Very young women and older men

[sandman]

I think some men are very insecure. There are some who feel like they have to be taller, richer, and older than the woman they're dating, in order to feel dominant. Damn dominant male monkeys!

You made me lose my appetite Sandman.

i agree some men are insecure.

but the PRIMARY reason my formula (scientific fact as i like to call it  ) is true is because women are more mature than men.

another reason this formula works is that men and women of similar ages have very different goals.

for example, the majority of 28 year old women i have ever met or know are actively looking for a mate to go have babies with. nothing wrong with that, it's simple biology. but the typical 28 year old man is enjoying living his life on his own without having to answer to anybody.

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

Many kids around here are neurotic because both parents work. They're undisciplined and incorrigibly lazy for not having proper instruction and raising.

yeah, we know about you

I'm 24 but it's true I prefer women who are between 20 and 22. fresh and young .

22 fresh ?? 22 is rotten.
16 is fresh & young.

who said that !!!!!!

Oil ? who says anything about oil ? bitch you cookin' ?

[Cornell]

It's not pleasant to think about death, but it's reality. Men who marry younger women should expect to have to save more so the woman can be supported when he dies. It can help if she has a job as well, but then they shouldn't have children. Many kids around here are neurotic because both parents work. They're undisciplined and incorrigibly lazy for not having proper instruction and raising.

What?

that's bullshit - like ONLY & ALL kids raised by 2 working parents are lazy and undisciplined. 

I was raised by 2 working parents and I work.

No keeping me home barefoot and pregnant. 

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

It's not pleasant to think about death, but it's reality. Men who marry younger women should expect to have to save more so the woman can be supported when he dies. It can help if she has a job as well, but then they shouldn't have children. Many kids around here are neurotic because both parents work. They're undisciplined and incorrigibly lazy for not having proper instruction and raising.

What?

that's bullshit - like ONLY & ALL kids raised by 2 working parents are lazy and undisciplined.

I was raised by 2 working parents and I work.

No keeping me home barefoot and pregnant.

what did i tell you about touching the computer when i'm at work !!!!
go back to the kitchen !!!!

[journey]

another reason this formula works is that men and women of similar ages have very different goals.

for example, the majority of 28 year old women i have ever met or know are actively looking for a mate to go have babies with. nothing wrong with that, it's simple biology. but the typical 28 year old man is enjoying living his life on his own without having to answer to anybody.

That's kind of a misconception and generalization of women.

Most, if not all of my female friends, started having babies in their late teens and very early 20s. I just turned 27 recently and having kids is the last thing I want right now. I want to pursue my career and travel the world before I take on motherhood. And I don't feel like I'm the only twenty-something woman to feel that way. It's different for everyone, I guess.

[Cornell]

It's not pleasant to think about death, but it's reality. Men who marry younger women should expect to have to save more so the woman can be supported when he dies. It can help if she has a job as well, but then they shouldn't have children. Many kids around here are neurotic because both parents work. They're undisciplined and incorrigibly lazy for not having proper instruction and raising.

What?

that's bullshit - like ONLY & ALL kids raised by 2 working parents are lazy and undisciplined.

I was raised by 2 working parents and I work.

No keeping me home barefoot and pregnant.

what did i tell you about touching the computer when i'm at work !!!!
go back to the kitchen !!!!

  ? Shit, I thought I jumped into the dark ages!

There is nothing wrong with being a successful business WOMAN and a great mother.? Maybe some people can't handle that, but not my problem.

[Acquiesce]

I am turning 18, but alot of people say that i act alot older, which means that i get alot of older men interested in me.

at 16.. for 14 months i went out with a 29 yr old kickboxer(mmmm) , alot of people would think that it was sick being that he is the same age as my sis and what not... but we didnt care, everyone knew we were together, we never hid it and would always show our love in public... i had to end it tho, he had 2 kids and didnt want anymore in the future, where as i would like kids one day...

no point in continuing something that is doomed to end ( i would never sacrifice having a child for a man)

i dont see a problem with it when it's me thats dating the older man because i wont go out with anyone over 12 years older than methey are not old to me... but then when i see a young 16 year old friend of mine sleepin with her boss that is 37 it makes me sick.. although i am not sure where they are at emotionally i still see it as being wrong...

it's a very touchy subject?

Well, no offense but I think that is sick from the guy's end. I think any man his age who dates a 16 year old kid has issues and I wouldn't associate with a guy like that. Not to mention that is illegal in many areas.

The 37 year old boss who is sleeping with your 16 year old friend is also very sick. He could be arrested and open to lawsuits because of her age and because he is her boss.

What is wrong with kids today? Why would they want to get involved with someone so much older? I like older men now but I am an adult and even now I am really cautious. I would have been totally creeped out of the idea at 16.

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

Gunna_girl01 just wanted to show off.

but the thing is that she does realize that among his group of people, the man she is dating IS the looser (in terms of relationship) otherwise he would be datin' hot women his age.

very ironic. here is a girl dating an older man, that makes her look cool among her environment (teens) ... and the man dating a younger girl , that makes him looks lame among his  environment (adults)

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[The New Fiona Apple]

Hugh Hefner is a disgusting example of this. He is 80 years old and has 6+ girlfriends old enough to be his grandaughters.


Ughhhh creeps me out. They would not be there if it weren't for the Magazine or Viagra!

[SumoWrestlerOfBeer]

This really couldn't come along at a better time for me, so I'll throw in my $.02.

First off, I'm no evolutionary psychologist (thank God), and I don't believe in gender stereotyping, but men biologically are attracted to young women for purely physical reasons. You are probably more attractive at 20 than at 40. Women, however, have been socialized to look past physical components and to "desire" a man with resources (i.e.--money, stability, etc). As much as this does not apply to me, and as much as I can call bullshit, society expects women to want these things, and they expect men to want "armcandy". These are stereotypes, but they are also archetypes. The Hefner, the Trump...you know who I'm talking about. If there are a couple things our society holds in great value, it's money and beauty. The saying "You can never be too thin or too rich" is a perfect example.

NOW, that's enough spouting off so-called axiomatic truths. It differs for each relationship, but there is usually some common ground. There's a certain allure for a female to have an older, more experienced/worldly/cultured man. The fact that it's semi taboo can also be intriguing to some women. And if the older guy is someone who society deems important (whether he's rich, famous, in a position of power,whatever) the more interest it gleans. If some 20 year old chick is dating a 35 year old guy with a normal job and nothing "special" about him, of course, people are going to say, "What is she doing with him?" "He's obviously the loser in the relationship", etc. But if it's a young model with an old, fat record executive, no one questions the motivations.

I'm dating someone considerably older than myself, and in the past, have dated older people, and ones the same age. Usually it's because we get along on an intellectual and physical level, regardless of their age. But usually the relationships with older guys are more exciting, if only because there always seems to be more drama. My roommate last semester here at college is dating one of our professors, and I'm dating this local filmmaker that everyone knows. No one finds either of these relationships odd or gross. However, if I was dating Joe Smith, the UPS guy, people would ask questions. Is that fair? No. But that's the way people perceive things.

Of course, these types of relationships enter dangerous territory because often times they are based on men manipulating women because of their position of power, and women manipulating men because of their sexuality. All I can say is, the guy I'm dating loves Guns n' Roses and the Stones, and that's good enough for me.? ?

[Buddy J.B.]

 I would not date a girl young enough to be my daughter or old enough to be my mother.

[nesquick]

I'm 24 but it's true I prefer women who are between 20 and 22. fresh and young? .

So women's freshness expires after 22?? You're 24, are you still fresh??

I look younger than 24, mainly because I'm healthy. Some people give me 20.

[journey]

I'm 24 but it's true I prefer women who are between 20 and 22. fresh and young? .

So women's freshness expires after 22?? You're 24, are you still fresh??

I look younger than 24, mainly because I'm healthy. Some people give me 20.

I have never considered 24 to be old.

That's the point I was trying to make. If you're healthy and attractive, then what does it matter? And to be honest, there's not a huge difference between 20 and 24, physically.

[Skeletor]

I look younger than 24, mainly because I'm healthy. Some people give me 20.

Judging by your opinions and views, someone might even consider you 16

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

I look younger than 24, mainly because I'm healthy. Some people give me 20.

Judging by your opinions and views, someone might even consider you 16

   

[nesquick]

I look younger than 24, mainly because I'm healthy. Some people give me 20.

Judging by your opinions and views, someone might even consider you 16

You eat a clown this morning? 

[sandman]

another reason this formula works is that men and women of similar ages have very different goals.

for example, the majority of 28 year old women i have ever met or know are actively looking for a mate to go have babies with. nothing wrong with that, it's simple biology. but the typical 28 year old man is enjoying living his life on his own without having to answer to anybody.

That's kind of a misconception and generalization of women.

Most, if not all of my female friends, started having babies in their late teens and very early 20s. I just turned 27 recently and having kids is the last thing I want right now. I want to pursue my career and travel the world before I take on motherhood. And I don't feel like I'm the only twenty-something woman to feel that way. It's different for everyone, I guess.

none of what i say is 100% true, but ON AVERAGE, i believe it to be true.

and your first point actually is in line with what i'm saying. biologically speaking, women are programmed with instincts to reproduce.

your friends having kids in their early 20's shows how much more mature women are than men. i sure don't know any guys in their early 20's that would want (or even be mature enough to handle) kids.

[Jessica]

Oh i just laughed here...

 

I thought the subject was going to be a rzal shocker, but nope, i thought you would mean a 15 year old ( real young) with someone past 60 years old or something 

But nope...

a 17 with a 30+ ?

Well, if both are SINGLE; why not ?

[noonespecial]

"...biologically speaking, women are programmed with instincts to reproduce..."

Biologically programmed? I really don't think programmed is the right word, I get the whole, female body hits a certain age, matures and has the capability to reproduce life..but to say that just because the body reaches this point and to automatically assume that every female now has this "chip switch" go off and wants to spit out human life is gross generalization...not every female has that maternal instinct switch suddenly click on when the blood starts to flow...

Just for the record: not all females are into having babies and stuff like that.

[MCT]

I like masturbating. With my left hand.