What kind of advice would you give?

[Sin Cut]

It's so frustrating when a friend comes to me to talk and needing some great advice and I feel like I can't come up with anything good to say.

Where're the magic words with some real answers?

Maybe someone here can give some good advice, SLC has great posts, as does D and many else.

My friend has a 2 year old baby-girl and her bf didn't come home after the bar, it's not the first time. I know she's been again crying her eyes off over some fight they had.

She told me she fears it's gonna be the end for them, it's 3p.m. now and she got hold of her bf and he told he'd come home later for a talk.

So what should I tell her? It's gonna be okay?
Talk to him and tell him it's not going to work this way, like she haven't tried.

I feel it's like a all-lose situation.

Any advice?

[GypsySoul]

It really depends what the fight was about.? But if it's an on-going major issue then I would ask her if this is really the kind of life she wants for herself and her baby?

[Sin Cut]

It really depends what the fight was about.? But if it's an on-going major issue then I would ask her if this is really the kind of life she wants for herself and her baby?

I see it like this:

The guy don't want to take responsibilty and act as an adult. He still want to be youing and wild.

A part of me understands him, really. I hate when my gf goes nagging if I have a night out with the boys, but it's wrong if you got a small kid and if it's every week.

[Jessica]

i'd say your friend can't raise TWO kids.

There are older men who never had children.

Tell her that.

[Sin Cut]

Thanks Jessica, I'll tell her that, that advice was good.