
2 you're too hot for him
3 don't cry
4 how old are you ?
5 did u see this comin ?
6 watch a movie

[Layne Staley's Sunglasses]

Break something, that always helps.

[anythinggoes]

God I cant stop crying!!? I wanna kill him.? You should have seen the pic of this woman.? She's a fat, ugly sow!? I dont get it.? I just don't understand any of this at all.

hey ive been reading your other posts before and it sounds like he was having the affair and then thought because he was you was as well. You really are better off without him find someone that does want just you not a cheating scum.

best of luck

[Hammy]

Break something, that always helps.

....Breaking something over his head helps better

[nycangel]

yea he defintley doesnt deserve you. leave him for a while, and only if you want to, try to work things out. dont work things out only if hes the one that wants to. im sorry about all this it sucks. i hope things work out for you, good luck!

[darkmonth]

Sorr, need to vent..... I found a picture in my husbands luggage last night.  He works away most of the week and when he gets back he usually puts his washing downstairs and sorts his bag out etc.  Last night his mum phoned as soon as he got home and needed him to sort her computer out so he went straight down there.  While I was cooking his tea I thought I'd get his washing and put a load on.  Under the last of the washing I found a picture of this woman I'd never seen before.  Anway to cut a long story short when he got back I confronted him about it.  He tried to lie to me of course but eventually I got the truth, he's been staying with this woman through the week and he reckons at first they were 'just friends' but have been sleeping together for a couple of months.  I feel so hurt and so goddam angry!  How could he do that to me.  Oh he cried and said how sorry he was, was I feel as though I've got a knife stuck in my heart.  I've put up with some major shit from that man over the years and I've always stood by him.  How could he do this to me?  He says its me he loves and it's all a big mistake.  I wanna chop his f**kin dick off quite honestly.  I dont know if I can stay with him after this.  How can I ever trust him again?  I cant stop crying and I've gotta work today. I've had no sleep and I feel like shit.  Oh and on top of all this betrayal, he said I was being hysterical when I was screaming at him and he friggin' slapped me!  MORE sorry's.  I just feel like telling him to go F**K HIMSELF!

Fucking asshole.  Fucking leave him.  He's a worthless peice of shit.

Ok, so he cheated.... sooooome people can get over it and move on... but that's not all... he fucking hit you too?!

Take his ass to the fucking police and get him on assault charges.

He's a peice of shit.  Love is NOT enough.  Believe me ... I know.

PLEASE DON'T GO BACK TO HIM!

[darkmonth]

yea he defintley doesnt deserve you. leave him for a while, and only if you want to, try to work things out. dont work things out only if hes the one that wants to. im sorry about all this it sucks. i hope things work out for you, good luck!

You MUPPET!  Don't tell her to try and work it out!  She should leave him full stop!

[Sin Cut]

It doesn't leave you aslone, now does it?
Atleast I couldn't get the image outta my head and I was thinking that guys hands all over my ex and she sucking his you know what.

It still hurts, I still miss her, I still wish it wouldn't have happened. But it did. I could work things out but it wouldn't be the same.

What helped me over it was other girls. (and two btw went haywire last night when I came with a new girl to a party)

if you are going to try and work things out then how are you going to feel the next time he ain't home or don't answer the phone or something?

If someone cheats, it's likely he/she does it again.

[DeN]

do the same. find a guy, take some good time with him, and show it.

after the bastard had a lot of pain, divorce.

[Genesis]

He cheated on u and then slapped u for being hysterical?
Leave the soggy piece of shit... You can do better.
Sorry. *Big Hug*

[noonespecial]

he used protection right?  I'm just asking from a health safety perspective for you...you don't know who the heck she was sleeping with and\or if he has pulled this kind of thing before, who the heck he was sleeping with... people who hop around sexually have a greater potential to  be a garbage can of disease even though they may look ivory snow clean...You definitely need a separation (at the very least)
If you don't have kids that's good--less complication...he and you definitely need to separate right now.

[Shirell]

Thanks for all the support, it is really appreciated.  I've just finished work and shut the salon door after the day from hell. He came round to my salon at lunchtime and demanded that I speak to him.  Of course I had a salon full of clients so I took him out the back when he started shouting.  He said I'm being unreasonable!  Can you believe the cheek of it.  He said I'm being irrational and that he was going to tell her they were finished and had intended to do that anyway.  So the bastards had half the day but still hasnt made THAT call.  I told him I need some time and that I'm going to my mums (my son is already there) for a couple of days and that I think he ought to move out while I have the time I need.  The bastard lost it, grabbed me by the throat and banged my head of the wall.  I'm not very big you know I'm only a size 6/8 english size and he is 6 feet 3 and weighs 18 stone, like I can really defend myself against him.  While I was down on the floor he kicked me twice and now I'm covered in bruises.  The icing on this particular cake is that, this afternoon he sent me a dozen roses!  As if I want his fucking roses!!!!!!!!
Sorry about the swearing, I'm just really upset right now.  Once again, thanks for all the support, it means a lot.LOL

[Sin Cut]

I really would like to see that bastard.

[Genesis]

I don't believe what this is becoming... How do all the good women end up with such cunts?

[Shirell]

I really would like to see that bastard.

I'm trying to avoid him myself. ?I've nearly finished cleaning up here and I've gotta go out the door in a minute. ?I'm dreading him being the other side of it. ?I phoned the police but they just said phone if he attacks you! ?Like right so I'm supposed to say can you stop kicking and punching me for a sec while I call the cops. ?Yeah that's gonna go well aint it! ?My mums offered to come and get me but I dont want to risk her getting hurt too.