I need some advice on my gf's ex-bf-scenario

[Sin Cut]

I've had some grudge with this guy before I even knew this girl, mostly because in some bigger parties he was always the big-mouthed fool trying to prove himself to be a bad-ass.

I think I stepped from his neutral-zone to enemy when he was picking a fight with my friend and I told him to leave him alone, when he told me he'd beat me up, too I couldn't help telling him; "Hey little Cinderella, just hold on a sec, so I can go jerk off into your beer, so when drinking it you have atleast once some "real man" in you". That's when his gf, now my gf, interfered and I ended up talking with her the whole night. Yeah, maybe that did upset him a little.

Anyway they broke up soon after that and I met her again next weeks friday and we kinda ended to my place and now it seems this really grows into something.

So her ex-bf with his big mouth is telling everyone how he'd beat me up, or knife me, so my humour lasted the first two weeks but it's soond gone dry. He did come to pick a fight with me twice when I was at the bar with my gf, but I let that one slip, since I gave my word not to fight him. I kinda surprised myself, too, for keeping it.

His friend threatened my other friend with a knife and was thrown out from the bar and while my friend is more than capable of taking care of himself (years of jujutsu and street fight experience) I don't like the fact that he's threatened with a knife because of some guy who don't have the gut's to go threaten anyone himself, and who seems only be talk, since he haven't as much as tried to really hit me.

Finally I decided something has to be done, if only I had a clue as to what. He's first sending my gf text-messages how "the only the world could've been their limit" and when he didn't get the reply he wanted he called her a whore and told her again how bad he'd beat me.

So my options are as I see it;
1. See what he's about next time he strolls dead drunk my way (since when sober he doesn't seem to have the guts to come at all)
2. Ignore him and be sneak attacked by him and some his friend some night when I've had one too many (which leads to my friends gutting him)
3. Take a few friends I've sparred with with me and make clear to him that it's now the end of the line, and he'd better behawe, or else.
4. Skip town.
or
5. Have my dog eat him while I listen to "Wttj" and start kicking him in the face at the "you gonnaaaa dieee!"-part, and I'm sure we'd be ready with him when I hear the sweet tunes of rocket queen.

Oh, my gf did try to tell him to stop.

[Rocket_queen125]

Ok best thing to do is keep him as far from her as possible make it clear to him that shes not his nor anyones cause he will continue to herass her and it will make you life hell... tell her to stay away from him mayber even change her number.. my ex gf ex bf stalked her for the last 4 years and still does it idk what the deal is but evidently lead to our breakup... i did the same thing tried to ignore him be the nice guy but you know what nice guys finish last so kick his ass man kick his ass

[Sin Cut]

Ok best thing to do is keep him as far from her as possible make it clear to him that shes not his nor anyones cause he will continue to herass her and it will make you life hell... tell her to stay away from him mayber even change her number.. my ex gf ex bf stalked her for the last 4 years and still does it idk what the deal is but evidently lead to our breakup... i did the same thing tried to ignore him be the nice guy but you know what nice guys finish last so kick his ass man kick his ass

Well, my gf is only pretty much amused about the guy and he's a bit of our laughing stock, kinda what you do for the village idiot. Anyway she knows me well enough that I won't hide and that's the main reason, I think, why she tried to talk to him and make him stop his threats. I think he should just come and share them with me and not to every random girl or guy.

But if I just went and whooped his ass, well my gf wouldn't like that so I just have to "talk" until he makes some move so I can go with self-defence and if he doesn't have the balls to make that move, then my plan is to make him lose his face once and for all.

[Skeletor]

Well, my gf is only pretty much amused about the guy and he's a bit of our laughing stock, kinda what you do for the village idiot.

And yet she used to go out with him? Hmmm...

[Sin Cut]

Well, my gf is only pretty much amused about the guy and he's a bit of our laughing stock, kinda what you do for the village idiot.

And yet she used to go out with him? Hmmm...

yeah, well she found out some facts about the guy after she broke up w/ him

[Rocket_queen125]

trust me kick his ass

[Acquiesce]

I'd be very careful and would consider contacting the police. I'd document every incident of his harassment in case you do need to go to the police. You really need to be careful because you don't know what this guy is capable of doing. He might just be some loser with a bruised ego or he could be psychotic.

My friend in a similar situation. She was constantly being harassed by her boyfriend's ex girlfriend. It ended with my friend being stabbed multiple times by the ex and her bf was stabbed by trying to save my friend. They are both alive and well now but it could have ended up much worse.

If he contacts your gf again just tell her to tell him to knock it off or she will go to the police and have a restraining order placed against him. Most likely, that will be enough to get him to back off. If not, you could have a real nut on your hands and should really consider going to the police.

[D]

U gotta kick his ass.

she might get mad for a little bit, but if she truly cares for u she will forgive u.

U cant let some dude get away with all this.

U turned the other cheek u did the right thing but there comes a time where u have to handle it and that time is now.

[Sin Cut]

Acquiesce I don't think I need any cops involved with this and there's not really much they can do anyways.

So really it's his error if he comes once more trying to prove, since I think I'm done being "nice" with him.

Now really.. next time I see him, I think I'm going to have a nice little talk since he propably don't understand the danger he's in .

[Layne Staley's Sunglasses]

I love a good Finn ass kicking!  Blue Cut, mess that guy up!

[Sin Cut]

I love a good Finn ass kicking!? Blue Cut, mess that guy up!

why do you love a good finn as kicking, received any lately? 

What, are you trying to turn me against my fellow contry-man?!

Aww, what the heck, I'll post some video footage when he's face is smashed and he's washing my car.

[Axlfreek]

hire a contract killer.

[Layne Staley's Sunglasses]

Haha, Blue Cut, it's nothing like you said, it's just that you guys can put on a good show

[J?]

non violence

[IzzyDutch]

http://www.hitman.us

[Danny Top Hat]

Wouldn't it be scary if Blue Cut mysteriously stopped posting now.

[Sin Cut]

Haha.. I think you need to get me a more worthy opponent than this first 

[Sin Cut]

Some update on things. I did meet the guy last saturday and decided to do something about the whole situation, for my credit I didn't even threaten him much.

I went to talk to to him and he told me to fuck off, but I'd just found my favorite spot of the bar.Then he told me I'd better just get the fuck out of his sight or else. Really, I'm not sure what his or else means, maybe he'd talk me to death.

But a stupid head really don't receive but I did try, after that friend and he had a talk.

So the conclusion was that he's having a quarrel with me 'cos I had some shit with some girl he had some shit with and that I didn't really do anything but after they broke up. That's right. Okay she broke up with him because of me?

My friend told the guy that he must be a real idiot to keep on a fight because of something like and that we should agree this. I agreed after we told him that next time someone threatens me or my friends with a knife we won't turn the other cheek and that he better leave me and my gf alone. He agreed to this but wouldn't shake hand.

I really didn't believe a word he said.

Well, he had sent my gf a text message that I had come to pick a fight with five guys with, even if we were only two and he had five friends with him. And that next time he'd beat my ass.
 

What else is new?

Now I've atleast tried diplomacy.

[Mr. Dick Purple]

I'd go with D in this one, too much being the nice guy! that guy needs to know that mankind has its limitation, and put also some Megadeth specially take no prisoners or Sweeting bullets 

[Sin Cut]

Well he did agree to run away when he sees me. Now I'm just waiting him to forget that, lol.

But seriously the guy is a joke, but if he talks how hard he'll beat me up or tries to mess with my gf.. then I'll take my gloves off.