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April 28 2006

Slash has filed for divorce from his second wife, Perla.

The couple filed for divorce in Los Angeles on Thursday, April 27.

Slash met Perla after the divorce of his first wife Renee in 1997. The couple became engaged in 2000 and married in Maui later that year. The couple had their first child, London Hudson, in 2002 and then along came Cash Anthony Hudson in 2004.

Things have not gone well for the relationship ever since Perla took over management of Velvet Revolver. This lead to reports of a Velvet Revolver break-up a few weeks ago. Those reports were quickly denied by the band. Velvet Revolver are currently recording their second album

ttp://www.undercover.com.au/news/2006/apr06/20060428_slash.html

mrs axlrose rosesofvelvet.com

Damn mike you beat me to it, I was just about to post this.

Anyone know how much credibility this site has?

Even though It's sad fr Slash I think it could be good news in the long run for Velvet Revolver,So in a funny way I hope it is true

I've heard nothing but bad things about her, which may be unfair, I don't know her

And we've been hearing a few rumours about Slash and his wife lately, and they are not so good.

So, if the rumours are true, I hope this is too.

I don't know shit about slash's wife so I can't say anything, but I do know the times I have seen them out together they looked happy.. Sure people can fake it while in the public happens all the time..

Is this the one, I assume, Slash was arrested for getting into a fight with while making the 2nd snakepit record? If this is true, by the way (divorce)-the documents can be made public soon, like any other celebrity divorce

Fits in with this (http://www.gunsnroses.us/news/article.php3?id_article=54) and this (http://www.chinesedemocracy.com/viewtopic.php?t=12988).

How much truth there is to any of this is another matter, but I tend to consider BP from CD.com reliable.

Undercover is usually reasonably credible, but they're jumping the gun a bit on this one.? Pretty sure Slash filed for a separation, not a divorce.? And I don't think anybody's actually seen the papers, but that may happen today.? ?(I know Undercover hasn't).

Slash met Perla long before he divorced Renee.? He left her for Perla.?

And yes, she charged him with assault or some such thing a few years ago, although from what I know, she's actually the one who thumped him out and then called the cops as a coup de grace.? They broke up at that point, but got back together.? (Obviously).? ?Which may well happen again.? She's really got a vice-grip hold on the guy.? ?Hope the kids don't become pawns.? :(

I don't follow VR that much so this is the first time I'm hearing that Perla was/is their manager.
Is it true?? ?

I feel for their kids, but if the rumors about her are true, good for Slash :D

He can hook up with any number of fluzies....

just don't marry them ;D

If Perla is as mean as she's made out to be this is going to be one nasty divorce. This is kind of sad but Slash will bounce back I'm sure.

Oh, missed that part, sorry.? No, Perla was managing Slash (which is another long story), not VR.? I think Undercover really missed the boat with their reporting, likely because of their haste to be the first to 'break' it. ? Rather unusual for them.

very Spinal Tap

You know, I was waiting for someone to say that.  Only thing is, it might cause Slash to leave the band, instead of the other members.


Does one have to file for separation?? I thought people were separated after they began living in different households?

Yeah, that too.? ;)? ?But no, you have to file documents if you want to protect the various assets...? in other words, to keep Perla from draining the joint bank accounts, selling the house, taking the kids, etc, while they're organizing the split. ? ?:-\

Now we know why Slash is hanging out with Matt and Tommy Lee. The P****  posse is on the prowl. :beer:

So I guess all these rumours recently are true after all (or at least part of them)  :-\
They always looked so happy together... and I feel sorry for their kids.

Me too.

Slash seems like a pretty devoted (if often absent, but hey...that's the way) father.

I feel bad for his kids, if all this is true.

Man I feel really bad for Slash, whether this is true or not. He's havin a shit load said and written about him leaving his band, getting back with Axl and all manner of other shit, including that crap that was made up about him being into voodoo and all sorts of stuff; and now this. I'm hoping he's doing OK and none of these rumours about him is gettting to him.

Good for him if that is what he wants.  There has not been much good press about her. : ok:

yeah it is sad that things haven't worked out especially for the babies' sake but as anti-divorce as I am(by that I mean it should be the absolutely be the last resort when kids are involved) I think this is the right move for Slash and good news for Slash fans!

I know jack shit about his personal life, but if half of what was rumores is true, good for him.  There's always an element of truth to every story or real rumor (not something someone made up to get attention).  It's obvious Perla was behind some of the drama behind VR and maybe now they can move on put out their 2nd album.

I Hope so maybe this is the kick start they need

sorry if its been posted.      this is on blabbermouths webiste, take it for what its worth.




Australia's Undercover News (web site) is reporting that guitarist Slash (VELVET REVOLVER, ex-GUNS N' ROSES) has filed for divorce from his second wife, Perla.

Slash allegedly filed for divorce in Los Angeles on Thursday, April 27.

Slash met Perla after the divorce of his first wife Renee in 1997. The couple became engaged in 2000 and married in Maui later that year. The couple had their first child, London Hudson, in 2002 and then along came Cash Anthony Hudson in 2004.

VELVET REVOLVER are currently recording their second album, tentatively titled "Libertad".

i told you guys something was up but yall didnt believe me! lol


like i said when there is smoke there is fire!!


maybe axl will take slash  back now : )
jk

i wish slash would divorce velvet revolver and go back to axl....there's a story i'd give a shit about

I wish Slash would eat a whole ham sandwich in one bite.

I have no idea why anyone would give two shits about Slash's marital status

EVERYBODY should...this should be like the biggest news story right now.

BECAUSE....as most credible reports have stated that Perla is one of the main reasons for the strife riling VR right now AS WELL as for Slash's bad relationship with GNR/AXL.

If Perla IS out of the picture, this could have a huge impact on either band.

Since Slash left GnR in 95, and hooked up with Perla in 97... how the FUCK did ANYONE link the two together?!!?!  Anyone that doesn't read this properly is a dick.

ahh yes, these poor, poor,  millionare children, whatever will they do with their lives! :D

Didn't they know eachother before?But they became a couple in 97?  :-\

Now I hope some asshole doesn't become a stepdad for Slash's kids.

man mike im jealoous       today i posted this      except i posted in the wrong section and the fuckin vultures came out and attacked.      some people on this board are fuckin pathetic         sorry just venting my frustration at some dumb fucks on this board.

don't sweat it man, some people just flip over minor things.. We all need some music to funciton properly.. : ok:

Actually, Slash left GN'R October 1996.

Actually, Slash left GN'R October 1996.


WTF??? Slash left Guns N Roses???!!

wow... its 10years ago soon!! god damn...  :o

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Slash and his wife Perla.
Note: Slash is on the right!



Updated: According to undercover.com Slash and his wife Perla have now filed for divorce.



Slash To Divorce
by Paul Cashmere
April 28 2006

Slash has filed for divorce from his second wife, Perla.

The couple filed for divorce in Los Angeles on Thursday, April 27.

Slash met Perla after the divorce of his first wife Renee in 1997. The couple became engaged in 2000 and married in Maui later that year. The couple had their first child, London Hudson, in 2002 and then along came Cash Anthony Hudson in 2004.

Things have not gone well for the relationship ever since Perla took over management of Velvet Revolver. This lead to reports of a Velvet Revolver break-up a few weeks ago. Those reports were quickly denied by the band. Velvet Revolver are currently recording their second album.


Metal Sludge
Metal Divorce


The following post was grabbed off our World Famous Metal Sludge Gossip boards and originated at www.heretodaygonetohell.com 

Upon a google search it seems as if though this publicist named has had more than her fair share of dealing with Slash and the related parties. Both good and bad.

We're not sure as to the authenticity of this posting but here it is for your viewing pleasure. Enjoy.

Just for the record, The Snakepit Website is run by a fan, not me. My name and address was only on there as a reference for press related matters. Linda Scott is
a librarian, who was a big Slash fan, and started the website, as a tribute to him. Because of all the turbulations in Slash's life, all caused by his wife, Linda, for now,
is not continuing the website.

Slash married a prostitute, who's taking over his life, his finances, and his business, and got him involved in her voodoo business of killing animals, smearing animal's blood on their bodies, and filing lawsuits against everyone they ever said hello too. Nobody wants to work or deal with him at this point. Attorneys decline to represent Slash, manager do not want to represent him anymore, VR would like to get rid of him, GNR does not want to have anything to do with him...all because of his wife's nastiness. Until he has the balls to leave his wife, and take back his life, he's on his own. All his friends left him, and she refuses to let him have any friends.

It's time for Slash to face his demon wife, put a stop to his madness and get back to the business of making music with his friends. Nobody is too blame except Slash. Sorry to disappoint you. I'll attach herewith a beautiful shot of his wife's past occupation that appeared in a recent Hustler magazine spread. Enjoy!


Arlett Vereecke



Dear Arlett,

If this was indeed your wriiting, we ask you in a nice way to please open up a bit next time. Don't hold it back. Let it all go, and tell everyone how you really feel about Mrs. Slash.

If you'd like to contact us to confirm, we'd love to hear from you!

MetalSludge@MetalSludge.tv

Courtesy of belowempty.com (in the Velvet Revolver Encyclopedia of names)
Arlett Vereecke did represent members of the band Guns n' Roses and Velvet Revolver indivdually over the years.

Arlett Vereecke has been the publicist for Slash and Duff for over 17 years now, and has also been working with them when they were starting up VR. She is no longer the band's main publicist but still speaks on behalf of Slash. She was heavily in the news when the band announced Scott as the lead singer and when they decided on a band name.

In addition, this link HERE from last summer talks about a lawsuit filed by Arlett Vereecke against Slash.

 
 
 

could this clear the way for his re-emergence in GNR?

Sorry dude... but does it make a difference... 95?  96?  It still ain't 97! :)  Wanna correct me on that one?

Yeah, I agree with you dude. Wasn't trying to disprove your point, just clearing up the year when he left.

And when you think about it Slash has almost been out of GN'R longer than he was in the band...

Yeah, I think Tommy is almost longer in the band than Slash was. But the difference is that Slash put a major stamp on music history......

Slash's 10 years translates into thousands of hours of playing time, Tommy's amounts to dozens.   

It's been over 24  hours since the news first broke and therehasn't been anybody rushing to deny it which makes me more convinced it's true

It may be true but I'm not altogether sure that he'll go through it. He seems to really be in love with Perla from what he says in interviews. Also you can tell that he adores his boys. If he actually does divorce Perla he'll go for months without seeing Cash and London when VR are on tour. I'm not sure he'd want to be away from his babies like that.

 :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

It is sad but it is a fact of life people fall in and out of love all the time whatever they sort out I hope it's amicable for the kids sake

If what they sort out is going through with a divorce I doubt that it will be amicable. If what I've read about Perla is true she has a very fiery temper. I still think that they'll get back together.

If they do I hope they can be happy together Because parents together who are miserable can be worse for kids then those that are apart but are happy cause  they aren't fighting all the time

ohh, that's very sad. And slash hasn'tentirely quit drinking so he is easy to manipulate i guess, right ?  :-\

                         Yeah , I do feel for Slash and everyone involved. I can see how being married and having that person Manage you & your band would put pressure on everything. If this is what is leading to a breakup of VR or Slash leaving I can feel for the guy.

                           The man's a damn legend. He should get his time away and legends should never suffer in front of us. Good luck Slash.  :(

I don't understand.

Is perla a horrible person or what ?

See, rumours usually start somewhere.

There were rumours about Beta ( axl's beta) and the band. Axl chose Beta and he is happy, 14 years down the road she is still there.

So waht about perla ? maybe it's entirely false ?

Maybe slash should not divorce her ?

Or should he ?

And who was the messenger ? There is always a messenger in gossip stories.

^^^ What does Beta have to do with anything?

slash will have that ace tattoo of his, have no meaning

I am comparing two situations :

14 years ago, Beta had to do with everything or so was her name used as an excuse for the split.

Now ,the new" devil" is called Perla.

Where does the shit come from ?

is there a parrallel to be drawn ?

 :'(
well i can't believe it.i feel so stupid for standing up for them now.on some topic that was said this week.i commented something utterly stupid now im thinking.

no, we don't even know if it's true.

As i said, seems to me someone is stirring up shit around them.

Could it be the sa?me person that did 14 years ago ?

But who ?

hhmm the shit getz deeper an deeper an deeper an deeper an deeper !
get a shovel huh cause there's alot of shit to shovel im thinkin'

all i'm saying is that every time someone has a partner with a strong personality, it seems shit is stirred and leads to either a band breaking up or a marriage.

And there HAS to be a common connection because there are the same people now and 14 years ago.

I'm not saying it is a band member, but someone around GNR past and present seems to be nasty.

I agree with that... She has been causing issues!

If there's any positive spin to this, it's that after 2 divorces Slash will have to work for the rest of his life, so we'll be hearing plenty of music from him.  I'm sure Perla especially will bleed him for every possible cent.

he could've had any women in world but he went for a call girl. ???

love works in mysterious ways :hihi:

Half of hollywood has, iwhy would slash be different ?

It's weird that this e-mail from Arlette (if it was really from her) started circulating around the internet painting Perla as an absolute she-devil and the very next morning I get on the internet and read about Slash filing for divorce. Everything seems strange in the land of Slash right now. One thing I remember reading a long time ago is that he had Perla sign a pre-nup. That was a good move on his part but he'll still pay a grip of child support if he really is getting divorced. If it's really true about Perla doing all that meddling in VR's affairs I wonder what made her think she had the right? This whole thing seems like a big mess to me. I bet poor Slash is stressed.

I am pretty sure someone is messing with their couple, with the band and with the fans.

Someone's got to be pretty fucked up.

Are you trying to say you don't really believe that they're getting divorced? It would be cool if that was the case. I always thought that Slash and Perla went well together. Even if Slash really did file I can't help but predict a reconciliation. Afterall, they had a pretty nasty break up before they got married and still got back together. If I remember correctly it involved the police being called. On the other hand, someone on another board said that this divorce thing is the talk of Hollywood. I'm pretty sure that he or she meant the part of Hollywood that hangs on the Sunset strip not the Hollywood type that are obsessed with people like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. Apparently this person lives in L.A. and hangs out in clubs on Sunset. Here's a wild thought (I'm just being a little silly and thinking of outrageous ideas). Maybe Slash really did file to scare Perla into acting right and stop causing trouble and tension within VR. Just kidding of course!

I hope it is true if she is holding him back as much as they make it sound.  However, I would never wish divorce on anyone.  Maybe this will give him some inspiration to lay down some nasty solos on the next VR/GNR album.

I hope it isn't true that they're divorcing even if she's interfering in VR. They have two babies to consider. Besides, if they are really separated and thinking of divorce and the reason is that she's too controlling of him and causing trouble within his band, I think that's an easily remedied problem. They get counseling and come to an agreement that she's supportive of his career but not interfering. I also think that they would have to agree that her role in his life would be that of his wife and mother of his babies. Maybe she thought that she was really helping Slash and got carried away and at first didn't realize she was creating so many problems and tension. I know that I'm rambling on here but I can tell you that divorce when kids are involved is something that breaks my heart. Also I can tell you that I know any marriage takes work and I think a lot of people throw in the towel too easily. Don't get me wrong, I do not know either Slash or Perla or anything about their relationship except that they look really in love together and in interviews when Slash talks about her he does so like she's just his angel.

In a way, perla HAS to hold him back, he is still an alcoholic, even though it's better but he hasn't quit, and they have 2 kids.

She is just normal; it's the fan's demands that aren't, surrounded by a world of celebs who are not usually self centered and if 3 out of 4 think " hey, i can get one more million" and 1 doesn't want to, they will ALWAYS think it's because of " the wife".

What usually happens is they break a marriage, but also break their buddy in the proccess, buddy is then enable to work, and a band breaks up.

So they don't win, either ways.

But they break a family.

If they really go through with the divorce his drinking will really be on the rise now. Something tells me that their relationship is not completely over though.

Well, perla has had two babies in a very short space of time and saul was on tour for the second.

I've just had a baby and i was a WITCH during pregnancy, hormones and various problems, loneliness and whatnot.

Then, i had to cope with my baby, just the one and it was incredibly difficult. Now is ok.

Imagine perla with not one but TWO little ones, a husband on tour and husband who can put himself into stupid states ?

I mean, it takes time to go back to normal after pregnancies; couples have to find their pace AND their peace.

My GP ( doc) told me that 70% of divorces occur just after a pregnancy, before the kid reaches 1 year old.

I think saul and perla should go and talk to a specialist if they have a communication barrier.

That is IF they talk divorce, rumour on which i have my doubts.

^^ Why'd you call him Saul? You know him personally?  :drool:

I say this because since my pregnancy i have a problem and put words backwords and tend to mix things up whne i type, so since there is a singer called ash and also slash, i prefer saul like this i don't get mixed up.

And no, i don't know him, but does it bother you i should use his birth name ?

it IS his name, isn't it ?

I am jessica, when i act and sing,  i am jessica.

So xxxxx xxx.

I couldn't care less how you call him, I just thought you might know him. And that would've been cool. Hence the drool smiley.

I do not talk of who i may or may not know.

I have named dropped in the past because i "encountered" people but should i " know" a forum would be the LAST place knowing about it.. ;D

And sorry mate, your drool smiley didn't appear. I thought you were being nasty. Apologies.

It's all cool  : ok: So who did you "encounter"?

at least you don't have to worry about ulterior motives with a call girl  :hihi: :rofl:

Bah, footie people from france, sports people mainly, back some yearsago...

But it's normal considering i was into acting and my then best friend was 5'11 with long straight brown hair, looking sexily stupid and having legs so long it took an hour before you got to see her ( pretty) face.

We used to go out a lot...I was the brain in our " couple".

Wouldn't even TRY to compete, but it was great fun.

You might when you actually marry that call girl!

Oh come on !!

Stop being machos.

I've been used for money by a MAN.

You think what ? Women want men for their money ?

But what is money ?

Security.

Especially nowadays ( millions unemployed, beauty perfect = aging is the devil, people out of work at 50 but living up until 100,......)

What's a call girl ?

A prostitute.

Ok

Why is she always wrong ?

Why is a man going to a prostitute in the first place ?

Why does a CELEB man NEED to be paying when half the world would fuck him for free ?

And then, you say the girl is trouble ?

But the man is his own trouble, doesn't need anyone for that.

And obviously, his relationship to women is fucked up, so he is going to complain about what exactly ?

About being used for money ? Money he ?id to used her..body ?

Right.

Fair game i say.

Fair and Square and Amoral.

Welcome to Sillywood

If you're referring to my post, I am a woman and let's face, being a call girl is not the most honorable profession. Definately not something that I'd resort to for money. Perla did it and it was her choice and her business but you really cannot put someone down for not condoning it.

Going to prostitutes is not the most honorable thing for a man to do either  ;) And Slash has been an admitted sex-addict and whore-addict so... ::)

Its a man's world.  Its okay for a guy to be a whore. But bad for a girl to be a whore. 

SO the rumor is very true about slash and his devil of a wife( or shall i say ex-wife) perla. I heard on the radio two days ago that slash HAS FILED FOR DIVORCE!!!!  im sorry, but i have been following the couple ever since i heard about perla becoming the BANDS manager!! It seems as if slash had to pick one of two things...the band or his wife that is making his life hell. NOt only has slash lost many friends because of her, she has also made bad blood between him and the other VR memebers.  It seems to me that slash finally got some balls and said FUCK YOU PERLA!! and it is about time!  Also slash was there to be a father to his sons while on tour...Perla was right there with him for most of the tour, with both kids! So that argument about her being upset and all the other bullshit is just that..bullshit. Being a loyal fan of slash i for one am very happy with his decision and honestly do not see any types of "getting back together" happening at all.  But once again...slash did file the papers...perla was controlling and getting a power trip and thought that just because she spit out two kids and had a ring on her finger that she could do whatever she wanted as far as slash was (wasnt) concerend!! But IM HAPPY AND CANT WAIT FOR HIM TO GET IN THE STUDIO AND GO ON TOUR AGAIN!! :love: :-* :o :beer:

SlashIsTheMan, do you really have some inside info into the situation or are you just going by what you read and hear in the media?

If Slash is happy, fine.

But don't you go saying a fucking album is more important than kids.

I'm very sure that an album is not more important to him than his little boys. Somehow I doubt if the choice came down to staying in VR or staying with Perla. If they're really doing as bad together as it's being reported then there must be more problems then just her causing trouble with her husband's band. If they're really separated and/or divorcing there just has to be more to it. I'm still wondering if Slash really filed or they're just separated at the moment. And how come these rumors about Perla interfereing and being the bitch from hell and causing Slash all of this trouble didn't start until the Slash divorce story started circulating around the internet?  I'm not doubting that Perla can be difficult and tempermental. She always came across that way to me from what I've read. On the other hand, I've read about Slash fans who've met him and Perla and raved about how cool she was.

Oh, and if it's really true that Perla was that controlling of Slash and caused him to lose friends and caused him to be at odds with his VR bandmates, I believe that will change now. I think that she'll go on her extra best behavior to hang onto Slash. I'm sure the woman's not completely stupid and knows that Slash has women for days just dying to get their hands on him. For some reason I'm just sure that she still loves him and would like stay married to the man. Maybe she just got carried away trying to help him with his career and didn't really know what she was doing and didn't mean to cause so many problems. And if she was truely so evil would he have married her in the first place? Afterall, he was with her for a long time before they married and must have known her personality and what she was like. Alright, I'm rambling now so I'll shut up for the time being.

All you said is sensible.

I bet Perla is not that bad.

Also, Slash never chose " yes" girls, he likes them hot anf firy, with a temper.

Good on him. She's a little over the top ? He gets her hand in the face ( maybe he bloody well deserved it , who knows ?)

So what ? Who are we to judge ?

Maybe he likes a little " rough" ?

Maybe he liked to complain and exagerate ? ( i have one of the sort at home, he invents me stuff i never even dared to do, he has such an imagination lol !! ( i hate him ))

Who knows ?

But i bet they get on quite well, because you have to have sex to have kids, the youngest one means they had sex " recently" and trust me, when there are big problems, there isn't any sex.

Slash's youngest child will be two on June 23'rd and that doesn't mean that they had sex recently it means that when Cash was conceived it was almost three years ago. And people who are in the midst of a divorce and still live in the same house still have sex from what I've heard. This is not to say that I'm positive that they're divorcing, I'm not. What I really think is that they may be experiencing some relationship probs at the moment. I kind of think that they may even be separated but I'm not convinced that they've already filed for divorce maybe just a legal separation. What I'm really hoping is that the situation that is being rumored that Perla is causing all these career problems for Slash and breaking up some of his friendship is a little exagerated and not as bad as it's rumored to be. You know you didn't hear about Perla being so aweful until these divorce rumors started. On the other hand, someone who posts on another board who hangs in Hollywood says that this divorce thing is what everyone's talking about and that people aren't surprised about it because of the trouble that Perla's caused in Slash's professional business and friendships with her nastiness and controll freak ways. I sure couldn't say because I've never met the woman. I've read postings from fans who've met her and thought she was just the coolest. If it's really true that she's as nasty as she's made out to be I hope that she'll change her ways to save her marriage to Slash.

Damn everything about Slash seems topsy turvy right now. I bet his little boys offer a little comfort at this time though. There's nothing like small kids to take your mind off of things especially when they're your own kids.

I wish :hihi: :hihi:

Not that i'm divorcing, i'm not married.

But not getting on anymore and surely NOT having sex.

You know, all i hope is that they can both shut it and say nice things about each other to the kids. Because they need positive parental images to grow up as balanced individuals. Comfort is one thing but stuff like " i miss your dad/mum" or " your mum/dad is a bitch/asshole" is not good.

I say this because my mother in law started doing shit like this with me and my son. She says black when i say white and makes my baby cry?

Witch

Even if not from Perla at this time I'm sure that Mr. Hudson is getting sex from somewhere. He's said more than once that he's addicted to it.

Well, wouldn't this be the source of their problems ( tour = perla not there = addiction to sex = getting it elsewhere= perla back home waiting with frying pan ?)

Oh yes that would cause problems. I'd hate to be a woman getting down with Slash and get caught by Perla. She seems a little psycho and would probably go crazy on my ass.

 :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Personally, i don't walk on someone else's grass ( at least, not willingly)

But if a woman knows my man is my man and that we have a kid and yet, goes with him, it's my hand in her face ( although much worse for the man who is the one breaking the moral contract)

Go perla go...( joking..hehe....)  :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

You know, that first time that they broke up and they were only boyfriend and girlfriend and she found out where he was staying and went crazy and physically attacked him and he had to call the police, I always wondered if that had to do with him being caught with another woman. I don't mean mean being caught when she actually got into his hotel room. I mean before that incident. She must have went pretty crazy if he had to call the police to get her off of him. And I heard him say in an interview not all that long ago that he wouldn't mess around with another woman because his wife was crazy and she'd kill him.

erm...

Yeah, bad really.

But then,  it's love or it isn't you know ?

Jealousy is only partially low self esteem and the rest is due to someone giving themselves a freedom they usually don't want to give you, therefore total hypocrisy and mental violence ( expecting someone to do as told and do the contrary one's self is violent for the other), principles ( usually upbringing) and the " what's mine isn't theirs" and that's a territorial thing, very human, raw, irrationnal and normal.

No one wants to share their toys/backgarden/food/air.............MAN

Should perla be extra " all this/jealous/freud was an idiot", she must suffer a great deal.

And Slash shouldn't make her suffer like this. Because the fear of it happening is much worse than the actual cheat.

And i found out that very often, people who live with someone jealous tend to leave little clues about infidelity, just enough to send you up the wall, but not enough to call it proof.

And sometimes, you have the other sort, the ones who don't give a shit, and who think they are so " it" that they will put you through all the shit in the world, knowing you won't leave because you love them so much.

Perla should breathe. A little vacation with friends. Without Slash.

I do know that for a fact that slash's wife is controlling and has made him lost close friends. It is nice to think that slash and his wife will get back together, but i honestly do not believe that they will.

Perla was there on tour with slash many times! so him not being there doesnt fly with me. point is that  she is crazy and slash is done with it. GO SLASH GO!

scientists say passion lasts 3 years ( the oh my god i am soooo in loove feel )
They also say couples tend to have problems in between 5 to 7 years of existence.
And figures show that half of the couples separate before their first kid is 1.

So, it tends to say that nowadays, people stay together for 5 years and generally, after 3 or 4, have a kid. And half the people with a kid on the way argue too much and crash their love.

Now, is it really love ?

To me, love means loving someone's brains.

If you love the inside, you can stay 50 years.

If you separate after only a few years, was it lust or defeat without the preceeding battle ?

You know the saying " we get what we deserve"

Thy are probably both hot heads ?

I don't know them but i would not be surprised.

And i hope it's not stubborness that hurts their couple.

Worst of all to mend things is pride.

Are you positive that Slash is done with her or is that your perception and opinion of things?

I don't know Perla but I can tell from what I've read that she's certainly not a shrinking violet. I wonder why she has such a controlling personality. She should be grateful that she landed such an awesome husband not try to cause him strife and drive him away.  However, unlike you, for some strange reason I really think that they'll reconcile.

Well only time will tell...but honestly..slash picked his band over her! there is no way he will go back to the women who has caused him all this pain and almost losing a band he worked so hard to put together..knowing that the ppl in the band and around him cant stand her.  in the end..its all business

Are you saying that in the end it's all business even before his babies? Perla may have caused all of the probs you said but she still is the mother of his sons and I believe whole heartedly that he still loves Perla. I mean, he would have to still love her if it was only a few months ago he was referring to her as the love of his life. Oh course on the other hand, why did she cause all of this trouble? I was always under the impression that she loved Slash. Why would you destroy the life of someone you love? I'm beginning to wonder though if maybe she's learned her lesson. Afterall, if they're really separated she's sure quiet right now. To me that's significant for as aggressive as I've read that her personality is. Maybe she hopes to get him back. I really hate to say this, but God Perla is starting to sound like an aweful woman. Well, at least if she's really like some of the posters on some message boards say.

Im saying that at one point he did love her.. thats all good! but ppl fall out love at all the time !@@@!! but just b/c she was the love his life at one point but he is human and ppl change. so if i love a man..have his kids..and than after some months of fighting i fall out of love with him than im wrong or thats not possible?? if perla has learned her lesson..which i dont think she has..than if slash feels like giving her another chance..good for him! but if not..than that makes him human and he doesnt want to put up with it  anymore. yea he will always love his kids...just not his wife

I'm not so sure he's out of love with her yet. It was only a short time ago that they were all over each other in public and he was raving about her in interviews. He may be fed up with her and still in love with her at the same time. Some of the divorced people that I know still love their ex-spouses. I can't say why but I just don't think that Slash and Perla are through with each other.

Oh and one more thing, if Slash and Perla work things out if I was Slash I'd make things very clear to her. She's to be his wife and London and Cash's mother and that's all. She absolutely cannot in any way meddle with his career and the first time she does she's out the door. The same goes for people that he's friends with. If she screws things up with anybody that he's friends with and causes them not to be friends, bye bye Perla. Sounds like he should have put her in her place years ago.

mariage consellors do wonder ( and if people have controlling perso and sex addictions with booze, THERAPY)

FOR BOTH! INDIDUALLY AND AS A COUPLE

SlashIsTheMan, you never answered my original question. Do you have inside info on Slash and Perla or are you going by what you read and hear about them?

Hey i was just wondering if anybody has heard anything new about  the whole slash divorce thing!?!?!

Slash confirmed it as false on the Camp Freddy radio a couple weeks back.

yeah, its real funny.

man, i cant imagine how weird it must be to come home to ones wife and she tells him they are getting divorced, according to the internet... must be weird.

From the beginning, I heard it was a separation, not a divorce.  And I still think that Slash told certain people he was separating from Perla knowing full well it would be trumpeted all over the internet and that Perla would hear about it.  It was probably a message to Perla.

And Slash didn't actually deny that he went to Axl's house, if you read between the lines, he denied that he had a conversation with Axl.  In Axl's version of events, he never comes out and says he talked to Slash directly.  So in that respect, they're both being truthful.  (Sort of).

And this supposedly happened in October of last year, yet in January 06 at the Korn party Axl tells Rolling Stone that he hadn't spoken to Slash in years...

As for the divorce thing, I do believe they haven't been seen together in ages, and who knows what the reason for that is. But I do know that they have 2 kids that are getting older, and I can see Perla staying home to watch them since most Slash related events require Slash to be there, but not Perla...

In that Camp Freddy radio thing Slash mentioned a joke that Perla had told him and that they just got a new dog and named it after the punchline of the joke. That doesn't sound like they are separated to me if they just got a new dog together.

So now im upset cause slash is not getting a divorce but oh well i will get over it. but i do wonder if the couple is even really happy? has anyone notice that perla isnt really with slash at public events like she used to be?? i wonder if maybe there is a seperation in the works?? but i still love the guy.

I don't know what to say really. Like you, it seems strange to me that he's always seen without her now. She always gave me the impression of being someone who would not let Slash be anywhere without her if she could help it. But like I said in my previous post, Slash was talking about their new dog and how Perla came up with the name. They obviously are still together. He denied the divorce rumors. There is another possibility. Maybe Perla is actually with him at some of these events but they failed to photograph her. I really don't know what else to say.

Well I just came across some celebrity gossip site and they had a section called papparazzi sightings. One sighting that they mentioned was "Rocker Slash and wife Perla looking for privacy at a well known celeb hot spot". The date that they gave for this incident was June 06, 2006. They are obviously still together. They went on to say that they were a flashy couple and how loud mouthed Perla was and Slash was wearing a cap that said Got Ho's?. Actually I recall seeing a pic of him in that very cap at some time or another.

hope he doesnt get devorced be such a wasste of his tattoo :drool:

Well I guess he could have something else put over the "Perlita". I'm sure he couldn't have the whole rose removed without leaving a serious scar. Anyway, for the time being it sounds like they're together so he won't have to worry about the tattoo.

Hey koby..could u give me the link of that website..worth looking at ya know! im still gonna have hope that maybe in the very near future that things go sour. what can i say...i love the man, but for the time being i will get over it. thanks!

It's something I just happened upon. Actually I was looking for a certain picture of Slash and Perla so I put "Slash and Perla pictures" in google. About three or four pages in I found that gossip site where they had that small item about them. I could go back and look for it if you like. It wasn't much of anything. I just thought it was significant because they were seen out together recently and these divorce rumors were going around not so long ago.