My husband is a lying cheat

[Sin Cut]

you can still press harges.. it suprising how going to court calms someone.

I haven't had a fight since (ok 1)

And he deserves (unlike my case)

[2112]

Leave the bitch.
He is appearently stupid as fuck.

There are others, he doesn't deserve you.

[makane]

Don't waste your time healing bonds with him. He will eventually come out of the shell again and do this once more.
Though I (or none of us?) knows your situation too well, so you shouldn't take these "internet advices" too seriously.
Best of wishes for your future?

[SuperMike]

I'm very sorry to hear about this, Prettytiedup. I hope things work out in the future.

[Jim]

Thanks for all the support, it is really appreciated.  I've just finished work and shut the salon door after the day from hell. He came round to my salon at lunchtime and demanded that I speak to him.  Of course I had a salon full of clients so I took him out the back when he started shouting.  He said I'm being unreasonable!  Can you believe the cheek of it.  He said I'm being irrational and that he was going to tell her they were finished and had intended to do that anyway.  So the bastards had half the day but still hasnt made THAT call.  I told him I need some time and that I'm going to my mums (my son is already there) for a couple of days and that I think he ought to move out while I have the time I need.  The bastard lost it, grabbed me by the throat and banged my head of the wall.  I'm not very big you know I'm only a size 6/8 english size and he is 6 feet 3 and weighs 18 stone, like I can really defend myself against him.  While I was down on the floor he kicked me twice and now I'm covered in bruises.  The icing on this particular cake is that, this afternoon he sent me a dozen roses!  As if I want his fucking roses!!!!!!!!
Sorry about the swearing, I'm just really upset right now.  Once again, thanks for all the support, it means a lot.LOL

I see no reason to be laughing out loud. Maybe a healthy COL would hold more relevance about now.

Or, listening to IRS in slow motion might help. lol (I'm allowed to do it still), it's what I've been doing for about two hours now.

yea he defintley doesnt deserve you. leave him for a while, and only if you want to, try to work things out. dont work things out only if hes the one that wants to. im sorry about all this it sucks. i hope things work out for you, good luck!

You MUPPET!  Don't tell her to try and work it out!  She should leave him full stop!

You MUPPET!  Don't dismiss it out of hand           !  She should consider leaving him, but think of the children. For god's sake, think of the.....

(why are you using thumb spaces?)  (as far as swearing goes, you'd give she of the skynyrd a run for her money)

.... That said, I would leave. At least for a while.

How do all the good women end up with such cunts?

Please, this isn't the time to turn this thread into a vulgar discussion on the nature of female genetalia; have some decency, for all our sakes!

(...... I'll answer your question later)


Seriously though. I can take him out if you want.

... Like, to the country for the weekend. You know, get him away from you for a while.

Love grows (love through fate, as far as one person for another goes, surely can't exist...) and to fully comprehend it you must must have an intrinsic understanding of the relationship.

Either way, if these beatings are a new development then surely you have not had the relationship, as far as knowledge of each other goes, that you thought you had; if it is not a new thing, be glad that by sleeping with some grotty old whore the guy has given you a reason to finally get out of this relationship.

[Lara]

Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Once a beater, always a beater.
Stay away. 

Cheating could be forgivable sometimes, but beating you? He needs to have his dick cut off! And it's so upsetting that the police cannot really help you right now!
I would have my friends kick his ass big time, if I were you! 

I hope everything works out ok for you. 
No woman deserves this kind of behaviour.

[Beowulf]

I'm sorry that this happened to you.  Between the whole having to "put up with shit" and the slapping (physical abuse) it sounds like this is a pattern of behavior and would more likely than not continue into the future. So I'd advise never taking him back, even if you may feel like doing so later. If a gal has the resources to get away and doesn't at some point it ceases to be "his" fault and becomes "her" fault for putting up with it.

You deserve much better.  *hugs*

[darkmonth]

Thanks for all the support, it is really appreciated.  I've just finished work and shut the salon door after the day from hell. He came round to my salon at lunchtime and demanded that I speak to him.  Of course I had a salon full of clients so I took him out the back when he started shouting.  He said I'm being unreasonable!  Can you believe the cheek of it.  He said I'm being irrational and that he was going to tell her they were finished and had intended to do that anyway.  So the bastards had half the day but still hasnt made THAT call.  I told him I need some time and that I'm going to my mums (my son is already there) for a couple of days and that I think he ought to move out while I have the time I need.  The bastard lost it, grabbed me by the throat and banged my head of the wall.  I'm not very big you know I'm only a size 6/8 english size and he is 6 feet 3 and weighs 18 stone, like I can really defend myself against him.  While I was down on the floor he kicked me twice and now I'm covered in bruises.  The icing on this particular cake is that, this afternoon he sent me a dozen roses!  As if I want his fucking roses!!!!!!!!
Sorry about the swearing, I'm just really upset right now.  Once again, thanks for all the support, it means a lot.LOL

Go to the police.  Seriously.  This is very disturbing.

[darkmonth]

Jim... I don't think bringing the children up in an abusive marriage is very good do you?

She SHOULD leave him ... no question.

My Mum and Dad split up and I had a perfectly fine upbringing... my Dad abused my mum and he's a cunt who deserves all he gets (in fact, he fell one day and is now in a wheelchair... do I feel sorry?  Not really).

Sorry man, but I'm able to relate quite well to her scenario and think she should get out and never look back.  He's an animal who deserves nothing.

[axl_rose_700]

Leave him, he doesn't deserve you

A 1 night stand is one thing but a proper affair is unforgiveable!

[Brody]

God I cant stop crying!!  I wanna kill him.  You should have seen the pic of this woman.  She's a fat, ugly sow!  I dont get it.  I just don't understand any of this at all.

Most women that do that sort of thing are! Its a horrible thing for him and her to do! Homewreckers are mentally fucked,

[Axl4Prez2004]

Thanks for all the support, it is really appreciated.? I've just finished work and shut the salon door after the day from hell. He came round to my salon at lunchtime and demanded that I speak to him.? Of course I had a salon full of clients so I took him out the back when he started shouting.? He said I'm being unreasonable!? Can you believe the cheek of it.? He said I'm being irrational and that he was going to tell her they were finished and had intended to do that anyway.? So the bastards had half the day but still hasnt made THAT call.? I told him I need some time and that I'm going to my mums (my son is already there) for a couple of days and that I think he ought to move out while I have the time I need.? The bastard lost it, grabbed me by the throat and banged my head of the wall.? I'm not very big you know I'm only a size 6/8 english size and he is 6 feet 3 and weighs 18 stone, like I can really defend myself against him.? While I was down on the floor he kicked me twice and now I'm covered in bruises.? The icing on this particular cake is that, this afternoon he sent me a dozen roses!? As if I want his fucking roses!!!!!!!!
Sorry about the swearing, I'm just really upset right now.? Once again, thanks for all the support, it means a lot.LOL

This motherfucker had the nerve to get you roses??? ?Well, the only appropriate gift I could recommend in return is guns, and plenty of 'em!!!! ?Okay, so that's illegal, and just a fantasy, but I had to say it.

On a serious note...you MUST go to the police. ?Stay as calm and understanding on the outside as possible. ?This cunt gets off on the power he has over you...don't satisfy his needs. ?Make use of the authorities and get a good lawyer. ?Do not hesitate to press charges, and by all means don't attack him. ?Get pictures taken and find witnesses. ?Sue his ass off and divorce this piece of shit. ?To think of your posts from a little while back and all you were doing to make him feel better, and he was playing you for a fool. ?Get your finances arranged because this fucker's probably already ahead of you. ?

I wish you luck PrettyTiedUp. ?

[the dirt]

This motherfucker had the nerve to get you roses??? ?

He should have given you an icepack.

[Kaybee]

How truly awful I'm sorry you have to go through all this.

There is absolutely no excuse for what he has done, and you need to get out of this unhealthy relationship as soon as you possibly can. People like that need to be locked up, he clearly has issues that he needs to sort out, and you deserve better.

[GunnerOne 84]

What a dick. He even brings it to your work place. I'd say a restraining order and a divorce attorney are in order here.

Not that this helps now, but not all of us are pricks, and I'm sure there is a good upstanding someone for you somewhere. Best of luck, stay strong, and don't let him bully you into what he wants.

[blueheart]

Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Once a beater, always a beater.
Stay away.?

Cheating could be forgivable sometimes, but beating you? He needs to have his dick cut off! And it's so upsetting that the police cannot really help you right now!
I would have my friends kick his ass big time, if I were you!?

I hope everything works out ok for you.?
No woman deserves this kind of behaviour.

I have to agree with Lara... move your life on... leave him and get over him soon

[Mr Rage]

it's best u walk away from this, keep friends n family close, AND DON'T STOP CRYING! i know that sounds stupid but the tears will help u get out all the pain, sadness and hurt out of your system. once your all cried out u can move on with ur life!

wish u the best!
And i'll use a line from def lepeard song, long long way to go:

"Even though I feel the pain, I know I will love again,
time will go and i'll move on"

[Will]

What a lame ass motherfucker. Cheaters are bad people. Stay away from this stupid fuck. You deserve way better than this. I really feel for you and I hope you will grow stronger and better after this story. He sure doesn't deserve you anyway.

[Wayne]

some girls deal with alot worse things. but its still all screwd up. break up with him he is a asshole.

[Drew]

Sorry to hear about your news Prettytiedup. Hope everything works out for you whatever you decide to do.