Here Today... Gone To Hell!

It hurts terribly, but it's just a fact of life.

Unless you never love someone, or unless you are very lucky and find the one person right away, going through a break up is just a sad fact of life. To love someone, to trust someone, to have faith in someone, and then watch it die...it's just the way life is. And while that's a sad truth, maybe we can take comfort in knowing that it's just part of life and something that most people go though at some point in their lives, sometimes many times.

Thats deep man


Did the buttocks thing get in the way??

Is this a buttocks thing?

nah...not at all.

 :( I know what you're saying.

here's a big hug.....with my buttocks ;D ;)

Sigh..

Yes, it does hurt.

One is luckier if the process is quick, it's worse when it takes ages and ages because of administrative bullshit.

well if you wanna live a nice life you will live for a moment.
And love give us a great moments.
god gave us love.
life wthout love,isn't life.
you can love your family,your friend,your girlfriend,your wife,your dog,your country.

YOU HAVE TO LOVE GUNSNROSES

^ : ok: :beer:I love that
my new favorite quote

IS the worst feeling that any human being might feel, or at least for me, exactly for what you're saying, to love someone to trust someone is not something you forget from one day to another or even find from one day to another, it requires time, and when it ends you always wonder did I did something wrong? what happened, was it all that love wasted? I mean that's it?, well.... we all have to move on, we lose we learn.
I broke up with my GF in July and that was crap, actually we were having these weird times long time ago, but the love is always there, then bang, she's with another one  :crying:

It's a hard life - Freddie Mercury.- That's all I can say

Did you break up with Jarmo or something?  :no:

reading this made me feel a bit better.

4 weeks since i split with my gf who i was with 1 year and a half and im seeing the dieing part atm.

it sure is crap.

No, in my heart i did break up with someone but a long time ago.

The physical and financial process is now and i am a WRECK

Freddie was gay.

Sure the game gets hard when it's played with your heart, or her's.

Then again, when I go there, I'll be winning, lately I'm making sure of it. And the downside is; don't I take her further cos in the end I get more used to first night and goodbyes, or am I infact just searching for something too perfect.

'Cos really; when too many women get at you with some personal shit, it gets harder and harder to open up.

And if you're not giving anything of yourself, well, you all now how it'll be.

And when they push me into going steady. I leave.

If it's anything to me; I hope they had knockout friends.

Being praised as a good guy in you know what never hurts in nailing.

Ever breakup with someone and they are still with you, wherever you go? I can't sit on my sofa without thinking of the time I lay there with my former gf, or go to a park and not think of the time we were there together, or ride the subway over a bridge and not think about the time we were on that bridge, on the train last summer, and she rested her head on my shoulder and I saw the reflection of us in the window.

Two breakups for me in 2007...? :'( :-\

chalk it up to a bad year hon....it will get better as the memories gradually fade.The next beautiful woman is right around the corner,maybe this time she will be the 'one' :-*

Days n' Nights
Laying here in bed, havin' troubles tryin' to sleep,
Memories coming' back to me, deeply
Remembering all the times, we spent together,
Not a day goes by, where I don't think
Of how we spent our days n' nights,
Sittin' around, talkin' jokin', just bein' ourselves

We spent out days n' nights, together,
We were like no other, unseperatable,
The only person that I thought, was worth knowin'
My love for you, ain't able to be matched,
And it's always showing,
n' shining bright, lightin' up my nights,

All the time, I'm thinkin' n' wishin' that
You're alright, you gotta do whatcha gotta do
To get through the lonely nights

Baby, you're what I've always wanted,
Brought me what I never could have had,
'till I met you, I was just a loner walkin'
On my own, on a road, to nowhere

All the time, I'm thinkin' n' wishin' that
You're alright, you gotta do whatcha gotta do
To get through the lonely nights

You're my vicodin, easing the pain I've,
Endured, for so many years, but now
I have no fears, 'cause of you
You're my drug of choice,
Something others can't have
When I'm with you, I'm just so high,
No one is able to cause me pain,
When I am with you, cause you,
Saw my true colors, n' showed no mercy,
In gettin'  to my hardest spot, but you got there,
With no fear...

All the time, I'm thinkin' n' wishin' that
You're alright, you gotta do whatcha gotta do
To get through the lonely nights

If you need anyone, you know where to turn,
I'll always listen, with open ears,
n' with an open mind,
Ooh, ooh, ooh anytime, day or night,
No matter what...

It's kind of a shame, to not have,
you, where I wrap my arms around,
you n' be able to feel n' have
Someone to tell me...
It's alright

get laid,

Helps every time.

I happen to have a date with a girl I nailed on saturday.  :peace:

you mean with the girl and her ass? :-\

Know what you mean, sweetheart.

Hurts like a bitch.

I hope that line was supposed to be sarcastic, but even though, you think a gay can't feel love or heartbreaking?

are you gay?

Closest thing Sin Cut has came to something gay is when he was letting a Transvestite suck his dick for a month.

D.. now why would you admit sucking my cock?

From my experiences, if you really care about the person, there is no worse feeling in the world than them walking away.

     Yet another person looking forward to 2008.  Breaking up is part of life and it happens for a reason.  The right one will come along or come back.  I just had to help my son deal with breaking up with his chick after a year.  There are a lot of feelings you go through but you deal with it and move on and hope for the better one to come along.  As a matter of fact, He just started seeing a new girl who is real cute and he has a lot more in common with her.  She is the total opposite then the last girl in many ways.  I liked the last one very much but the new one is a real sweetheart who after just 1 month I treat her like my own daughter but a lot less spoiled.
     Until that person comes along just go out and have fun and don't think to much about the past because you'll end up getting in your own way.  Good Luck.   

Worry not....the music of Guns N' Roses will save you in such times....that's what it is for.....

I agree. Certainly has helped me through some rough break ups.

And I've learned, as rough as a break up can be, as much as it hurts, the next time you fall makes you completely forget how it felt to be hurt.

That's always the key to me, is to go into the next relationship or situation as if you'd never been hurt before. Sure it can sting when it goes bad, but if you don't let it all out there each time, you never know what you could have missed.