Getting married

[Miss-Aussie]

The big question... 

"will you marry me "

"stay with me for the rest of your days " 

Whats your view....?


Would you do it, or is it just really a piece of paper??

[Sin Cut]

I think it's a piece of paper.
It doesn't change anything.
I love her married like I loved her before

But I will get married someday, it may not be that important to me, but it is important to her.

I wait to start a family more, I'm in no hurry about it, though

[Jessica]

Without kids, i don't see why
I've been asked by 4 men, i refused them 4.

Now that i am pregnant, i slowly come to think it's a protection for the kid, but i am still very unsure as i tend to think mariage is a potential prison.

[Miss-Aussie]

Without kids, i don't see why
I've been asked by 4 men, i refused them 4.

Now that i am pregnant, i slowly come to think it's a protection for the kid, but i am still very unsure as i tend to think mariage is a potential prison.

HAHA  a relationship is allmost like prison whether there are papers to sign or not 

I have had a boyfriend propose to me, we can been together for 2 years and i rejected him... he wouldnt have been a good husband, and not a good family man, i didnt want that.

With my relationships i let them know that they we are not ment to be joined at the hip, that we should both do our own things every now and again... but all the guys that i go out with want to spend 24/7 with me and i find it fusterating.

so in allot of ways just a relationship is a prison...

they call you up when your out with friends, want to know where you are or where you are going..

and its like FUCK N HELL.... let me be..


  I recon me and Clintron will get married when i fly over to brisbane with him

not that i am planning ahead or anything but i feel he is the kind of guy i could spend everyday with..

But then again....

i havnt lived with him yet    i hope he doesnt heat up his socks in the oven or microwave 

 

[D]

I definitely will get married

One thing I think both people in a marriage have to do is keep things alive.

So many people get married and just quit

they feel like they've reached the end and they no longer have to be the person their partner fell in love with.

A lot of people change once they get married and I think that has to do with what I mentioned above.


Also u better make sure before u get married that u have some things in common and truly enjoy each others company outside of the bedroom

so many love fucking each other which isnt love but lust, but they mistake those feelings for love and get married.

I dont care who u are fucking it loses its luster after a while and If u dont have some sort of mental and spirtitual connection with your partner that transcends everything, u could be in trouble.

[Miss-Aussie]

thats how i know that me and clint would work out...

from the beginning we had a connection... and then we talked to eachother on the phone.

we have something special and we have not even met in person yet, let alone had sex.

[Sin Cut]

If u dont have some sort of mental and spirtitual connection with your partner that transcends everything, u could be in trouble.

in trouble... unles you signed a marital contract!

If I ever get married with you D, I'll make you sign a marital contract to keep you off my millions!

one other thing.
Gunna_girl.. how can you love someone you haven't even met?
Sounds weird.

[Miss-Aussie]

i know it sounds wierd.

and i was expecting the laughs..

but really... i just cant explain.....

it's not like we just email eachother....we talk on the phone everyday, he makes me laugh and smile, makes me happy.

at first i was like OH MY GOD!!!! I am so not falling in love with some one i have never met, but it just happened.

Clint is the most beautiful guy i have ever met, so genuine, so sexy, cool, swarve.
he just takes my breath away.

[kathryn2662]

gunnagirl....

falling in love with someone you have never met...

not only do I believe in love at first sight, I believe in love before sight.  You fall in love with someone for their soul and mind- not their physical state of being, which is what you did, you got to know this person.  I think it's great that you found someone.  The best thing to set yourself up for a good marriage, is to understand what marriage really is.  Also, know that marriage doesnt mean one day of saying 'I do', it's an in a sense- an action word, it's a process, something that you build and work on daily- and grow further and deeper.  If you keep that in the front of your mind, it will be easy to keep it fresh and developing.  Take things in and take things out, get into agreement.  If you go into something expecting the worst and lable it a "prison" then that is what it will be.  Marriage is spiritually binding you to this person, each partner is to do their part to bring the best out of the other, if that is your goals then you both will achieve in making eachother happy.  And it's not something you just declare, it's a conviction that you have to stay strong to and be commited to the process and help eachother out through that process.  Marriage is the best gift.

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

i'd like a mariage, for the big wedding ceremony, expensive clothes for every body, papparazzi, super duper decoration, renting Notre dame or the Sixtine Chapelle ...
i dont care for the traditional, emotional, spiritual aspect of mariage.
couture dress for my baby
jeans and t shirt for me
the spice girls singing live for us

yeah i'm that superficial 

[*Izzy*]

they call you up when your out with friends, want to know where you are or where you are going..

and its like FUCK N HELL.... let me be..

So basically you want someone who doesn't care about you

  I recon me and Clintron will get married when i fly over to brisbane with him

not that i am planning ahead or anything but i feel he is the kind of guy i could spend everyday with..

But then again....

i havnt lived with him yet? ? i hope he doesnt heat up his socks in the oven or microwave?

 

You're sixteen he's 22

Don't trust Clintron he changes his name all the time
 
Izzy?

[MR W,AXL ROSE]

  marriage? ?

[Sin Cut]

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Don't trust Clintron he changes his name all the time
 
Izzy?

Yeah, and he warms his socks in the toaster!

GunnaGirl, yeah it is a bitch if the partner wants to know where you are, my ex had to come to the same club as me even if we were having our boys night out, I felt like she didn't trust me and had to see that I didn't cheat.

She said she just missed me.

anyway she made me feel like caged.

[Genesis]

I recon me and Clintron will get married when i fly over to brisbane with him.

Aren't u a little young to think of marriage? 

[disease51883]

I think marriage is definitely important. People I know don?t treat it with enough significance. In a sense, it is ?just a paper?, but it?s also a public declaration of love. I even plan on being married myself before I?m old and dried up.

With that said, I don?t recommend talking about marriage with someone you?ve never met. I understand the whole internet love thing. I really liked a girl on here when *I* was 17, and looking back, it?s pretty damn embarrassing. Also, I don?t recommend getting married at 17 or whatever. It?s too young. I?ve been with my girlfriend since I was 19, and I don?t plan on getting married until I?m at least 25. And finally, I think 16/17 and 22 is too big of an age difference, especially when we?re talking about traveling to meet someone long distance.

But I?m just being old and wise. Don?t mind me.

[Sin Cut]

I think marriage is definitely important. People I know don?t treat it with enough significance. In a sense, it is ?just a paper?, but it?s also a public declaration of love. I even plan on being married myself before I?m old and dried up.

With that said, I don?t recommend talking about marriage with someone you?ve never met. I understand the whole internet love thing. I really liked a girl on here when *I* was 17, and looking back, it?s pretty damn embarrassing. Also, I don?t recommend getting married at 17 or whatever. It?s too young. I?ve been with my girlfriend since I was 19, and I don?t plan on getting married until I?m at least 25. And finally, I think 16/17 and 22 is too big of an age difference, especially when we?re talking about traveling to meet someone long distance.

But I?m just being old and wise. Don?t mind me.

I'm 23, she's 17, 18 in two months

We've been together for six months now and are doing great

I think it's more about how mature the other person is, than about the age itself

[disease51883]

Personally, it doesn?t seem right to me. I don?t expect that to phase you or anything though. Also, I do see a bit of a difference between a 16/17 year old with 22 year old and a 17/18 year old with 23 year old, especially when the first couple?s discussing marriage. It becomes a little more disturbing the farther away from 18 that the girl gets.

[noonespecial]

I think marriage is okay...I know a lot of folks live together now, without the "piece of paper" and to me, you're still married--it's just emotional marriage not legal marriage...I think if you're going to bring kids into this world it's a good idea to have some sort of legal foundation around that...after all, having kids is a choice, whether that choice is "on purpose" or "a real lack of common sense\impulse control"--ie. you didn't protect yourself...
I think if you're realistic about it..don't believe the ole Cinderella, living happily ever after thing it's a good thing as long as both your eyes are open...it's not going to be easy and requires a real committment...and you have to realize that in the "big picture" view, all human relationships are transient...you know, you can't escape death...but all in all, I think it's an okay thing.

[Where is Hassan Nasrallah ?]

I think marriage is okay...I know a lot of folks live together now, without the "piece of paper" and to me, you're still married--it's just emotional marriage not legal marriage...I think if you're going to bring kids into this world it's a good idea to have some sort of legal foundation around that...after all, having kids is a choice, whether that choice is "on purpose" or "a real lack of common sense\impulse control"--ie. you didn't protect yourself...
I think if you're realistic about it..don't believe the ole Cinderella, living happily ever after thing it's a good thing as long as both your eyes are open...it's not going to be easy and requires a real committment...and you have to realize that in the "big picture" view, all human relationships are transient...you know, you can't escape death...but all in all, I think it's an okay thing.

but what about the fuckin HUGE classy ceremony with expensive chanel dresses and playmates everywhere ?

[Jessica]

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