Guys, I must add some questions for those who are interested, but its not necessary to answer your question here, just think about that, and I hope that helps you to reach what you really want to get in your life ():
"What are you/we doing to be happy?
"Are our goals making us happy or are we only doing them to get money, or jobs, or women/men or something material?"
"Are we making serious efforts to be happy? Regardless what people say or believe"
"Do we always listen what other people say first instead of our own desires?"
Now possibly this sounds cheesy to you, but I thought it was important to realize what we are doing with our lives... Take care guys and participate if you want to....