What's your opinnion on some aspects of sex/one night stands etc.

[Sin Cut]

I thought this would be an interesting topic

1. What do you guys and gals feel of one night stands?
Is it ok, have you done it?
What if your partner would've done some of those? Would be bad or wouldn't it matter?

2. Could you be happy with being with your first partner the rest of your life or would you feel the urge to try sex with another person?

3. What about your partner having more "experience" than you?

4. What about group sex with two guys and a girl or two girls and a guy? could you think of doing that?

Oh, and feel free to add anything you feel that relates to the topic

1. For me it's okay, tho it would bug me if my gf have had a lot of those.

2. I couldn't in my first real relationship I always wondered how it would feel with some other person.

3. It would bug me, but I doubt she has, if she does she's been a busy girl.

4. Been there, done that, I recomend it. I don't think I could do that with my gf and some guy-, friend, a girl would be ok tho 

[Jessica]

1. I don't have a moral viewpoint on it, whichever way.
It's happened to me that i went out with friends and encountered a guy, started speaking over ordering our drinks, still being speaking 3 hours later and being at it during the night.
13 years later, i have NO regrets, just good memories.
Sex is just that, sex.
If my partner hadn't had any, i would think he had a problem because young men and women need to have sex, and if they don't get any, i question the why. 10/20 years later, if they still say they haven't had any, they are either liars or have deep issues.

PS : women are particularly good liars, they usually lie a lot about the numbers and types of sexua lexperiences they had, thinking men don't marry hyper sexual girls. Truth or not, that's how it is.
I personally found it to be false, men love hyper sexual girls providing they can satisfy them.


2. I had the urge to try as much as i could...

3. Usually, my long term partners had less and i scared them ( i am not scary, it's just they imagined themselves kinky and coming down to it, their " soldier" was on strike).
So i would love a man with more than me, i would feel this is how things are supposed to be.
Someone initiating me to different things with enough respect to accept if there are things i don't like on the way.


4. You call that group sex ?  ok, basic threesomes ...I could think of doing that yes.

[mikegiuliana]

one night stands are great... Threesomes are great, more experience then me is great too, why always have to play leader..  I remember in HS meeting  afew virgins and that was great but it was like they had no idea what to do or had no desire to try things.. No stds was the only plus..

If I had only had sex with my first partner I wouldn't have been happy.. I'm a filthy perverted animal.. I'm a natural horn dog, the liquor makes it ten times more

I think one partner you rwhole life and being with one person is a great thing if that's the type of person you are..

can't turn a whore into a housewife...

[GnR-NOW]

so did anyone have a one night stand after any of shows

[.Seal]

Well I have nothing against one night stands having had them myself.. It's just sex after all 

[Sterlingdog]

I say as long as you are safe about it, you should do it with who you want when you want.  I think people place too much importance on sex.

[Markus Asraelius]

1. What do you guys and gals feel of one night stands?
Is it ok, have you done it?
What if your partner would've done some of those? Would be bad or wouldn't it matter?

One night stands are cool and everything but if you get attached to the person it can be a problem. I've had many one-night stands myself. It woulden't matter to much if my partner had done them. That would make me a hypocrite if I did care about stuff like that.

2. Could you be happy with being with your first partner the rest of your life or would you feel the urge to try sex with another person?

No, I woulden't feel satisfied with doing it with just one person.

3. What about your partner having more "experience" than you?

Might feel slightly insecure but not too bad.

4. What about group sex with two guys and a girl or two girls and a guy? could you think of doing that?

I could definitely think of doing that, in fact, I want to do it. Very badly, both ways.

[SLCPUNK]

I say as long as you are safe about it, you should do it with who you want when you want.  I think people place too much importance on sex.

Sterling gets my vote for the best woman in the world.................

[Sterlingdog]

Sterling gets my vote for the best woman in the world.................

Cool!  That's one.  How many do I need to win the title?

[Markus Asraelius]

Sterling gets my vote for the best woman in the world.................

Cool!? That's one.? How many do I need to win the title?

Quite a few. But, you have my vote as well.

So, let's see that's 2 down, 998,999,999 left to go. 

[godiva]

I never understood why people are so uptight about sex anyways. It's just sex. As long as you make it perfectly clear what you expect and what you can offer (before hitting the sack), there should be no problem. If you want to have a one night stand, go ahead. Just make sure the other person understands it is just a one night stand, not the beginning of a long lasting relationship.

2. well, as long as he's a god in the bedroom, I'm happy. But I think it's a bit too late for that one for me 

3. If that means he's better in bed,  . What does it matter anyway how many people you slept with? As long as you're sexually compatible, it shouldn't matter. You are the person he is with right now. Forget about the past and enjoy each other.

4. Well, I wouldn't mind, but my hubbie would never have sex with another man. He doesn't mind another woman joining the game, so that's cool. Not 2 men 1 girl, but 2 girls 1 guy seems to work. 

Just my 2 cents.

[mikegiuliana]

well no guys want to rub meat together.. it's like those double penetration pornos, the two guys are rubbing nuts and their cocks are seperated by a 64th of skin..  Two women is just so much better for a guy, or myself.. Even if you get the bj doggie combo you still end up slapping the dude in front of you five and seeing him as you try and cum

[SLCPUNK]

Sterling gets my vote for the best woman in the world.................

Cool!  That's one.  How many do I need to win the title?

One vote is good enough.................

[journey]

One night stands are shallow, unhealthy and they ruin marriages.

[godiva]

You can have one night stands without cheating on your spouse. I think one night stands and cheating are two completely different things. I had a couple of one night stands when I was single and I never regretted them. My hubby had a couple of one night stands before we hooked up and I sure hope he enjoyed them. Dont mix the two up!

[journey]

You can have one night stands without cheating on your spouse. I think one night stands and cheating are two completely different things.

How is that possible? If you have sex with someone other than your spouse or girlfriend/boyfriend, then it is cheating. Whether you tell them or not.

If you're single that's fine. But a lot of married people sneak around and have one night stands. My parents marriage ended because of affairs and one night stands. So I'm not mixing anything up. 

[pasnow]

I think Godiva was referring to having one night stands BEFORE you get married. What she meant by "don't mix the two up" was don't be married and have one night stands. 

Sorry to hear about your folks..

[godiva]

Well, you can have one night stands when you're single, that's what I'm saying. A one night stand isn't always cheating. Married people cheating on their spouses, having an affair or a one night stand, is always wrong, since sex shouldn't hurt, if you know what I mean.

I'm sorry about your parents. That's fucked up. It must have really hurt you. *big hug*. I just thought you mixed up the two words, wanted to clear that up.

We okay? 

Ah, Pasnow, you beat me to it. Yes, that was exactly what I meant.  Thanks for helping me clear that up. Sometimes it is difficult to write coherently...... 

[Jim]

Cool!  That's one.  How many do I need to win the title?

Nineteen.

One vote is good enough.................

Were you counting votes in Florida five years ago?

Oh yeah!

(Come on now, that was good. Although, I only slipped it in because I realised that you aren't really kujo............)

2. Could you be happy with being with your first partner the rest of your life or would you feel the urge to try sex with another person?

I think that most of us would, in time, become curious, I'm sure of it; but I also think that it would come somewhat out of ignorance. I don't mean to sound harsh or condescening, I just feel, assuming that the relationship works, given that the "marriage" is real, that were we able to see the bigger picture then we would have no real need to try sex with another...

But until the veil is lifted I guess that there are a lot of us who will anyway. Yuk yuk yuk.

[SLCPUNK]

Were you counting votes in Florida five years ago?

Oh yeah!

That was purdy darn good, I'll give you that!

I now fart in your general direction...........