Here Today... Gone To Hell!

Well, i broke up with my american girlfriend, a month ago .we're still friends.

* please dont think i'm trying to be arrogant or anything *

it happens that i am starting to date a new girl. and she is a famous model - she is plastered all over the Parisian metro, as she is the Egerie/model for the biggest Departement Store in france, and does many of L'oreal cosmetics ads ... -

what is the problem you would say?

well i went out with here once. she is cool - older for a model (23) so she is not a stupid 60 pounds wanabee from Ukraine (sorry for ukranian ;) ).
But i have *learned* from co-workers that she is high maintenance and all.

i am not poor, i have a good job. but if the girl is used to go out with richer people, and getting payed 1,000 euros for an hour photoshoot, i feel kinda wierd, me, 24, taking here places or stuff like that ...

what would you do ? have sex and go ? go out to the places you would normally go ? try to live *above* your money (?) ? ....

wierd issue, i know. but i was thinking that, like, for example if you meet a famous actress and you're poor and all, how awckward would that be ....

i have a difficult life i know  :hihi: :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

have sex  ;) and go to the places you'd normally go to and see if she is "satisfied" with that if she's not, save your money, she aint worth it..



couldn't u come up with that answer yourself?

that's not the answer i could come up with, cause i aint no choice, i wont pay more for a girl just cause she is used to have money around.

i wanted to hear what people would do, cause men would do crazy stuff for women ... :(

Just be yourself and get as much sex as you possibly can. She'll leave eventually anyway, so why spend money that is above and beyond your means?

I thought your American g/f dumped you.  In any case, I always thought you liked the high maintenance girls so go for it.

slc, yeah. i will do that ... i'll take her to mcdonalds.

cornell: yeah, well no need to put the knife back in the wound ;).

i'm ok with high maintenance girls when they come from *my world*. but with that new one it's like .... i am ... not enough money-wise, party-wise, traveling-to-milan-for-the-week-end wise ....

we'll see. at least i'll know what it feels to date a model ;) .... (that was dumb ..)

PEACE
i'm off playing Nintendo Wii ! .... i mean drinking champagne and snorting coke in my luxurious jacuzzi ..... ?_?

HAHA, c'mon man, you can do better than that!

Honestly though, I enjoyed my early 20's being dead broke, no furniture in my apartment,  without even a car, and I never had a shortage of girls (I had a matress, a tv that sucked, and a table-haha.) There are plenty of girls (at that age anyway) who don't care if you have money, or where you hang out. It's YOU they are interested in. The ones who are picky, aren't going to be interested anyway. So, have fun, get as much sex as you can at your age, and if she loses interest, then oh well, you had fun.

Sorry about that, but you would have seemed much less arrogant if you wrote the truth. ;)

SLC - did the high maintenance chicks track you down back then?  I doubt it - I see you more with a down to earth chick.

Quand je faisais mes castings, au d?but ( il y a de ?a 16 ans), j'ai rencontr? une jeune femme qui avait passe 15 ans chez cosmopolitan new york.
Sublime, sympa, intelligente, elle avait tout connu, m?me le pire. En tant que mannequin.
Elle a fini par epouser un pauvre et tenir un bar avec lui.
Je ne peux pas te donner plus d'infos. Par respect.

Mais c'est possible.

Ces pauvres filles r?vent d'un mec qui les aiment pour ELLES, par l'image qu'elles projettent.

Bonne chance.

NO, i will not translate.

I had a borderline high maintenance girlfriend for seven years.

Never again.

Down to earth is about as sexy as you can get in my opinion.

Fuck, if she makes a grand an hour, she can pay to take YOUR ass out!  :hihi:

If you're smart, you'll turn this into the next celebrity sex tape opportunity, make some $$$, and retire early!

:beer:

Post it here first of course.

I think that goes without saying...

But I will!!

And the angels said in the time of the frog that a badgerarmy should appear (about a thousand and 16 of them), they will bring tea and marksmanship and 15 rolls of cheese.
As the storm passes by, put up your umbrella, you might get wet. Especially if you live next to an archipelaggo.
And dont forget the knives, lots of knives. Respect dude.

It might be possible.

Make love to a tent or a small CABIN, you get the picture.

Good luck!

Aucun je NE traduirai pas.

I do agree with jessica, and things can play out in many different ways.....

dont go retarded and spend all your cash... just date her screw her..... and see where things go..... just dont be an idiot....... well with in reason.... she is a modle... and the small head will make some decsions... :P

I think you know the answer to your own question and just posted so you could brag about banging a model and maybe hope that your ex american girlfriend sees this thread somehow. 

This is a no brainer, you might as well have asked, "should I be breathing?"

totally agree man ^

Just be yourself and take her to all those cheap beer bars and strip clubs you frequent  :hihi:

I could not agree more. With these type of people (takers), the only strategy is to become a taker  too and get while you can and never  look back. Do not become emotionally involved  because  this situation is not going anywhere  and will not  end  well if you do.

yeah you really have a difficult life ::) you lucky bastard ;)

i say if the oportunity comes i say fuck her then see if she wants a relationship if so your in for more fuckin' if not well then you can say you fucked a super model :hihi:

but if your the one that wants a relationship that leaves you to be vonerable, but if you just think with your dick and not your heart then that posibility will diminish ;D and if she wants to be together i say take it for sure.

:peace:

^^^Ding-ding-ding!  We have a winner.   :hihi:

Personally, I wouldn't waste my time with a "high maintenance" chick.  SLC said it best, "down to earth is as sexy as you can get." 

i hear you guys. and no i was not bragging. cause i'm not *banging* her yet.

and actually, i posted it here cause my ex- does NOT know this site, while she knows chinesedemocracy.com .

i'll see what'll i do, but i dont want to feel like i can't take her where she is used to go.

PEACE

Damn, she must have some hot friends too, threesome dude, threesome.

Fuck her brains out.

Seriously tho, I've dated some models and with the first there was a an ex-bodybuilder-bf who was extremely jealous of her so it was a I needed to watch my back kinda thing. But it was fun, maybe 'cos of the exitment, and the girl was fun, but eventually we agreed there's too much distance between us and she was almost every weekend at some model shoot and fuckin hell if I'm going to visit her more than she's visiting me.

The other one was just a snob full of herself so it was just sex.

I hope at least that you've had a test drive of her now. Don't eeven think about the money stuff before you nailed her, then if she's worth it also mentally think about that and if money becomes and issue.. well I'm sure you'll find cheaper whores.

I'll agree with SLC with the down to earth. I've dated girls I think are prettier than these models, and it's hell-of-a-lot more nicer to date a girl that looks fine and isn't a model, just my preference.

However I wouldn't say no to a model either.

Anyway, tell me when you've nailed her and put a pic of her and you and you have my total respect dude.

I have found that it is best to just be honest up front. Do not go into debt or make life hard on yourself in the future for a girl.

If she is the right one, u won't have to do all that. If she dumps u cause u arent rich and can't take her places, then to me that just says she wasn't the right woman for u.


Maybe she has the money and she just wants someone she can be herself around and have a good time with, She probably already knows u arent rich *unless u lied* of course. So if she knows your job etc etc and she still wants to be with u, I say her feelings could be genuine and in that case, there is no need to live beyond your means.

well, yeah.

i do NOT intend to make her my girlfriend or anything. It was just so wierd to me that i hesitate even dating her, or going out with her a couple times, because of this *status*.
I didnt lie to her, she knows me, I have a pretty good job (in some ways i am her "boss", as she modeled for some of our products ...), it's more about the fact that i would think that she is used to date richer people, and is used, through her job to travel europe and all ... she's from australia/netherlands.

feminism is fucked up. money is fucked up.

i ain't posting picture of her naked. i mean ... well ...
if cd comes out before July I will :) PROMISE.

Jessica: merci, ton histoire ?tait interessante, tu as des infos plus pr?cises sur ce bar? ;)

You always need to watch your back. Maybe you should consider screwing a few less supermodels with ex bodybuilder/marine/UFC champion/professional boxer/navy seal/delta force/Klingon boyfriends in the back of your pimped out limo, dude.

i can't watch my back. maybe with a mirror i can, but not really.

Try two mirrors. Works every time.

If she is rich, let her pay.

High maintence girls are short term fun. i would definatly have sex with her. . . Why not.

personally hot women are a nightmare to date. especially models they always want more from my experience.

Never date more than an 8.

Klingon  :rofl:

Good one.

Now really here's an example how to treat a lady, an conversation I had with my friend one summer
We were sitting in a park we're there was a toilet you needed to pay 50cent to get in.

"Hey that good, now if I find a giving girl here, I got my own 'motel' room for her"
"Too bad it costs money"
"Well, it's not like I'm going to pay that alone, damnit!"

So now you're dating.. what, hideous ones?

(http://www.citypaper.net/clog/wp-content/uploads/2006/06/HideousFatHickWoman.jpg)

More cushion for the pushin' ;)

Personally, I find most (not all) models to lack intelligence or a curiousity to know more about the world. Mostly they like to talk fashion, latest bands, and gossip which can occassionally be fun. Also, they never went to veer out of their comfort zone for fear of looking like a total ass - that really sucks because you never do anything new or interesting nor do they ever let their hair down or get nutty.

Fuck her, don't become romantically involved. Or don't let yourself unless you find she is serious and the type of girl you could see dating for a while. Otherwise, in the words of Liz Phair - Fuck and Run brother!

Oui, mais je ne peux pas te les donner.

 :-X