Here Today... Gone To Hell!

Im a sophmore in high school i didnt do so good right now im depresed about a lot of stuff just bout things that have happened in the past 3 years i just dont know what to do not to mention the girl i really like dosent even know i exist and by next school year i have to go to my new school opening up any advice

O yea and u can also post stories bout times u guys were depresed to and how u dealed with it

Plastics.

just get on with it, things will get better in time

If she doesnt know you exist its because you havent done anything to make her notice you. a.k.a go talk to her.


Also, how can you really like someone if you dont know them very much. Sure you can think, id have a piece of her. But to LIKE someone you must at least know them somewhat before letting the illusion of the mystery blind you.

Steele, that was classic...are you trying to seduce me?   :hihi:  (for the young'ns out there those are references from a great movie called The Graduate.)


jdog830, keep your nose in the books.  Set some goals for yourself and talk it over with a friend or 2.  Trust me, there are guys (and girls) your age going through the same shit.  Try to turn negatives into positives...it'll help you now, and it will help you your whole life.  Trust me.  We've all been where you are.  It gets better.   :yes:

its not that she dosent know me and that i dont know her we have a lot of things in common in fact its just that i guess that we dont talk vary much i dont know it confusing shit

hitting the books is a good one - the lack of punctuation and spelling errors in your post is atrocious.

well, to get someone to like you, ya gotta spend some time together. ideally, time without the rest of your mates getting in the way and distracting her attention from the wonderful human being that is yourself! do something that you both enjoy, if you have things in common like you said it should be easy to think of something you can have even a 5 minute conversation about.   failing that, shove CD under her nose and say 'have you heard -insert your favourite song of awesomeness here- ?' if the answer is yes, enthuse with her. if the answer is no, it's obvious what to do. i think the trick would be to try a little bit every day. not a grand gesture that'll embarrass her and probably you.

but girl troubles are the tip of the iceberg? find someone you trust and talk to them about it. please don't do something that'll damage yourself (I don't just mean sharp things, I mean it'd be better in the long run not to abuse drugs/alcohol as a means of escape from the current horrible situation cuz then ya hafta get over THAT as well...) it is MUCH smarter to talk about your problems than 'shut up and deal' or get trashed and forget about it. ....however, if you have grand plans that involve the army or anything that'll check your medical record, don't see a doctor about it. (experience has taught me this...) see a friend, a relative, maybe even your school counsellor or dean (though, they're likely to tell your olds, so be leery of them).  or me, you can always talk to me. ^^ I went through a rather horrendous few years not too long ago so no matter what the other  fuckers that post here tell you, I will help you as much as I can (from my home in the south pacific) if you want my help.

and if you don't want my help, you're still not escaping my warm-squishy-as-much-as-possible-via-the-interwebs HUG! don't give up.

My advice is not to worry about women until you are like 22 or 23 at least.  It's just a distraction, and now is a good time for you to start building a solid base for your future life.  If a woman happens to come along in the meantime, great, but if not, don't worry about it.  Focus on building a good foundation for your job and your plans for the future.

I find when things are most depressing, if I set goals for myself and actually reach out and make progress towards those goals, it makes all the difference in the world.  Focusing on things, like girls, is just a waste of time and you will have plenty of time for that in your future.

Another point:  The guys that are usually the best with women are either a) naturally that way, and that's that or b) they've spent a lot of time with women figuring out how to be smooth.  Basically, they've wasted their time, and instead of becoming smart and making something of themselves, they've become good at picking up women.  Figure out which you'd rather be.

yeah but sometimes agonizing over unrequited love takes precedence over making goals and stuff. it doesn't just flit away because you've got other shit to do. (in my experience, at least...) not just that, it seems entirely foolish to recommend to a young, hormone-filled lad NOT to even TRY to get the girl. how's he gonna learn anything, eh? more importantly, how's he gonna get laid?!

that being said, don't let the bad luck with wimmens get you down, jdog, even if this one doesn't work out for you, you'll get another chance. :)

unrequited love?  He's got a crush on her.  Certainly if he truly feels this is the one and only one, yeah, go for it, but I'm skeptical.    The thing, when you're that young, you have an opportunity to do so many things.  Why waste that time on a girl?  If it comes along, great, but if not, you're better off focusing on building a better future for yourself, cause love will surely come along on it's own, in it's own time, without any effort or focus required!

Try the mystery method  : ok:

Tell us about the mystery method!

It's on VH1 dude!

How well do you know the girl? Anything you guys have in common, you guys like any of the same stuff? That's a start.

Don't focus on one girl though, you'll have plenty of time for that later when you marry someone, have kids  and you lose your freedom  :hihi: - yes I am joking of course.... ???

Angsting over girls is character-building. Just look at Axl.

your joking right? thats nearly impossible......for me anyways and probably most young men.

i know when ive got girl troubles, i cant think about anything else until i get some closure. maybe thats just me though ???

yep, see this is what I thought! (as my kitten climbs up my leg - ow!)

best advise I've read in years dude.

To be honest, keep your chin up, be yourself, do stuff you enjoy, whatever that may be. If its meant to be, the chick will respect you more in the long run.

Its this time of year that fucks with peoples heads, your expected to be all cheery and looking forward to the holidays. I say fuck that, people expect too much at this time year. Although it is different if you have kids.

Enjoy your time @ school, it really may be the best time of your life. Don't put too much of an expectation on one chick. Believe me every one of them is an utter pain in the ass, some more so than others but there are loads out there, don't limit yourself.

Just turn yourself into a rockstar. Thats what i did. Fucked off all the confidence problems caused by the twats at school. Got myself an image i wanted, got fucking cool, got confidence. Did everything my way. Then you aint just a face. You are *insert your name here* and you are a legend n everyone knows they will have a laugh if you are around.

Its ALL about confidence. If you allow people to keep you down, if you let your own demons keep you down. Youll always stay down. Mentally and physically. Youll feel like crap but you wont have what it takes to get out of feeling like crap. You need to think "i havent got anything to lose talking to her" cause at the end of the day if she doesnt end up liking you. its one woman. Theres many, many ,many more out there you could like and they could like you.

Just be confident, even if its false confidence, just go for it man. Anybody* can do anything they want



*special needs people
disabled people etc are slightly not valid for that quote, but they can do anything they are not restricted from doing physically.

So you're depressed for not getting laid with her three years ago?

Get a grip of yourself.

Really, you ain't going to score a girl that doens't even know you exist. So I guess you have to change that.

First, she ain't the only girl. See, if you're all obsessive about one chick it's sick and it shows, it's desperate. It scares the girl away.

Now if there a lot of chicks you could screw, hell, that's more like it. She'll notice you're wanted, she wants that.

This whole nailing a girl ain't really hard at all.

First build your selfconfidence, if you believe you're a nobody and that you ain't ever gonna get laid, you sure ain't.
Things that help, go to the gym, get social and like mrlee said picture yourself like what you wanna be.

Good looks don't hurt either, but it's all in the confidence. Believe that you will have her. Shit, I've told my mates before hand about a lot of girlls, before I've asked her out "Hey guys, that's my new gf" and I've delivered every time.

Secondly keep your mind open for other girls as well, see, if you've nailed some before you're not that rookie when it counts, and it's easier to act with that important selfconfidence.

What helped me is that I've made the girls want me more, in other words, I've acted like I don't care that much and it works. I guess they have to prove they'll get me.

And finally which is worse;
losing a fight by not even getting in the ring
or losing a fight and knowing you gave all you got?

Not to mention the related health issues: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukOaQLKjLyE

sounds like somebody has a problem picking up women  :hihi:

Now what's stopping someone to be both?

Write a song about it. If Taylor Swift can get a hit song with that formula, so can you.

don't worry im draggin myself out of it too.i lost my b/f to cancer and it doesn't go away.the feeling of grief.mostly at holidays.so im trying to get through this.

im bad at spelling so

Wow guys thanks 4 all of your responses i dont know what to say secp i goin for it man and i dont give a fuck if it dosent work out just gota try u know

O yea and u guys can also post bout times when u were depresed and if any of u noticed i named this Blog after a part of lirics from a Coheed and Cambria song

Willing Well IV The Final Cut

yea i feel u man just a year ago my grandpa died just after Christmass i hope u have a kick ass Christmass anyway k
and these are some of the reasons i made this post so i suggest trying to talk bout it to a relative or other close friend

O yea and if people are wondering i do sing and play a little guitar but im also having a hard time comin up with lyrics 4 new songs

please honey, for the love of science/god/whatever you hold dearest...the word is 'lyrics'. don't feed the trolls, because then I feel obliged to kick them.


and fuck yeah, go for it! : ok: if it works out, you're sussed. if it doesn't, angst-inspired melodies will just come pouring outta ya.


let us know what happened, eh?  ;D

Not to belittle your problems with the girl but this is called a high school crush and will go away with time. There will be plenty of other girls, believe me.

No offense. But perhaps if you brushed up on your spelling and grammar, and read alot of books. You'd find it much easier to write lyrics.

That's not a dig, that's just fact.

im going to a bar tomorrow.and im haven panic atacks allready.but i think getting out should help.

i hate going out to town on the nighttime.

Too many drunken insane people that could knife me.

Especially when i have long hair, damn they hate my fine kept hair.

It ain't easy being beautiful.

It aint Easy Livin'

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDDeKArcrqU

 :rofl: I just stay at pubs, it's nicer than downtown. Especially when it's a pub I work at when they're short of staff. I got all that vip treatment.

Ever been to an english pub?

No, but there's occasional fighting here too. Not as much as at my old fav, which was closed down and I had to give first aid every other weekend but anyways...  : ok:

When I had a karaoke gig the other weekend there was this drunk in his fifties who told me he'll wait for me and beat me up. Well, I'm still waiting.

Also the teens are a nuisance lately hanging out late and beating the older people up, a man I know, Pena, was beat up bad by four of those fuckers.

Now, I gotta wonder, am I still in good enough fighting shape if they try to mug me? But so far they've left me alone if I don't count the "gimme some smokes" stuff and when I tell them to fuck off.

An english pub, is not a place for anyone remotely not fitting the english working mans stereotype.

The majority pubs here are full of your average over the top football fans who drink far too much daily and think they are hard.

...and then they fight?

Of course people fight !!!! Damn, the retardness of when a football match is on goes above and beyond the call of the retard.

"what the.....hes cheering for the other team lads" "FUCKIN AV IT!" *bar brawl ensues, right out into the car park*

*someone takes a trip to hospital*

wow, here's it so much more civil, the guys usually fight over a spilled beer, for some girl or just for the sport.

You what? Speak for yourself !! (Or rather, yourselves. Midlands, innit?) The pub scene up here, and back when I'm home down south, has tons of variety. Pubs over clubs any day of the week, but that goes without saying, really. I swear, there was a pub that I used to frequent when I was 16/17 that would have been your wet dream. Seriously, you wouldn't have believed your luck.

Don't get me wrong, there are a ton of places to avoid, but... Well, there is also a stack that I frequent. Whether it's the student filled mess of an 'alternative' pub that I go to, or the village pub that my girlfriend works at that counts me as just about the youngest regular... By some way. And then of course there are the Ale specialist, nothing better then some o' that stuff inside of you.

They aren't always easy to find, you just have to hunt down the (and I use this word with a substantial amount of sick in my mouth) scene. I would say stay clear of Whetherspoons, but that ain't generally true, and quite the opposite in fact when they have bought out (the bastards!) a local, or, well, any decent sized pub with any vague amount of history attatched to it, it would seem.

Also, I've found that... Oh, sorry Jdog, my man. I'm not sure where that came from. You were saying?

^^^bahaha well. you see.

I live near Cannock. that was like voted the 2nd most chav filled area in Britain.

Its hassle everywhere round here. Closed minded chav types lol!

I've never been great with the ladies, but lately in my life things have been going well.  I have the first serious relationship in my life, and we've been together 9 or so months now, which is fantastic.  And she is beautiful.   Prior to this, all of my relationships lasted a few days, or a month or so tops.  It's a nice change.   :)

I was never one to try either though, cause when I was younger, I choose to spend my days learning how to program computers rather than going out.  (certainly there was a decent amount of nervousness with approaching women early on, but it's something I just had to forget about and approach them despite this).

I suppose you can become good at both, but I don't think that is in the cards for most, and I do honestly believe it's a waste of time to focus on getting laid or picking up women.    You can knock me about it, or whatever, but I really think too many men waste the prime time of their life for advancing their skills and focusing on improving themselves on getting laid.  It's fun when you're young, but you get older and look back and realize all the opportunities you missed.

And if you can do both, more power to you.   : ok:

its alright now that i think about it the liquor buissness really runs on depresion so it kind or intersting i guess

and to that other guy i agree with u the bars in the US have way to many of those steriotipical football guys id just go there to drink i really hate those guys cus i play soccer and the football dudes are seriously RETARDED

yea guys i asked her out and in 2 weeks on Friday were hangin out its gona be fun

but i still am depresed bout the shit thats happened to my famaly espesuly my older bro he got his heart ripped out by a crazy bitch

put it back in?

his battle with his heart aint your battle to fight, you have to feel good about yourself before you can help others, if not.. there's a chance your depression will spread, try getting a happier sight on life and that will help him too

i know man but i just cant help it u know

See, everything to gain, nothing to lose.

fan-fucking-tastic! :D  don't forget to brush your teeth, wash your hair (and the rest of you) and don't mumble. ;) or ramble. I tend to ramble around pretty girls~but it works for me...  :hihi:

all the best luck mate! hope it works out how you want it to.

I just wanted to thank everyone who posted here great advice ill tell u guys how it gos

but this isnt the end this post isnt just about me its about anyone that is depresed about well anything so tell your stories here and rock on :peace:

Hay guys im back but today 1/5/09 i feel shity cus exactly 1 year ago my grandpa died  :'(

Not to mention with the one chick i was talking about earlyer she forgot bout our date and she just thought we were goin to hangout as friends and rejected me i think she might have just goten a boyfriend a few weeks before i asked her out i heard its a senior kid that paints like her so im tryin to get over it but its just i dont know just what i should do everywhere i go i see you

it just makes me want to cry  :crying:lonely tear drop oooo a callin oooo but i dont want to know it now cus knowin you it wont change a dam thing

Hey man sorry for your loss.  This is all part of growing up.  We've been through it and my kids have as well.  Your too young to feel bad or worry about what will be.  You have to just enjoy yourself and not worry so much.  You'll look back years from now and wish you were able to go back in time.  Don't wait on one girl because so many others will pass you by that are most likely better for you.  Talk to your friends and to others that aren't in your particular circle as well.  It'll open more doors for more opportunity as far as friends and especially girls.  Don't get caught up in your blues, keep busy, keep studying and you won't feel depressed.  The more active you are the less you think about what you can't have or can't do.  Don't follow the crowd be a leader and never be afraid to try new things including hanging with people that you normally would shy away from that includes your parents if possible.  I'm sure if you asked your parents or other family to do something they would be happy to.  I know I'm that way with my kids.  Even if they want to go to a diner for breakfast, I say hell yeah because sooner or later they'll move out and start their own families.  Your not depressed, you are lacking self confidence and the only thing you can do to build confidence is to get out there and live life.  Keep studying, keep sports active and socially active and you cannot fail!  Make that your goal....Good Luck

Don't forget how important it is to stop and smell the flowers. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGTVRbpAuRo)

Now how can you help me help you Jesus?

You can start by  passing the bread. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VA1sx-vyWVk)

Well OK but hear this:     http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TAtRCJIqnk

yea i get what u guys are sayin its just really hard cus im also the middle child so yea we are the most parinoid and its been a few weeks and usualy by now im over the girl but im kind of not i just dont know

not to mention ive never even had a gf before and now out of the girls ive asked out both gave the kind of speach like they just want to be friends when we both knew that probly wont happen o and they were both freshman

god im so fucked up  :confused:

Sounds pretty normal if you ask me...

Not to be an asshole..

But damn, grow the fuck up. You complain all the damn time, maybe thats the reason no one wants to be with you.

You have asked 2 girls and think your depressed?  Try as many as possible.  Your letting everything lead your thought process.  Take control and move to the next and so on.  If my oldest son did this I'd kick him in the ass.  Yet he knows better and does what he has to do to keep an active social and busy life.  The kids got some hotties after him and he doesn't seem to give a damn??  It's because he knows what he wants and doesn't care what others think.  He has more cash than me (not really) and he doesn't go out with the girls just looking for a party.  At his age Holy Crap I did!  I was on my own and hooked up with whomever before I met the missus of course ;).  He has old girlfriends calling....I unfortunately know because 1. He tells me and 2. His 1st. girlfriend was in the den at 1 A.M. a couple of weeks ago just to visit the dog??  Yeah right.  Just like I wasn't a little embarrassed coming down stairs to check out noises in my boxers.  Thank god I was in boxers that night.  :- :nervous: and not briefs.  I didn't want to scare the girl or excite her  ;) Ha Ha.  If you ask 10 girls out and 2 say yes your an average baseball hitter.  3 say yes and your an allstar.

I agree with you JMack, this coming from the all star, lol.

Now when I look back,  luckily being in an relationship right now, and leaving some for the rest of you people.
I wasn't the most handsome, I wasn't even the most popular, but I got a selfesteem to share. That's the important trait.

There's a two things a guy usually needs to do to nail that hottie.

1. not to try too hard, if you do, you're desperate
2. act like you don't really care, really a girl I once dated and when we broke up she said she couldn't take me "being like I didn't care" and she had to have me. Not that I really care what her reasons were.

Also there's a mistake guys make when trying to nail that hottie, that's getting too drunk to find the courage to make a move.

Finally if you got time hang out and don't be afraid to make a move. Girls like men to make the move and nobody want's a wussy.
Also if you hang out it's more important to listen than talk.

I actually nailed a girl at a party once, after I had tried to nail her friend and then moved on straight to her, since she wasn't bad either. Not as good as her friend but anyways - and I did this, even if she was a bit pissed of at me for trying to nail her friend first.

If you doubt my advice, just check my screen name  : ok:

i get what u are sayin its that at my school there are a lot of people that hate me and ive got a lot more friends now its that when i go to my new school most of them arent goin and the main people that hate me i know are goin and they are the reason why i didnt have many friends before i went to JH then i got some friends but now i honestly I DONT GIVE A FUCK BOUT THEM now its that i dont want it to end up bein the way it was before trust me they did some shit to me that if one of them saved my lives i would still see them as dirt its that they somehow have so many chick friends even thow they act like dick heads that nows got to be the time 4 me to find a GF

i dont really complain a lot in person its that i made this thred 4 me to get some help 4 it and 4 other people that have shit like this goin on and dont know what to do and by the way would u rather complain where complete strangers can see it and try to help and u know it wont likely bite u in the ass or when tis with your friends or siblings when they can burn u about it any time but i know where u are commin from

I'd do neither, just don't complain, realize that life sucks sometimes and work through it.

u know man its been 14 days since i asked her out and she rejected me and the funny thing is i just cant keep her out of my mind

Maybe she would like you if you used some punctuation marks.

Thats really all you can do when things get tough. If you don't work through it, you end up sinking.

Mind over matter dude.  When you move on to the next some times the originals come a knockin...

Dude, your gonna face rejection so many times in life, it's part of it. You gotta stay strong through all that shit, god knows we all lose someone we really care about atleast once in our lifetime, and yea it's hard, but you just work through it and realize they wern't right for you. Thats really all you can do, I've lost 2 people that I really cared about all in the span of like 3 months, so that was def hard and still is, but if you mope around and let that shit get the best of you then you'll just never be able to be happy and move on.

That's what I tell my kids...you're going to hear "no" a helluva lot more than you are going to hear "yes."

I get 'em used to that concept real quick. ha!

God damn. I forgot just how many arseholes there are.

-hug- daww, jdog!  I'm gutted that it didn't work out for ya! But...maybe this could be a good thing? Seriously, girlfriends are HARD Fuckin' WORK! They want dates and presents and ATTENTION and backrubs and sex...you could be better off with a dog. 'Least they won't get jealous when you hang out with the guys. (no sex with dogs though. that's illegal AND immoral.)   

Plan B: just BE friends. Seriously, if you make friends with girls and they see you for who you are and LIKE you for it, surely one of the lucky lasses will fall for you? At the moment I'm getting pretty near to falling for a guy who I've become friends with...NOT gonna happen, tell ya now (and I'll deny it if it does!), but it's a little freaky how it just snuck'd up on me!!!

chin up, bro. life is full of disappointment and you can either let it rowel you or you can kick it and strive on.

How often have you given the nookie to a friend? If you become friends with the opposite sex most of the time you're just considered a friend, safe and "one of the girls".

Or maybe the girl or boy you became friends with doesn't want to ruin the friendship by going to something more serious. I know I'd think it through before I'd act.

I got a new "extra" job year and a half ago and woke up at my co-workers house the next morning, now that's how it works. You just gotta be bold enough to go for it and not try to sweet talk yourself to one of her best friends.

This too shall pass
This too shall pass

This is what you need:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FUd8MTsZqFY

Not to sound patronizing, but it's just life.  The things you are experiencing put you right where you should be at that age.  Totally normal.

Find ways to occupy your time to keep your mind off things.  Refrain from drug usage as much as possible (this only makes it worse).

Whatever your hobbies, indulge in them and stay busy.  Hang with friends, be active.  This will up your self-esteem and your chances of netting a decent girl.

dude, you're awesome.  have a hug!!

-hug~!-

Thank you.

 ;D

totally welcome bro.   :hihi:

man that sorry 4 your lose that sucks that happened 2 me about 2 years ago it didnt hurt as much back then but now i feel crapy just thinkin bout it

Jdog when I was in high school I spent hours putting together outfits to get this guy named Pat to notice me. He signed my yearbook saying that I was a really smart girl who took alot of notes. He couldn't handle that i was smarter than him. I got really drunk once and called him and told him that I loved him, he didn't know it was me. I used to walk past his house all the time. I saw him at  a friends wedding 6 years later and he was so boring. Sometimes we just want the people we can't have. I turned down 3 marriage proposals from guys who were in love with some image they had of me. I felt bad hurting them, but you have to be true to yourself. It makes me laugh to think that I could be a doctor's ex-wife right now!

^^ I agree with you. You've gotta be true to yourself. THere was this guy I was with last year. He was madly head over heels in love with me, but I just didn't feel the same way. And it killed me, because he was so so so in love with me and I just couldn't feel anything for him. He wasn't doing anything wrong, but there was just no chemistry. Apparently his heart was broken when I broke up with him. Which makes me feel awful. But I had to be true. You have to. Otherwise you'd be miserable

I know but if u dont really do anything or give them a chance i think its worse than even fuckin up sometimes ive had to learn that through personal experence im not that social and hell ive never even been to a real party but i have friends i dont know bout that shit i wish ive been to some partys not to mention ive never even been to a concert but im workin on that i guess u just gota do what u think u should do

^Pah, parties. Just a bunch of people getting steadily more drunk and acting like arseholes. Who needs it?

I take that attitude, because I've also never been to a "real" party. Like, a proper one. :P



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Who fancies coming round tonight?

trust me ive been to some kinda close and it sucks hard

the more drunk she is....

Yeah these things hurt for both of the people without a doubt though the 1 who got his heart crushed hurts more espesuly if hes been listening to some songs on CD This I Love but did u ever think he might have noticed somethings u 2 had in common that u never realized it

The less clothes she has on.

1. Depression does not equal weakness.

2. When it comes to chicks, just listen to the master, Jay of Jay and Silent Bob...

"Enough of this fucking melodrama.  My advice - forget her, dude.  There's one woman in the world.  One woman, with many faces."

3. And when that doesn't work, Jay has another nugget for you...

"Kick her to the curb.  Girls get to be too much trouble, there's always the 'band of the hand'."

Chemistry does not depend on things you have in common. It is just there or not there. Timing is also important in relationships. If something is truly meant to be, nothing will stop it. In the mean time, don't waste your youth pining away for someone who can't return your feelings.

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I found this and for some reason I thought of this thread.

I gotta get me a fucking orangutan!

Fucking AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you met my friend clyde yet?

Dude, bring him over to the house.

You can stay in the guesthouse.

I have a color TV, a refrigerator full of beer, and a sister who can't keep her legs together.

is your sister 18?
Do you live on an island?

Oh gawd, it must be paradise island!

(http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i112/Johnny_Utah26/Stuff/RIMSHOT.jpg)

It will be an island in the very near future, yes.

Dude, you're so Lex Luthor

(http://www.mattepaintinguk.com/images/122.jpg)

The Orangutan is awesome!

Just thought I'd add a little to to the covo here.

theres a little saying from where I'm from says

"whits fur ye, willnae go past ye"

Kinda like, if its meant to be, you'll not miss it so don't force things. Theres so many things to experience in life than be tied down to some girl who you think will make you happy.

I met this chick through some freinds at collage in 2001 and recently we met back up through other new freinds and have hung out a few times now. I plucked up enough courage and had a few beers and asked her out last week. Last nite we had our first date, just kinda getting to know each other, few drinks, it was awesome, fairly intense but overall am happy and I left it last nite for her to pick our second date.

Hey, she may turn out to be some crazy ass bitch at the end of the day, but am sure the ride will be fun. Theres only a single seat on my motorcyce and the sunsets that way.............

heres a quote for you Jdog

"Life without risk is no life at all and you will die alone, intoxicated and useless"

infact am thinking of getting that tattoo'd to the inside of my arm.

break out the rock music, beers and enjoy yourself, the rest will follow accordingly

nice but ive been playin that in that "band" forever man if i only had 1 gf then i wouldnt feel as lonely and yea depresion dose make u weak sometimes and through that weakness u can find a new inspration or u can just find yourself closin your eyes to the world forever

and if the girl i was talkin bout was as sluty as the girl from Clerks i wouldnt be still thinkin bout her for about 23 days now

if she would be that slutty you would think of her even next year

How the fuck didn't I get my cock sucked by the slut of the year? Now, that's a FAIL.

probobly

Nah dude, I just live on a major fault line.

(http://neic.usgs.gov/neis/gifs/ca_plates.gif)

Don't try so hard.  Don't look so hard for a gf.  Makes you appear desperate.  Try to do your best in school, even tho its not easy.  You don't have to be on the A honor roll, but you'll feel better about yourself if you see your hard work pay off with better grades.  Get involved.  Join clubs and groups when you can.  It will take your mind off your worries, it will make you a more rounded individual, and it will make you a more interesting person to others.   Being a teenager is such shit sometimes, but remember everyone goes thru it and has the same fears, doubts, and insecurities you do.  There is someone out there for everyone.  Just be patient.  Be a friend.  The more contacts you make, the more doors you open, and opportunities along with it.
Why did the other kids hate you?  Do you have to go to that new school?  Tell your parents or a counselor or someone you trust if you are being bullied.  I hate bullies.  They are the lowest of the low.  The scum of the earth.  Despicable.  Hopefully, the years have matured all involved and it will be a better experience for you at the new school.

Do not worry about the female of the species. If it happens, it happens. It is not the be all and end all of life experiences.

If you are starting something new, this will give you a chance to (re)define yourself. Find yourself a niche, make yourself interesting. Don't try to hard. Do the things that you enjoy and this will magnetise you to the right crowd.

Wish I could give you karma for this, I absolutely agree. :peace:

We need a bit ice in our stomach to get to enjoy true happiness and debth.

yeah i do have to go to the new school

as for everyone hating me i dont know it started when i got into public school ever since

as for the bullies i usualy can deal with there kind but they allways find me when im by myself and it sucks tryin to stand up to like 6 people

now i just wish this year would never end

Meh.. i'm dealing with a lot of stuff at the moment, I mostly blame that on the fact that i've cut WAY back on drinking, as I drank in order to not have to deal with all the thoughts and things that had recently happened that were destroying me. And yea, alcohol helped that, but at the same time it was def. not healthy drinking as much as I did for as long as I did. So, now i'm sober-ish and i'm finding it really hard to handle everything now, but I def. don't want to search for a way out in some drug as that artificial happiness won't last and sweeping my problems under the rug may help in the short term but in the long term it will only get harder.

Anyway, I wrote this little poetic rant the other day and I thought i'd post it here, life is so damn hard when you feel alone and have a feeling of no hope whatsoever.

Allow me to explain to you
The meaning of life, through my eyes
From a man thats seen his share of ups and downs
Life isn't special, that knowledge should come as no surprise.

You work, you sleep, you eat, and you dream
Of a future full of happiness and stability
But when you face reality, things never end up that way
People will lie, cheat, and use you, humbeling your humility.

And when everything is fading, and nothing seems right
They'll tell you to be positive, and not be so down
But in whats left of your heart and mind, you'll know they are wrong
In this extreme depression and sadness, you will soon drown.

Feeling alone, like theres no hope, and missunderstood
Feeling taken advantage of, broken again just as you started to fix your life
It's an indescribable feeling, one that is more scary than anything
Your trust missplaced and missguided, your back penetrated by their knife.

So what is there to look forward to, when you feel abandoned and hurt
Do you hold onto the thought of god and heaven, to hold your head high?
I don't believe so, though I may be considered a skeptic
So whats left, almost nothing, to the man you knew all your life you must say goodbye.

Because the facts are this world has changed you
It's made you bitter and angry, a man with a vice
Is it fair, is it right, no and it never is
But they've all made you pay the ultimate price.

You give up your morals, your everday smile
For a blank stare in the distance
An emotionless body you've become
No matter how hard you try, you can not resist this.

So call me sad, pathetic, and lame and laugh at my thoughts
Dissect my opinions, judge me, or just don't care at all
No words can change life experience, as much as you'd like them to
You hate to admit it, it frightens you, but they have made you fall.

And for the world you must put on a fake smile and laugh
Even in the face of darkness, when you feel like every breathe is your last
Because when people sense your weakness, it will just be taken advantage of
Just pray for your own sake that the feeling of lost hope will soon pass.

Wow man thats some deep stuff u should write a song bout it

o and best of luck with being sober

Guys yesterday i saw her in the hall it was the 1st since well u know and after i see her i just wanted to cry  :crying: cus it didnt seem she felt the least bit of sorrow i dont know she always dose this mixed messages bullshit i dont know any more

I'm sorry. People who send mixed messages are very selfish. Be kind to yourself. Maybe she really likes you, but she's afraid of what her friends might think. People are very caught up with social status in high school.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnS6LkyXtiY

its true ya know. be careful!

get a grip mister, are you a man or a pussy?
You get mixed messages only if you let yourself get em. Grow a set of balls and do something about it.

and cut (no pun intended) out this emo bullshit about mixed feelings.

It's either false hope or she's interested.

Here's some lyrics for ya.

I got a star for you
A little thing
You took it as a sign of love
when really it was your smile
A substitute to escape my life

I'm the razorblade when you need something sharp
I sunk deep, cutting veins to your heart
You just made me - your helping hand

You put me behind a thick wall of cement
Trying change the way I think
Your mindgames put me in a padded cell
Sitting in a straightjacket living hell!

Baby, every casual conversation turns into a powertrip
Baby, you try that bitches stranglin' grip
It's like a wicked religion where you play Jesus Christ
It's a losing game of loaded dice

I'm the razorblade when you need something sharp
I sunk deep, cutting veins to your heart
You just made me - your helping hand

Baby, the control is all you need - to become the pupeteer
If it's not your way - it's my bag of lies
I'm the stray dog that don't appease you with tricks
I won't stay, I won't sit

I'm the razorblade when you need something sharp
I sunk deep, cutting veins to your heart
You just made me - your helping hand

I got a star for you
A little thing
So look at the sky
and lose your smile
You're just my escape of life

Now, here's what I'd do;
Step 1. Build some pressure. The key to this is that failure isn't an option, a good way to this is to tell a friend she'll be the next one. (you nail)

Step 2. Go and talk to her and set a date.

Step 3. Nail her.

Step 4. Stay with her or dump her.

Guys i decided im goin 4 it and shes not vary selfish shes usualy nice to everyone unless u do somein to really piss her off

Good luck!

that was probobly my longest quote on this site

I seriously hope you get the girl this time, bro.....

I don't hope he gets the girl, i hope he gets happy with life without a girl, just 'cause he gets the girl don't mean it's guaranteed happiness, it's no shortcut, get happy, feel good about yourself, when you do that you have the biggest balls in the world and then try with the girl, that will be better both for yourself, her and everybody around you (they notice that you don't feel too good and that shit could be contagious so people stay away from you) and if you don't get the girl you still have enough balls for some other which will be better (and don't give us no crap about that she's the one.. you don't know her, hell you don't even know yourself, you don't know all the great things that you have inside you man

I hope he gets the girl. Even if it doesn't last forever, she will always have a special place in his heart. Maybe he's the next Axl Rose and he will write a song about her! Any guy who likes TIL as  much as he does is a great guy!

I agree with CheapJon.

If this kid gets this down and depressed over some bimbo at his age, well he isn't going to make it in the REAL world when he grows up. I mean seriously, isn't this kid still in school? You don't worry bout relationships this much during that age, just try and get laid as much as possible... but have safe sex, gotta throw that in there : ok:

Worry about fixing yourself, because as CheapJon said, people don't want to be with or hang out with someone that is always down in the dumps. If you fix yourself, and gain happiness for yourself, i'm sure you'll notice a dramatic change in life and relationships with members of the opposite sex as well.

Don't worry bout bimbo's man, maybe hook up with a hottie teacher if you got any to take your mind off all that bs  :hihi:

stunning advice!! screw a teacher! (pick one you don't like and have madlulz when she gets fired)


patience, jdog.  sometimes a little time to consider you is all they need.

Thax im actualy a singer im tryin to get a band but everyone i know is already in one or just dosent have the time i really am thinkin bout next year goin out for American Idiol and give it my best shot i really do have one song idea in my mind right now but its not about her im workin on that but its sounds vocaly more like a ACDC song

And by the way people right now im just takin my time and just am gonna try to reconect with her even if she dosent want a relationship with me i still want to have her in my life even after i go to th new school

what i do know is that i want to be a musican no matter what u know and she has a simular thing goin on at home and all things no matter what start there u know

Good luck! I think that you will have a great life, all you have to do is survive high school! If you make it on AI, I will actually watch it for the first time. Let us know so that we can vote for you! Never forget what William Shakespeare said, "The road to true love never did run smoothe!" You can also make a video and post it in youtube! Do that anyway so we can hear you sing!

That is so sweet. You are a true romantic.

@cheapjon. i agree, however if you find a nice girlfriend who isnt in the way n is supportive. It can be quite a comfort to have that extra provided strength in hard times. Which is what im finding lately.

How about this for a solution...

First, ya stop whining and complaining all the time
Second, close down this retarded thread cuz the emo bs gets annoying
third, get a life, don't live and die from every time a girl says no to you
and lastly, grow the hell up, your sorrow is pathetic and unwarranted. I could understand if you were so down all the time about something important, but your being stupid.  : ok:

^I don't think he works for the Samaritans...

He is 16! And he is more in touch with his emotions than most 40 year old men!

^ coming from the head of Hallmark ::)

You could say that when u are all alone and thinkin about life u learn alot about yourself and the ones u care about by goin through the situation through there point of view

as for G2NR u are the type of person i can tell i would hate so cought up in yourself be it u are a old former football player or just some person that thinks way to much of themself o and get this once IM NOT A EMO i dont cut myself to feel pain my hearts the thing that hurts the most and pain physicaly could never come close to emosional pain cus physical stuff heals in a week or so but a troubled heart could hurt u the rest of your life

o and everyone really thanks u guys were there for me when i felt at my weakest and today im gona talk to her after school so long as she comes but i really think she will i can feel it and yesterday while i was practicin some guitar and singin i just felt so close to her wish me luck ill tell u guys bout it soon

o yeah and guys im gettin high speed internet soon so i might be able to record somin for u all soon but i dont know yet well see

I look forward to it!

Good luck, my man.

I understand the emotional pain felt if someone close died. Or if you were raped or abused or just beaten up daily through your childhood.

Those are things everyone of us would have a hard time to pull him or herself through the mess of it all.

But c'mon, this girl. First you don't know a friend like you know a partner and frankly if she's not interested it shouldn't be any harder on you than when you need to go home from a pub empty handed.

The only emotional pain I recall feeling was called "hung over". Really, it's not that big a deal.

Okay, let's say she's interested, now what's there to say she isn't a jealous, cheating nutcase who end up being your a human blow-up doll to some of your so-called friend?

Or let's just say she turns out to be so dull and stupid it makes you wonder if her brain is on unemployment benefit?

And for some reason when someone says something along the lines "my hearts the thing that hurts the most and pain physicaly could never come close to emosional pain cus physical stuff heals in a week or so but a troubled heart could hurt u the rest of your life" well, it's just often happens that that person have never been in a fight which ended bad, maybe when some guys had a point to prove.

Maybe the emotional pain just don't feel that bad after someone beat the living crap out of you.

Do you think you would be able to let her go, if you weren't depressed? Depression makes people more sensitive to rejection, so are you sure you don't want her just because you can't deal with being rejected by her?

You raise a good point.  Getting happy and getting over this girl don't go hand in hand.  He'll have to do one before the other happens.

Some people just feels things more deeply than others.

LunsJail u probobly are right well i think shes interested but its that she with someone else right now im not completely disapointed becouse i just know that somewhere along the line we will get together

on another note this kid at my school just got killed it was a acedent him and his bro were high (i think it was shromes) and just fuckin around with there dads gun and i dont know how but his bro somehow shot him hes in my chemestry and in 8th grade he was in my history class he seemed like a nice guy but i didnt like his friends they are pricks but i feel shity cus u know when they are all talkin bout like the wake it reminded me on my grandparents wakes allthough i never did cry there cus my little bro was there and i thought i should be strong for him u know so it would be easyer 4 him and i think it helped allthough im not sure bout a few things anymore

hope valentine's day wasn't too much of a bummer, bro.

on another note...WTF?! a kid at your school got shot by his brother...oh man, fuck...that's so nuts...

Stop text messaging on this board.

y?

yeah and now i heard they are gona drug test all the team at my school so im bein carefull bout da beer

Great!! More for me  :beer:

seriously? well, maybe some of his prick friends will get busted and who gives a damn 'bout 'em anyway - just as long as it ain't you bro. :D

as wish, it's not like it will show anyway on the test.

yeah i dont remember who said that i dont know exactly who i am i just wanted to say u were right yesterday i remembered that i was a big bullie and get bullied when i was a little kid like from 6-11 years old and i feel like that i was something then what i wish i could destroy its vary confusing and i guess the reason i did all those terible things is that i was just so alone now i feel the same way but im not lashing it out on other people now i dont know any more what i should beleave

hay guys well now im just so confused i decided now i should test myself if for 40 days i can give up well masterbating i know that i really love my Jessica if not well it would have to depend how long it takes till it would happen

Uhhhhh, does this mean you have a girlfriend now?

Can we take you off suicide watch?

Dude, TMI! :o

seriously, what's wrong with you?

Dude think of your prostate! 40 days without a nut is bad for you. Myself? I hate porn, but as time goes on, I have to think about my health. It's all about the bigger picture bro.

Is she french and does she have a child?

does she swing?

Yeah, this thread just flew off the cliff

Not for nothing, but you could use some of those 40 days to get hooked on phonics.

http://www.hookedonphonics.com/

not quite and im not gona kill myself WTF

no 2 all 3 of those ?s but the last one i cant really say 4 sure

not in a way i mean yeah im doin this to know if i love her truely and if its true and shes still datin this one guy or some other then yeah im gona feel like shit

if i knew all the things that were wrong with me i would probobly be a lot more fucked up than i am now

Some cats in this thread need many damn years of therapy.

Yeah, that CheapJon character is really freaking me out.

this thread has damaged me

So giving up wanking for 40 days is going to win her over?  ???

only if he tells her about it, she'll understand what a sacrifise that is

 :hihi: "I stopped masturbating for 40 days to prove my love to you"

There's no way this plan could fail  :hihi:

I tried to give that up once, but it was Fat Tuesday so I had one last go and I got STUCK in the well.  And let me tell ya...when you're stuck in a well, all there is to do is well masturbation. 

Unless you've got someone stuck in there with you and you can have actual well sex.

What if it's a really small well??

Then you might just have to get off on watching each other well masturbate.

If the well's small enough, you probably didn't fall in.  

This kid is fucked up, bottom line.

His logic is so flawed that it makes me laugh, you need help man.. seriously.

What better place to get help than on the Internet, from anonymous fans of a volatile rock band that dominated the late 80s? 

im not gona tell her shit people it was just somin i was gona keep to myself i mean WTF people how fuck up do u guys think i am???

as for winning her over i dont know what im goin to do im think of somin

theres one part u left out there just the 1 of the Greatest Fucking Rock N Roll bands ever and personaly if theres one thing ive learned bout myself its that when almost everythings against me i can give them all a huge fuck u and when i have all the cards in my hand is when i fuck things up kinda like GNR o and there my favorate band i mean come on its GNR :rofl:

or so u say i think well everyone fucked up in 1 way or another especualy us Gunners i mean come on people

You should make a new thread and ask for advice then.  Seeing as we are so helpful to others and all...

Well, you told us, aren't we counted as people damnit?

And with this whole masturbation thing, which one works better D quoting Bon Jovi to Jessica "I'd die for you"

Or you "Hey, but I stop masturbating for you!"

After the obvious fail you'll just end up doing it 40 times a day.

Really, it's just stupid, you've been talking about this girl for over a month now, how hard is it to ask her out?

^Heh heh.... "hard"

find another girl?

Listen to Ill Be There for you by Bon Jovi?

Dance to Duran Duran Rio.

Drink alot to Alice Cooper poison?

sorry if thats what i interperited it as its that well u guys really just didnt plan on sayin anything to her u know sorry if it sounded like i was belittling everyone its thats shits just really fucked up and a broken heart u know just clouds your mind

o yeah and the pills dont help as much with it either

no she is not

Love Stinks. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhRMeiyret0

If you really care about her, just hope god takes pity on you in the next life...

how do you know that? suspicious

jdog...brother...it pains me to have to say this...

don't stop wanking.  if you don't have the girl and you won't let yourself fap, you're committing suicide the slow and infintely more painful way. (the way of the priesthood. -gasp of horror-)  don't do it!!

it's not something a guy expects of a girl, is it?! 

seriously...is it?

No!

I didn't think so~!


jdog, write the girl a song.  honestly. if it takes you forty days of coming back here and bitching at us about writers block, so be it...but it'll do you a lot more good than abstinence.   if it doesn't work as a song, make it poetry.


do not give up on mr lefty (or do you use your right?), he won't give up on you!

That sounds like the title of some 80's AOR power ballad...

Dooooooooon't stoooop, waaaaaaaaanking.

HOLD ON TO YOUR PECKERRRRRRR.

don't let Tap hear you singing that!! you'll be acused of Pussy-rock :hihi:

This thread cracks me up!

Jdog, just tell this Jessica how you feel; wanck a lot, the more you do the more you will control your thoughts over body and will gain a better sex life. For both of you. And the writing idea is good.

I'm sure alot of people will smile when they read that.

I love the thought of men wancking actually.women do masturbate too. It's healthy

BUM.....TIIISSHH (80s reverb standard power ballad beat)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujnH4yNqL8E

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSTwwiCEZMM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZmzA-YUjR30

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=id1Po8ryJrU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=62Nb9oYTAqQ

Hysteria when you're near ^^^

I'm telling him you said that!

There's  a bong joke in there somewhere but I can't find it.

Pour some SUGGGGGGGGGGGar on me..... in the name of love!!!!!!!!!!!

Wasted - I wish I was dead.

you Sir, have been watching way too much Much More Music! Joe would be so dissappointed in you..*tsk tsk

Why are Def Leppard being brought up in all these sex threads??

well they had a lot of sex.

my mama always told me; "don't masturbate or you'll lose that arm".

Because, apparently some people think that sex jokes about people missing a limb are funny.  Go figure. 

I almost fell off my chair laughing at your last comment, Sin Cut, 'cause it was SOOOOO  funny.    Must have taken you a few hours to come up with that one, huh?   ::)
 :P

WAHAHAHAHA! :rofl:

oh yeah, she's gonna be all over jdog if he writes that song...

^I would like a co-writing credit if he does.

eeyyyupp, ;D credit where credit is due!

It's just some armless fun.

 :rofl:

I was going to answer that query...but I was stumped.

should've gone out on a limb

Don't mess with me, cause I'm packin'.  In my country, we have the right to bear arm.

Oh god, what have I started??

I hope jdog doesn't have one arm because if he does, this thread is being quite counterproductive.


:P

how can you hope for something like that :o don't you want him to ever masturbate again? :no:

I say let him have at least one arm so he can pull a tarzan whenever needed, you're pure evil blow up

I hope he isn't Rick Allen, that would be a little awkward.

"....but it will cost you an arm and a leg" So Adam says, "What can I get for a rib?".

I'm surprised at the lack of Armageddon It references. Or is that just too far??

And I hope jdog has as many arms as he likes.

Yeah just today i got some insperation in history readin and i found that Catcher in the Rye was a book back in the time a bit after WW2 but some lyrics just hit me and i started writing and by the end of tomarrow i should have a song down for the lirics and ill experiment with my bros (one plays drums for like 8 or so years and my older bro plays guitar since like 13 he now like 27) and i might have those parts down to we will see

and by the way leftie allways

just happens sooner or latter

everyone on this page will get co-writing credit cus i wouldnt be able to even get this far without u guys :beer:

if i lost Lefty i would go insaine and just try to do it with righty but it would take weeks

i mean i am a teenager

a word of advice to parents if your son says hes taking a crap and it dosent smell he masterbated

I am so glad I don't have kids right now! :-[

It would be mass Hysteria if Jarmo just let everybody Run Riot like that...

if you did have kids and u asked where he was goin would u rather have him say "Mom im gona go masterbate back in 5 mins" :hihi:

no but honestly i am tryin to quit but so far its goin even worse that when Steven Adler tryed to get clean no offence Steven

Yep. As Churchill said: it all comes down to Def Leppard in the end.

got to go guys be back by 3 o clock bye 4 now

No, I'm just glad I don't have to deal with this sort of stuff right now. Do what you gotta do man. I just wish that you could get that date with that girl you like so much.

yeah sooner or later it will happen just cant give up and thx

You could swim in big circles.  :o

Dammit, what girl wouldn't find that attractive? I'm gonna give this one-arm thing a trial run.

 :beer:

this thread is classic, guys. 

True it is a "Classic Case"

That's funny. :rofl:

Hi everyone well right now a lot of things are fucked up at home my parents wanted to know what was goin on with me and I didn?t want to talk to them so they blew it out of the water and thought I was being disrespectful or somin and now they took everythink my tv, i-pod, (which is one of the only things that keep me from being pissed off at the world) and even my door yea my dad took my door yesterday and he was the one who started the yelling which I think is bull shit and there tryin even as I type this to send me to some military school cathlic all boys  :no:

Just tell them that you are sorry. It will blow over.

he took your door? wtf?

Yeah, that's a new one on me. :-\

yeah ive done that but somin tells me that well if i were them i would want me to think that all is forgiven and shit and when he would least expect it BAM your off to Saint Johns millitary school in Wensconson (remember i cant spell for shit i know its wrong) so he wouldnt have a chance to well get as loaded as he could before he would go :smoking:

I guess you and lefty will get to know the bathroom a bit more now then before

hahahaha you could say that  :hihi:

(o and by the way dont ask how i got on)

Not to be rude or anything, but did your parents graduate from the military academy as well?

This is my favorite thread.

Maybe your parents really care about you. Did you ever hear of tough love? Nothing makes you appreciate your parents until you get your first job and you realize that you don't make enough money to maintain your previous lifestyle.

There's "tough love" as you describe it, there's also a thing called ZERO COMMUNICATION SKILLS.

That is also true.I Met a young man who was 16 at a Buckethead concert. He was having trouble with his parents as well. He was very cute and nice, and very unhappy. I bought him a Buckethead DVD and CD, and told him that if I had a son I would want him to be just like him. His friends were annoyed, but my maternal instinct just told me to say some kind words to him.

YOU ARE HIS GUARDIAN ANGEL!

that touched me in a very special place  :love: :love: :love: :love:

Do you want to touch my very special place?

again?

It took getting used to, but after resisting your advances for years, I've grown to enjoy them.  :smoking:

HIT ME BABY!

one more time... just for you   :smoking:

(http://cache.gawker.com/assets/resources/2008/08/709552-1.jpg)

why did you cut me off from that picture  :rant:

I respect your privacy, sir.

There's some surprisingly good stuff here for a thread with "depression" in the title.

Get a room you two  :P

Makes me smile everytime I open this thread.

every time i hit htgth i go to the jungle hoping for someone to have posted something in this thread

But think, some day, this thread will be forgotten, banished to history like all the others... :nervous:

No way!  :nervous:  I want weakness and depression forever!!!

Just paying forward Buckethead's kindness.

Anybody here worried about Jdog?  He hasn't posted for a few days.

I'm guessing that his parents may have removed his computer also ::)

maybe his parents have read this thread and he has gotten help from real people :P

True.I hope so.

Hopefully he is fine and we all here from him soon : ok:

I just can't help but worry.

Hey, we're real. Maybe not real helpful but real all the same.

Your very sweet says msaxl :yes: Give it a couple of more days!!

I feel for "Jdog0830" he seeks advice on a matter which is probably very serious to him and he gets this.

sorry everyone about makin u guys worry im not in millitary school but if they do tell me im signed up for that shit im running away without a doubt

but right now i feel like i need a new begining a thank god ive found one right now ive been hangin with some people from school for a few weeks now and my one new friends girl friend tells me that this one chick that is there really thinks im hot(i bet she sees the simularity of my look and this one guy from the Bettles) and being told on friday the 13th its crazy (she is hot to and ive met her before one day from a friend) and i also was forced to see the movie City Slickers ive seen it before but didnt remember it at the time and yeah im gona ask her out on friday take her someplace by the school and yeah shes a rocker chick

could be worse how i see it i mean some people put some crazy shit from bar fights, to some crazy "evil lair," to a bunch of other shit that i dont even have a clue how many other stuff but its not all that bad made me  lol a few times

Looking like one of The Beatles can only be a good thing. They did alright for themselves...

I am so happy for you! Get an A in one of your classes and your parents won't send you to miltary school. It's probably an idle threat, those schools are EXPENSIVE!

most likely the case or thats what i thought untill they told me that they wouldnt mind making a loan but yeah its just a idol threat most likely

I think he meant "Rutles."

(http://991.com/newGallery/The-Rutles-The-Rutles-409159.jpg)

^Or Beatallica.

(http://www.hecgo.com/media/pics/beatallica.jpg)

That is so funny. :rofl:

nope i ment the Bettles

You mean George and Ringo and John and- and-


-mindblank-


oh, fuck it. 


-carries on singing Yellow Submarine-

Bette Midler?

Cosmo Kramer LOVES Bette Midler!

Macaroni Midler!

(http://img.timeinc.net/ew/dynamic/imgs/051121/135119__Seinfeld_l.jpg)

^Did you ever know that you're my hero?



If so, how did you know? Bloody stalker....

sorry nope the band is what i was talking about



ok guys right now i havent had much time to get to know the new girl and just yesterday the feelings i had after Jessica had told me she was dating someone its not bothering me as much today but it still is its hard to live your life asking yourself what if any help

that reminds me guys this thred isnt all about just my shity problems if somethings bothering anyone here please tell us your story and we will try to help

You are very kind.

How can such a sweet, loving young man not have a girlfriend?

I need answers.

oh boy, some real gems in this thread :rofl:

great stuff guys : ok:

shity luck for one  :P

^Ah. shitty luck. I know it well. I'm a patron of the church of shitty luck.


Can never fit through the damn doors though....

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actualy another is becouse sometimes i cant work up the nerve when i barely know them

BAHAHAHAHAHA :rofl:  Excellent.

This thread is something of a phenomenon.

I have heartburn and my baby is kicking me in the side.

or just fuckin crazy i dont know yet

that sucks i would just try to do somin to take my mind off that stuff what ever it is that u like to do i would do it

hey yea, laugh it up while he gets to eat his bacon sandwiches and collect off the state! ;D

dam welfare :rant:

no jk

It's a tough life but someone's gotta do it. 8)

How did they manage to have children?

I see zero possibility for sexual intercourse.

they must have used construction crains :hihi:

dam my parents are makin me go to some tharipy shit i just told them ive wanted to be left be :rant:

Seriously dude, go to the therapy, it might help. After all, you did start a thread on a message board titled "Weak and Depression". Therapy will probably help you more than us HTGTH goofballs can.

sure, go to therapy.  talking is healing...

BUT REJECT MEDICATION!!!

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http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6418981950523381596&ei=OvPKSdaPDJOEqwK--dXLDQ&q=institutionalized&hl=en (http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6418981950523381596&ei=OvPKSdaPDJOEqwK--dXLDQ&q=institutionalized&hl=en)

all I wanted was a Pepsi!

That was so fucking awesome.

not really the theripist i had to go to ive had before when i was a kid and its not really the right place for me (and they play soft classical like music that drives me crazy) and so far some of the people that can relate to me are "HTGTH goofballs"


the most frustrating part is ive been in therapy for years before and when i became about 14 i finaly got out and now im back in this shit again and ive got ADHD shit to but now its not a big problem anymore (if its still a problem for me) so ive tryed to convince them to get me off the shit but they never budge about it no matter how much "Better" ive goten and it fuckin pisses me off

I hear ya! Fuck that! Can ya get outta there, dude?  (is this a rhetorical question?   PROBABLY.)
:rant:
They think they know your mind better than you do! Fucking hypocrites make me sick! Made a plant illegal and shove chemicals into your system to make you 'normal' and does it even work?! Fuck knows!  I'm goddamn sick and tired of being a slave to THEIR 'economy' while they fuck up MY planet, oi! They put my friends in hospitals and on drugs and in therapy.  Why the fuck are there so many stoners?  Cuz there's no damn escape otherwise!

JEEE-SUS!

I want a fucking revolution!   I want a gun!  (no I don't!)  I want a banner and a mob of pissed off, fucked up, adhd bipolar autistic stepped on emo goth punk anarchistic weird awesome youth and I want to kick their arses~!!! 

-shakes fist impotently at the system-

...we're screwed if we do and screwed if we don't!  I should go back to dope and banging my head against a brick wall...

or listen to Scraped really really really fuckin' loud...

drugs are bad mmkay

and u need a therapist so much more then j-dawg :)

true but the drug (addiral) did help when i was young but now i think ive out grown the need for it and now i want to get off it before i really become addicted to it no not with addiral i would need somin stronger like the vivance shit i was put on for a while but just 2 months ago got off of its crazy stuff when you drink with it one time i remember only having 2 beers and i was buzzed all day (but i didnt eat at the begining of the day so that was a factor to)

but sereously dude go with listening to scraped loud dont get back on heroin just look what could have happened to Steven Adler it made him crazy on sober house if i learned anything from watchin that one drug i will avoid for sure is heroin

not if you dont get addicted to it and use it constantly all im sayin bout that is to "do a little" dont let "the little get more and more" :beer:

I'm glad someone said it cause I sure wanted to.
 :hihi:
People, crazy really isn't "cute."

Seek help!

That's not what the voices say. They like it. They love "crazy"....

Goodness, are you the same girl i've been chatting with in Chinese, you seem happier when you speak the other, your english speaks another language altogether :o

man today ive been thinkin bout life its way to short especualy when shit takes away so much of your earlyer years and also i asked myself how people want to remember me and i just cant answer myself its fucked up i know

i get what u are sayin bout that stuff this weekend my mom threatened me that if i didnt take the pills they would send me to a hospital to be mentaly checked its all fucked up from here

An oldie but a goodie.

I suspect you need to pay a bit more attention in school more than you need medication.

I agree. the fact that you are lucid enough to post on this message board is a good sign.

yeah i pay attention in school and stuff but they think i need the stuff to pay attention it pisses me off u know

and im all HTGTH "till the bitter end"

OK, what I mean is you need to learn how to form a coherent sentence.  You know, one that has capitalization and punctuation?  I would be scared right now to read an essay by you if it's anything like how you write here.

If you're a minor you have to listen to your parents.  They may see something that we certainly can't here by what you tell us.  Believe it or not, they have your best interest in mind.  Rebelling against it isn't going to do anything and will only serve to convince them even more that there is a problem. 

My suggestion?  Talk to them.  Talk about how you feel calmly and without the "they're out to get me" approach.

I certainly wish I would have done more of this when I was younger.  Hindsight vision is indeed 20/20.

It's because the kid listens to this devil music.

true i should be more open with them but its hard to do by where i live you got to be carefull with what you say and no i dont write like this everywhere just on message bords when im fuck 2 lazy to punctuaite and stuff

It's not just your punctuaiteshun.

hay i got "Sympathy For The Devil"  :hihi:

are the English Cops gona hunt me down  :hihi:

I wish.

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He means your avatar.


Just joking.

Because you think our eyes need to be assaulted by your horrific spelling and run on sentences?

It's EMBARRASSING when your main language is English and there are people here who do NOT type this as their 1st language and they can form a sentence better than you can.

You have to be careful about what you say to your parents where you live?  Explain this please. 

No offence Bandita, it's cool that you take the time and care to write properly.

...But I think your comment can be applied to half the online "Gn'R" community.

You didn't comment on "Gary" Aka "Ellen Degeneres' Breath" typing in "punctuaiteshun" instead of "punctuation". ^^^^^^

I think that was intentional. Read the post before his.

Yeah, well I guess that's me then, off to bury my embarrassment in a hovel  :P.

I see what your saying sorry yeah i have to be carefull what i say to well anyone around me becouse to them somethings can just be ammo i am giving them to bother me about it later.\

And i post like this i guess becouse i dont get much time online and i got to use it well and if i have made some proper grammer mistakes forgive me from it ok.

I get the feeling that bandita is going to be a kickass mom

alcohol and cigarettes

Haha, thank you!

It's because I did all the drugs and drinking when I was a teenager and already have a clue what any child has the potential to put me through! :hihi:


Yes, I know he typed it as a joke.


On topic though-

I think it's much more of a worry to be illiterate rather than what you seem to be worried about at the moment.  It doesn't take any longer to type normally. 

It depends on what you are telling your parents.  If the truth is that you are skipping school and doing drugs then of course it's ammo.  I know the stuff I said to my parents when I was a teenager wasn't too nice or too pretty so I can only imagine.

You say you feel weak and depressed yet you want to rebel against the help they want to try to get for you.  It really doesn't make much sense.  If you feel that way they don't want to see you suffer. 

It's nice that you want to post here and try to relate and communicate with people--that is certainly a step in the right direction but it won't totally fix your problems either.  Music is also great therapy.  When I am pissed off at the world I always reach for an old Metallica CD.

I am too lazy to poke around and try to figure it out, but how old are you again, JDog?

And let's not forget the obvious.

It takes a(n online GNR) community to raise a child.  ;D

Apparently, it does!

Well said everyone.

^^;;  I don't think they'd teach me how to say that in Chinese, do you?

But really, maybe everyone needs to open their eyes for a moment and realise that we're all tiny cogs in a big machine and every time we do as we're told we let that big machine stamp all over someone else's rights. And that's not right.  That's all I wanted to say. 
So maybe I had a tiny glorious momentary vision of literally taking their shit to pieces, but they have guns. I'd rather not do it the way Chairman Mao suggested, "change must come through the barrel of a gun," because I wouldn't want to see my generation go the way that everyone else's has - to war, to a shameful, painful, pathetic bloody death, "what's so civil 'bout war anyway?" I'm sure you catch my drift.
I don't want to see my friends get killed but I know that the current way of things isn't right.  ::)  Maybe at the end of this year...ha..ha....

I'm going to guess more mania for you than bipolar disorder.

This thread as a whole is bi-polar.


Something for everyone really.

I'm not gonna lie to ya... I'm kidna of blue right now.....

What is the matter JMack?

Nice but in case you guys were wondering (even though I have said this before) I LOVE ALL GN'R Past Present and most defenatly the future!!!!  :peace:

First I am 16 second things havent goten as bad as me skiping school yet and yes music is a huge thing in my life just this Monday my little brother took my i-pod with him to school without asking it fucked up my whole day. The next day was also the day of the week my parents made the therapy planed for the week after the meeting I put my i-pod on the screen lock applcation but I forgot the password unfortunatly before I thought my Birthday was the key but it wasnt so now I have to put the i-pod back to its factory settings. After on both Wednesday and Thursday I got the cold really bad and to top it off I still have to serve a Saturday Suspention for saying fuck in the hall I dont even know how they heard me in there. Now the one chick I told you guys about that I really like now but the problem is to talk to her alone I thought that next week I could take her to the movies to see the Fast and the Furious movie or some other one but I dont know if she would.

Yeah whats wrong???

But if you don't want to talk about it thats cool to.

Recently it feels like everyones out to get me hell it feels like everyones been out to get me for a while both at home and socialy now its just more at home.

Hi everyone (who evers left it seems) yesterday I had to go to the theripy thing and I told her a few things that were bothering me like my parents still not giving me back my door. She also wanted to talk to me about my older brother Tony that I don't see eye to eye with to say the least but I didn't want to talk to her about it. Also now when my parents are just pushing me in a corner and yelling at me for something the theripist made a deal with them that they would leave me alone for a while so I could calm down and the same for them I don't think they will go with it before this when I was close to loosing my head with them I had to barricate my door with old guitar...

Most people named Tony are difficult to deal with.

Ay, yo!  What you talkin' bout?


Well, I am sure she understood you didn't want to talk about it but you can bet she is going to re-visit the subject with you again. 

I think you are starting to realize that she isn't the enemy and that's a good thing.  She isn't out to get you and even wants to help you rectify the issues you are having at home.

Listen to me because trust me, I was as angry a teenager as you.  My parents tried to get me to see a million counselors and I rebelled against each and every one of them.  Funny part is that when I got older my own issues were still there and eventually I had to take myself to do the same thing they tried to help me with way back when. 

Whatchoo lookin' at?








I just bottle my problems inside.  But when I explode, holy Axl, that will be a site to see!  Hope it's captured on videotape.

You know folks I'm happy to see you're here and not some 12 year old in a suitcase at the bottom of a pond.  Or some toddler in a trashbag in Florida.

Kurt Cobain comes to mind today.  I personally don't think 15 years after him offing himself, if he was here with us now, he'd be saying he had a real complaint back then.

I understand it can be hard at times.  Those are the times you take a look around and see what it is you really have.  If you can do that without worrying about a stray bullet coming through you're bedroom wall from a drive by shooting, you've got the option to make choices in your life. 

The choice to be happy is within your grasp and up to you.  I ask you, what have you done with your choices? 

Axl had anger issues because of sexual abuse to both him and his sister.  His stepdad was a religious nut case.  Seriously, you folks with Ipods and old guitars have got way more than a lot of kids, it's called parents who give a flying fuck about their child.  Quit fighting them and look at who's on your side, you're not living with the enemy.

Will this explosion be literal or is it more metaphorical ie. one of emotion and anger, rather than blood and internal organs??

Both.

Weren't you paying attention?

Yeah I have been thinking about some of the stuff and I realized most of the stuff thats bothering me is stuff that I was like never learned but about now I have started to it's oddly like the song Yesterday I just got to get over all that stuff becouse its only hurting me now.

As for the stuff with my older brother I just don't like alot of things about him and even though he wont admit it I can see that he dose for me, and also I think he pitys me that just is something that pisses me off the way he dose it. The counselor is going to mention it again becouse she asked about everyone at the house and Tony was the only one I didn't want to talk about.

Now after today I start my SPRING BREAK so I feel alot Better about somethings.

First shit man you got to talk to someone about that stuff if you got a girlfriend then tell her chicks love it when you talk to them about that kind of stuff.

Chicks love it? And all along I thought they were attracted to guys with confidence.

:rofl:

I love this thread.

You think you've got the qualifications, the knowledge of my mind or the permission to diagnose me?  Piss off, you ignorant twat.  Psychoanalysing other people without their permission is...well, it's incredibly rude and you come off looking like a fool.  You don't know diddly about me. 


Thank you, cineater, for reminding us of the Bigger Picture.  : ok:  But I reckon the less said about Axl's issues..the better. :3

That was incredibly bad behavior cjmaxo2,  what responses were you hoping for in regards to such a post?

Well I ment when your allready in a relationship for a while.

You know your right about that stuff trust me I love them to death but there are somethings I would rather not talk to them about but the problem is they dont know when enough is enough its frustrating dealing with it.

I thoughtit would be easyer to deal with if my parents didn't know about my broken heart.

I wish I was never born.

I wish I'd have more cash, like 10 billion dollars. No, euros!

I wish I had...

One MILLION dollars!

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No love at the soup kitchen??

:no:

Careful what you wish for ::) All good fortune comes with a price :-\.

Yeah, that's so true, that's why I didn't wish for only 50k  : ok:

So true but sometimes its a price some people will pay...

You think so?

If its not true then there wouldnt be many famous people...

Wow people.... Off Topic  :P

^Surely that's a positive thing in this case??

for j-dawg maybe, not for us

Do you remember when Pam Anderson tested positive for Hepatitis B?

Man, those were some tough times.

Did she become depressed?

Quite the opposite.  She seemed to perk up around that time.

Yeah in a way but what I mean is that famous people are vary likely to be depresed and do things they regret.

what you're saying is that you're famous?

hrm, HTGTHers, who do you think the famous person behind jdog's screen name is?

Unfortunately the regret is more likely to kick in, only after other people found out what they've done.


Off Topic:

Is this a serious conversation or a joke  ????

^This thread is an elaborate social experiment.








Blow up the other boat.

Cruise, Thomas

This thread is genious, thats what it is. It just keeps getting better.

Scott Weiland?

Nah, Steven Adler

applause

Sorry guys but I am not famous at least not yet (I hope one day) right now I just am working on writing song ideas and lirics.

I wonder though would all those things that I have done in the past haunt me more or less if I was famous???

Sorry again for the confusion I havent been online lately a lot of soccer stuff is going on for me.

Now today I have been thinking you all know the one chick I told you all about that broke my heart and the one chick that I also told you guys about that likes me well I learned a while ago that they are friends and that was bothering me even today becouse I can tell (the girl that broke my heart) still has feelings for me but is still dateing what do I do???

What things you've done?! Not getting the girl?

You should grow up and not being so emo about it.

A girl broke you heart by not dating you BIG deal!

Sure, I would have a lots of advice but there seems to be some barrier - you can read the advice but it ain't coming through.

I'll try anyway.

First, if some guy is broken hearted the classic plot is that his gf has been cheating the last 2 years they've been dating. Now that I understand, the guy is broken hearted and may have it difficult to trust women for quite some time. How can you compare to that?

Secondly; if some chick just doesn't really like you enough to date (if she doesn't date you and still says she does LIKE you, she's prolly just shitting you not wanting to hurt your over sensitive feelings) just go and try your luck with the next one. What the point in crying all the time? What will you ever achieve with that, by sitting in a dark closet, listeing to estranged and crying when the "we're in this world alone"-part kicks in.

That's just pathetic.

As far as the famous go, I can't see that hapening, as long as you don't believe in yourself.

Maybe all the chicks in his town are fugly and he is shit out of luck.

I might go emo about that too if I was in his shoes.

Man I am not emo ok and yeah I'm a little unsure of myself hell who here can say that they never were if you haven't then you can tell me something that like "your dream will never come true" all right.

Everyone I am sorry about my last post at the time I was vary pissed off about the way things have been going for me recently Sin Cut I am sorry about what I wrote I know you were just trying to help and it isnt right that I took out my anger on you but I do stand by what I said about not believeing in yourself. That is that hell at one point in a persons life they go through not believeing in yourself at least about one thing.

Sorry again guys but I know now what I got to do about a deal of my problems now thanks for everyones help here and again hell lets hear also from some people that are depresed or troubled becouse at least for me I know Gunners help each other out. :peace:

Good luck to you jdog0830 : ok:.

Does this mean you got your door back?

fuck doors. get some of those 70s beeds.

Hey I actually bought some of those for someone at Christmas, only they were made of bamboo with a big marijuana leaf in the middle.  Can't imagine Jdog's parents being to happy about one of those no doubt.  Course I probably wouldn't have appreciated my kids having the idea either.

Yes I got it back just this week.Your right my parents would be pissed but the time before it would be so much fun!!! :smoking:

You should take their door away.

Their reaction in the morning would be priceless.

^

i agree. you gotta get inside their head. get creative. pull some Wile E Coyote shit on them.

and remember when life gives you lemons, you clone those lemons and make.... super lemons :peace:

I'm starting to like this kid.  : ok:

I'm more partial to a set of olde-tyme Wild West saloon doors.


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so.. how did things go with lefty while the door was taken hostage?

 : ok: haha

Is Bruce Willis involved?

I'm beginning to think that's why they took the door to begin with.

You're saying his parents like to watch? disturbing shit, j-dawg i feel fer ya pal

No it was becouse I used a old acustic guitar that cant play right to "Barricade" my room when I wanted time to myself and no thats not just for the time I was using good old lefty but when I was angry and depressed and just wanted some time to think things out for myself. Unfortunatly my parents (mainly my dad) thought I could be doing something to hurt myself and they know me Dam BETTER than that to think I would do something like that when they know me so well.

For the time without my door all our bedrooms are on the second floor so I could tell if they were coming and I would be behind my bed so they wouldnt see my lower area. : ok:

nuttin like wakin off ta make the day lol. : ok:

I love a happy ending.

Yeah, wakin really is the best part of the day.

Folgers...nothing comes closer to home!

Men are very innovative.  We can find a place, anywhere, anytime to touch ourselves in our no-no areas.

 :smoking: :smoking:Yep ya got to do what you got to do and when its not someone else its yourself.

just be careful. ya dont wanna fall into a long term relationship with your hand.

My hand-modeling career came to an abrupt end...

I could have been one of the greats.

 :hihi:Its a bit to late for that this summer its our 4th or 5th year aniversity. (hahahaha)

Well theres always a chance for a comeback just got to work at it. Holl Shit at this point I dont know what happened to this Forum but at this point who the fuck cares its as random as it should be but it is still about helping people.

Helping people help themselves.

 :o

Yeah I was thinking something like that.

Ya it used to be "The best part of waking up is Folgers in your cup" lol.

never a good idea to date coworkers :no:

my hand modling job ha ha ha ha ha.

Hi everyone I am feeling depressed today still thinking about the girl I told you all about like 5 months ago I miss her hell I feel empty I just want to go to sleep listening to some GN'R sad songs and other sad songs.

get over her

listen to danko jones and hatebreed

drink some beer

get a new girl

think of everything that's better with the new girl

think of everything that sucks with the old

I want to but I cant hell I love her but now I want to just kill the pain and its been raining alot where I am at so November Rain is my most listened to song right now.