Here Today... Gone To Hell!

i feel weird asking for advice ona  chat room thing but there is no1 online and i need it quick.

i'm 16 so its prob typical teenage shit but hey...

there is like the hottes guy ahaha i really do like him. but he was just a general aqqaintance untill saturday night when we spent most of the ngiht talking at a party. today me and my gay best friend met up with him and we had a really good time, apparently he was realy flirting. my mate is texting him now about me, but refuses to tell me what he is saying, other than that he like sme and he dosnt want to ruin the suprise or something, which is prob good news.

but i'm already going out with someone, who is a lovely guy, but it just aint there, you knwo what i mean? i've only been goign out with him for a week and a half so it aint exactly a long term relationship lol it really just feels like we're mates. and i need to end it, not just for the other guy, but because, well i do lol. and this would be fine, but he's going on holiday not tomorrow but day after for 2 weeks. i could end the relationship if he wasnt goign away, bt i feel harsh just before or during his holiday. lol but i really dont wanna end up cheating when he's away, because i coudlnt do that to him because eh means alot to me as a friend. i'm seeing him tomorrow for before he goes away. he's onlien now, what should i do?

i like the other guy so much, ahaha prob a little crush or somehting, but omg he's hot ahaha i really dont wanna wait 2 weeks.

i feel temtped to text my bf while he's away so i dont have to face it straight awya haha but i coudltn do that while he's on holiday becuase its abit mean. whats the best thign to do?

ahaha omg i feel like sucha  tard because it sound slike such immature problems ahahaha but argh

Well as for your current boyfriend.  You said it yourself, it's just not there, so you may as well dump him, and sooner is better, no point stringing him along, fine if you left it 'til after his holiday he'd be happy and ignorant while away but why hold back.  Hell he might thank you he could have a holiday romance ;) , as for this other dude, sounds simple enough, he likes you, you like him your friend seems to be helping things along, is your gay friend a bloke though, ya never know he might be after the guy, oh and if you're gay friends a woman, ignore that last bit ;) :P

ahah fuck, i just read that back and i sound liek an emo shit crying over nothing. seriously i aint. i'm not good with awkward situations, even thoguh this aint even that bad, i just normally have a mate to tell me what hurts people less but there isnt one available.

ahaha hankyou, thats exactly what i wanted ot hear really. and yeah, he's a guy, and yeah, he fancies him, but the guy is straight, and my mate is a good guy.  so should i msn it now? or be brave and cope wiht the awkwardness of doign ti tomorrow?

I'd msn it, but i'm a cunt :P

The 'right' thing to do, would be to do it in person..... :yes:

haha ahhh fuck fuck fuck. i hate this feeling of nerves and guilt when you have to break up with someone. aaaand if i msn it then i dont have to see or speak to him for 2 whole weeks after!

Do what Dr. Stoned says. If you only have been going out 10 days or so it won't be much of a break up. Just say it gently with a smile and bob's your uncle.


Then he can have fun on holiday and your in there with Party Boy  : ok:

Doctor....awesome.

I must of misread that first time, you've only been seeing him 10 days :o

Where's the problem, i'd definately take the easy option, it's not like your issuing divorce papers over msn.......

Edit: And Evo dude sayin' it with a smile implies you're enjoying doing it :P

I'm no saying beam away, but at least don't be down in the downs with it. Might help him see it as the positive it is!

argh shit he went offline. ahhh well good old friend text haha. thats worse than msning it but oh fukin well i'ma  spaz. i just needed someone else to write somehting out and its so much easier to go for it tongiht.

ahh well sorted. had to be the worst message evr aswell haha but he'll get over it =) thanx lool i need to learn how to cope with anythign remotly difficult without having to confer with someone.

Here ya go...advice from a 30-something with a wonderful wife and 2 kids...you're too young to be dating!  Forget the parties and hit the books.  You can party on the weekends after you get into college.   :beer:

Damn I'm old!   :rofl:

hahaha he is crying now ?;D

ahaha its time between school and college, this time is made for parties!! and too young to date? pfffffffffft ahahaha

Well said Stoned!!!!

gang bang

Do not tell him while he is on vacation unless you hate his fuckin guts, then go ahead. ;D

they've been going out for a week and a half, how hard can it be to get over it?

haha yeah, he'll get over it. even though he takes a while, he went out with a girl for a DAY and i doubt he's still over her  ::) but she fucked him about. hahaha it all sounds so funny to me really, its so commical.