Here Today... Gone To Hell!

have you had a bad time in your life or are you goin through a rough patch at the moment.some things are better talked about than buried.maybe someone here can give you words of advise or a little guidance.what better place to get things off ur chest than with a whole bunch of GNR fans. :peace:

i am seeing a councellor at the momment

had depression for 5 years, never spoke up and it hs destoryd me.
but i am slowly geting better

its good to talk about your problems if you dont they just eat away at ya

ive seen a doc afew times now.....helped me a hell of alot.

no shame in seein' someone 'bout your problems!!

they help you get over that shit!

I'm fucked. Help me. Before it's too late. Before...before...before I snort some instant coffee and cut myself with a spoon.

I smell like oatmeal.

I tried to slice my wrist with an electric razor once.......

(It didn't work.)

I was, however, able to snort two packs of sanka in under a half an hour......

I think that's a good idea.

Especially since we are mostly anonymous to each others, so this is the place.

You know, i ended up in the emergencies 5 years ago, i had ingested pills and alcohol, my relationship was destroying me and i'd had enough.

I wish i had someone to talk to and to take me seriously back then.

I would have talked, even on a forum.

i feel so bad. i never had  this kinda of trouble. I always think everything will be fine. and i never worry.

gosh, you people should be more like me. come on, life's beautiful ;)

these things cant be ignored.if u have depression u just cant say to yourself "hay lifes beautiful"and its gone.these issues need to be talked about and realised.when your feeling alone and things are getting you down come here and post your thoughts.were all friends here even if we havnt met. :beer:

That's not tea bag!

When things get rough, do like I do: watch Schindler's list! It will make all your problems seem completley meaningless.

I?m going to see a psychologist soon. I?ve got pretty sever agoraphobia and whatnot. After I made plans to do that though, I met someone online that?s studying to be a psychologist, and they were rudest, most ignorant, ?Everyone?s parents are to blame? idiots that I?ve ever come across. Hopefully they?re not *all* like that.  :nervous:

I know quite a few, and they're not.   :)

Just remember after you've gone a few times, you'll probably start thinking they aren't doing you any good.  Keep going!  People typically go through that -looking for a reason to quit- when they are about to make a major breakthrough.  I can't tell you the number of people I've heard say that they went to see someone but it didn't do any good so they quit going.  Its a self defense mechanism, they get out before they have to give anything up.  Good luck.

You can't go well in one session when you go to a shrink and you can't see or feel the benefits on the first occasionS.

You have to have a good feel about the person facing you and hope the person is a good guide.

After a few weeks, if you suffer hell, cry, want to hit anything and anyone, if you are moody and depressed even more, these are usually signs therapy has hit the right " nerve" and has started doing something that's triggered another something.

Up to you to decide what you are going to do about that " something".

i was depressed a few years ago...i started to talk to myself...now im cured...i recommend it...very therapeutic... ;D

untill the jewish guy was killed by the nazis in the end  :P

ooo " la vie est belle"

no really. come on. it's all in our head. we're faking. we're so rich we could buy a whole african town. and we still find ways to complain. we see homeless people in the street everyday, and we still find ways to complain in our $200 jeans ....

come on. smile. everything's fine ;)

my life is a rough patch.

*Sigh* I guess I'll go then. Sterling from the HTGTH message board wouldn't lie to me, right?

If you have emotional problems, don't share them with a girl you like, they don't want to fall in love with an insecure man. If you ever wonder why you're insecure ,it's because you're over self-centered and only choose to help yourself. You must not do anything for other people. After being self-centered, that insecure feeling you hate is payback from all the good deeds you forgot to do.

yeah tell me about it... :yes:

life is one long journey, and i have decided i am not going to sit here and not experience anything... thats why im going to brisbane

HEY CLINT  :hihi:

time goes by quickly and i mean....

LIFE :

work
eat
sleep
and party, when not working

you work so you can eat and to keep a roof over your head,
and you work so you can go out and party !!!
wierd init  :yes:

but yeah, i am not going to sit here in my boring town when i could be out exploring the beautiful world arround us..

but i just have to fix myself first, i have allot to sort out in my mind... and then ..... i am going to live the high life  : ok:

i no that one day i will feel free from all my problems and i am doing the best i can to help myself get out of this hole that i dug such a long time ago. and man...it is one big fukin hole, but i will reach the top... i have been seeing a councellor once a week for about 3 months..

and i have discovered, the answers dont lye in him.. the answers are in me... the solutions to my problems are in me.
Councellors are great and so are boards like this, it allows you to get out your box and speak to people you dont know, and here it is expecially great cos we dont see eachother.

But to everyone on this board.

i hope that one day you will find your true self and let go of the things that are hurting you or haunting you, speak up when you need to and dont be ashamed of your "problem" no matter how lame you think it is.

be true to yourself and live an awsome life

PEACE OUT ROCK N ROLLERS
gunna_girl01

right,what is it that haunts us all on this board and what could bring a smile to even the unhappiest members.........erm.......erm........erm....oh yeah                               CHINESE DEMOCRACY :rofl:

no seriously.if we could all just smile and forget everything that bothers us then we'd be robots.mental issues all have a cure but the only way of finding it is to search inside yourself.if an unhappy individual REALLY wanted to be happy then providing they have the right mental attitude they could find their own happyness without any help.but for poeple who just cant seem to get that positive mental attitude,the only thing to do is get help way before you let it ruin your life.its not a bad thing that someone gets proffesional help it just shows that the individual has the willpower and the attitude to sort out there life.iv'e had friends that have got themselfs into big debts and stuff but it hasnt really bothered them,but i know if it was me then id be very unsettled in life and it would effect me everyday.

ooo " la vie est belle"

no really. come on. it's all in our head. we're faking. we're so rich we could buy a whole african town. and we still find ways to complain. we see homeless people in the street everyday, and we still find ways to complain in our $200 jeans ....

come on. smile. everything's fine ;)

You can't just tell a person to smile when the level of their serotonin is awfully low. It's a DISEASE. You cannot cure yourself, you need pills. Homeless people and diamond rings cannot influence your attitude. I've been told what you said for eight years until I fainted in public out of overwhelming fear when there wasn't the slightest reason to be afraid.

I wouldn't exactly call that faking.

If someone loves you, He/she must love you with all your problems... fuck those girls who dont like insecurity.... cause everybody have it...


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you no what.... i have been in love , ( and i am in love ) but ..... i love every single fault. like the pimple on his chin that never goes away... if you know what i mean

when i love someone i love everything about them, every inch, every fault, everything.. and i love being in love cos i feel ontop of the world, but it sucks when you get hurt,

Well both sunlight and exercise boost up your serotonin level... combine those two with a healthy diet and a large number of people probably COULD cure themselves.

Medication isn't the only answer, so don't try to convince people of that.  Besides, from what I've seen, medication doesn't always have the desired impact.

Certainly everybody has problems, and certainly too Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, but when someone betrays you, or makes you feel bad, sad, or any other situation,  that is when you fall on your knees and wish you would have never known love... I dont want to copy Axl's quotes -- even when they are the best -- but Love is so strange...


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A great gift.... thats all there is to it there is no other way to describe it ( well there is really) .. there are positives and negitives.....

Are you a psychitrist? Hope not. 'Cause if you're telling patients suffering from serious depression to go out in the sun more, you yourself must be going to a lot of funerals.

I never said medication is the only answer. And you can help yourself trying to change your lifestyle, but it is only additional aid. You cannot cure yourself from a serious disorder, you can only make it worse by thinking that spring and sunlight will bring you back to life and thus postponing a visit to a specialist.

It's you who is talking nonsense and misleading people. The 'smile, everything is gonna be alright' attitude doesn't work. Been there, done that.

When i'm depressed and want to die ( at LEAST once every couple of months), i remind myself i have hopes and i hope my hopes bla bla..

That's what keeps me alive.

If i didn'"t have that, i'd be long gone.