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Would you rather have intercourse with a virgin or with a woman who has had experience?  Explain why please.

Virgin


First few times won't be great but U can mold them and train them to do it exactly how UUUUUUUUUUUU like which is fantastic! : ok:

Was the ambiance wrong or something to make your first time not so great?

I would chose an Experienced Woman. Even though I've never had sex with a Virgin.

Why?  I thought it was every man's fanstasy to have a virgin.
Virgins are clean and you don't have to worry about catching any nasty STD from them.  Explain why you feel the way you do.

you must be a virgin, right spaghetti?

For one, Virgins are soooooooooooo Tight, U have to be extremely gentle and careful.


With a more experience girl u can try to break her ribcage.

Experienced.

And to every young guy over 18 on this forum... find yourself a perverted older woman who likes young guys. Might seem creepy at first, but don't think about it ... just do it. Do it now  : ok:

My 17 year old cousin is and I am going to show her this thread because she just started dating this guy and I want her to make sure the guy is into her and not just in it for sex. ?I personally think it's better to wait and share that part of yourself with the absolute right person.

technically, a virgin has an intact hymen.

But she could be an adept of having it up the bum regular, an adept of oral sex and having plenty of fingers fiddling with her vagina over time, and she could be giving blowjobs to half her school.

Clean ? Nowadays ? No std's ?

Wow, talk about unexperienced unrealistic views there !!!!

Okay Drew and D,

You two have been lingering in this thread for some time.  Spill it :hihi:

I wouldn't say you don't have worry about catching something nasty. She could just as easily have AIDS and others STD's while still being a virgin.

As far as explaining myself, I guess it's just my personal preference. Sure having a virgin is a fantasy, I'm not saying I'd turn a virgin down but the question was who I would choose. A woman who is experienced more than likely knows what she likes and knows how to fuck.   ;D :yes: ;)

My cousin is a true virgin. ?She's a good kid. ?This is her first serious relationship. ?She has had NO contact with fingers or oral sex or anything like that so she is clean and doesn't have any STDs. ?Not unrealistic at all. ?There are some women out there who actually do care and respect themselves enough to wait for the right time.

are you american ?

Because in france or in england, you won't find many who don't fiddle with boys their age, it's hormonal and natural.

Are you married? ?If so, would you rather your wife be that "woman who knows how to fuck" or would you rather have a virgin bride?

Yes and I just know my cousin and know she's never been touched.

May i add that a woman who respects herself is a woman who respect her desires.

Being staying a virgin or having loads of sex.

That's part of becoming an adult, making decisions for one's self.

There is no right and wrong, for no one can live your life for you.

I thought this thread was a question for all the MEN on this forum, no?

And you are wrong.? A woman who has loads of sex is labeled a WHORE by men.

And if a man has loads of sex, he's viewed as a stud.

well, it's the man in me speaking then.. :rofl: :rofl:

I'm not married nor ever have been. I don't care if my wife's a virgin or she's experienced, even greatly experienced. That's not what's really important to me anyways. If we are truly in love with each other and are best friends, that's what is really important. Sexual history shouldn't matter.

Sure, if they don't have a mind or any opinions of their own. 

I wouldn't take a virgin, first of all I really can't understand people who value this virginity so much. What's the big deal? Sure, there's a middle road in all of this and I feel that both being with the only bicycle of the village that eveyone's been on and the virgin to be both as.. erousing.

Also it always takes it's time to train a virgin to know sex. And when you break up, and I bet you will, since most of the people don't just leave it at one sex partner it must be busting one's nuts to know that someone else is enjoying all the neat tricks you trained her to do.  :hihi: Now is that fair?

At least the decent thing to do is to come and give you some too.

Third, I wouldn't sleep with a virgin (unless she's the only pretty girl at the bar ready to give) since usually they expect more and for me it's sex. (what's the thing with sleeping with a chick and next morning they think of family?! I mean c'mon!)

Third, experienced women are more likely to agree into threesome, now spaghetti_incident, that truly is every man's fantasy.

Well, you asked for it.

(And if the men say they are not into that, they just know they can't satisfy two girls and don't like the humiliotion, or have a small dicks, then prolly one laugh a night is enough) (girl: it looks like a nude rodent)

My bottom line is if sex isn't that important to you and you're willing to go through with the effort to train someone, sure go for it.

But if you got better things to do;
1. go with a chick with some experience
2. sit back
and
3. enjoy

It beats the;
The dude:
ouch, watch the teeth .. (... what the hell is she...) hey suck it.
not that hard, it's not a straw.
that's better..

The miss just-lost-her-virginity:
I'm sorry, my mouth is tired.

The dude thinking: (shit, it's not like she's a good ride yet anyway and I'm beat...)

But after all;
Great sex, it's just that, great.
Bad sex.

Well it's still good.

 :o

Well, I guess that ends this thread ;D

I'd have thought that Sin Cut would have gone for "whoever I'm sharing the cell with."

If it was a one time thing, the experienced one is the obvious choice...in a long term relationshipt it's debatable..

  I personally think the ideal situation is that your girlfriend had exactly one partner before you. That way, that poor fellow already did all the hard work, adn if you manage to be better than him (which isn't hard, you'll be different, and she'll love it), you'll be her sexual God. And she ain't a slut either.


 

The question is different for all people. When I was younger, a teenager, insecure, inexperienced, nervous, I would have answered virgin, because I would have wanted somebody to be on the same level as me. It's difficult enough starting out as it is, you don't want to feel as if somebody is completely judging you. You would prefer they feel just as awkward as you do.

After that phase of my life I would probably have preferred experience, just so we could have fun and enjoy ourselves, without having to get past any barriers, physical, emotional, fears, phobias, hang-ups whatever.

Of course now I'd prefer a woman who was totally experienced, and at my age (you can almost carbon date me at this point) they all are. I think sex past your late 20's is the best. All the inhibitions, taboos, bullshit is all gone, just have fun and enjoy yourself.

It's really not that black and white, although I never understood guys who wanted to have sex with virgins. What is the point? The entire point of sex (other than reproduction) is to have fun, having sex with virgin, is not fun, and I always wondered about guys who wanted that.

you sure know a lot of intimate stuff about your female cousin. A little weird if you ask me  :no:

well,i tried both.
for me sex with Experienced woman is much much better
older woman can teach you some things and secrets in makin of love

vote for experienced woman

my experience said this

and in my country it's very very hard to find virgin girl (i 'm talking about 16+ ages)

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I have been thinkin the same thing. :hihi:

Isn't it obvious? She's the cousin.

If it was just for sex, someone experienced for sure!! More experienced and more comfortable to do more positions and more entrances  :hihi:

I think that your cousin ( or you, ?:P ) should go ahead. 17 is okay to lose one's virginity. I guess that if you ask the question, it's that the guy is already asking for more than some French kisses, ????
Seriously, a woman 's got to choose. If you ?feel uneasy with a guy, then it's not okay to force yourself into doing things you don't want to do. You gotta talk with the guy and not feel ashamed. It'd be better if the guy had some previous experience. An unexperienced guy is not that great for a first time, trust me. ?Way like a virgin woman is for guys here, ?:hihi:
Both of you have to try to create a cool situation so that the stress goes away .

A virgin is a definite fantasy, but I'd prefer a woman who has had experience :)

i lost my virginity in 17,some y friends did that earlier and so e later

my first expirience sucks

for me the best sex expirience you could have with person in love

My best was with a girl I knew well but with whom I had no strings attached.

Sure there's been some amazingly good one nighters. And sure you gotta do it good if you just do it once, or twice, or.. well, whatever.

Maybe.  Mine was with some dude I'd just met a few hours before but he was experienced (over 10 years older than me) , that surely makes a difference. He did everything he could to make me feel cool about it,  8). So this is why I think it's better to lose your virginity with someone more experienced

And how old were you then, Lolita? ;)

I was 18, the guy was 34.

Damn Anna Nicole. Did he give u a lollipop afterwards? :hihi:

How about both? ;D

If it's a one-nighter surely it doesn't matter how well you perform? If the idea is a quick, easy lay then your only concern should be to ply the consenting individual with Grey Goose and then lay back and reap what you've sown. Otherwise, where's the pay off? You buy the drinks and do all the work? While I admire your commitment I also laugh in its face. Whatever happened to nature taking the course of least resistance? 

An experienced virgin? Or a tag-team?

Some of the responses in this thread are ignorant anyway.

What type of Virgin would have a one night stand?

we in sweden call them fjortis (means "fourteenish") u know the kind of girls who wanna have sex, smokes, drinks and other stuff like that to be cool. it's sad

i wish we had fjortis in America :(

Sweden sounds kick ass, whats it like there?

they get all addicted to you and you have to chase them away with a broom  :no:

If you live in America you couldn't do Sweden without a month-long acclimatization program to prepare your body for the clean air. It's lower-octane, you need a converter. 

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Hey, I gotta keep up to my reputation : ok:

And I won't by her any drinks, can't remember any time I've done that, expect when I'm dating.

And I sure make em work, too.

Sure I could go just to blow my load, but dude, that ain't how I play. And at least it makes me feel better when I know she'll be comparing guys to me for a while, lol.


I've found some. Trust me, they're out there.

Ha! Well, as long as you believe that, all is well with the world.





On topic; Seems like the trend if the responses in the thread points towards people wanting to get laid a lot more than not wanting to. The virgin/experience aspect seems much less important. Another victory for science.

It's been so long for me, it really doesn't matter at this point.

However, experienced is good, however, not someone waaaaaaaay more expereinced than me, that's no good.

Why is that?

 ;D An experienced virgin all the way... ;D

Because he doesn't have to strap a board on his ass so he won't fall in ::) geez SLC...

an experinced girl, not too experienced but enough to know what she likes, i love to make a girl happy and enjoying, coz if she's enjoying it, i'm enjoying it!