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how ugly am I? Am i slighty attractive at all? do i ever have a chance of getting a girlfriend again? what is it that makes me so ugly? is it the nose, eyes? http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=B8KLKLB&key=DUS

Im not a  girl...but an answer to your questions in the order asked...

Very
No
No
Everything
Everything

Dont be embarrased by this...Beauty lies within my friend! ;)
If you are judged on looks then the people judging you are very shallow.
However...First impression counts for a lot in the "Shit" of society we live in.

You remind me of Mr. Froto from Lord of the Rings....
You look very young...I wouldn't be worrying about stuff like girlfriends...you'll be fine. :peace:

I think you do a point better than the guy in front of you.

Change your haircut and the way you dress.

 :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Noooo, you just LOOK young and still " pure". You may not be, but you look it, and you also appear drawn towards your own self, your back is arched so it makes me say that you did not want to be taken by the camera and you are slightly off side towards the girl next to you as if your body was asking her to protect you.

You send messages out to people. These are the first things i noticed about you.

Ok, Captain Obvious never goes into deep, sentimental,  thought provoking posts. In fact, nothing that I say is usually thought provoking, but hopefully this will be an exception.

I'm not a girl, but I don't see what's wrong with his haircut.

From that photo, I don't see anything wrong.

Its been said many times before. Body gestures define how attractive you are much more than looks do. I doubt that natural body gestures can be faked. You might falsely believe that the whole world is laughing at you, and as a result look unnatural, angry, like a kid getting booed off stage after a high school talent show. If you genuinely believe that you are good looking, your body movement, language, eye contact, etc. will tell the world that  you are natural.

I bet its just a lack of self confidence, which leads to a lack of self respect. Imagine someone put your body on some delusional, cocky asshole who thinks the world revolves around him. I bet he would still get girls, relationships and things he wants that you are having trouble getting. Now, being a delusional asshole isn't the way to go, and I doubt it will bring you happiness in the long run, but being confident and having self esteem just might.

I know that self confidence is not an easy to get, and is often confused with arrogance. How to get self confidence, I'm not sure, its almost like a gift that is given to you after a while, if you put enough effort in it. ANd even then, you feel that it might be taken away.

The best thing I can say is, don't try too hard but don't ever give up. If you can find something in your life that is more important to you then what you don't have, be thankful for it and treasure it.

A tad yes,i concur, but it was said in jest, and the last part was meant sincerely, im not bothered by the way i look or indeed other people, i like whats inside the most as that is what counts the most and its what i most deeply associate with.
Not everyone takes that standpoint though, some people are deeply concerned with looks. Thats fine by me, but these people tend to get hurt the most.

If i offended this guy i apologise. Most of my posts are stated in jest cus i dont take too much seriously otherwise like everyone it gets me down.

Besides....Im a straight  male. I dont tend to find other Males attractive, well apart from Jarmo and Chris Misfit. :-*

Also...if you really wanna see Ugly...Check my picture in the gallery Dave, then you will see how i can say such things in jest!

RickJames, you stupid stupid boy !!!!!  From your previous posts I imagined you're a fuckin monster, but you're a normal looking young boy!! 

  You have a huge chance to get some really nice chicks, if only you change your fuckin attitude and start realising that you're not an ugly loser.


That guy next to you, now there's an ugly kid :))

you look wonderful ;) but I'd love to get my hands on your hair (no bad by any means, just need to find your 'style')

You look normal. You shouldn't ask so much questions about yourself.?
Believe in you, and you'll have plenty of girls. When you'll be a little bit older (around 20), developp your body, take muscles (but not too much), and you'll be fine until 50. The hardest thing is not to find girls, but to find "the" girl.

Start going to the gym... not only will it make you look better, but it will improve your life as a whole (Your mental health and confidence particularly). ?I promise, if you go to the gym (or at least get some form of exercise) and eat properly... in a year or two you will feel amazing. ?People will respond to this, including girls.

You may not feel comfortable at first, but that will change. ?I say its better to feel out of place at a gym for 2 or 3 months, then live in a crummy mood for years.

another thing is to take care of your skin. Lots of men underrate that point. When I shaved, I have a baby-skin. Girls LOVE that? :yes:. There are different products to clean your face (in French we call that "gomage"). Nivea For Men works pretty well, but it's quite expensive in the long term. Then put some fresh fragance (Kenzo-blue, Azzaro-yellow, aquadigio di Armani) and you'll feel fine.

(http://images.ciao.com/ifr/images/products/normal/278/product-152278.jpg) + (http://www.marionnaud.fr/html/boutique/corner/azzaro/azzaro/images/cedrat.jpg) = heaven

ok, this is my first visit to "the jungle"...never ventured here b4, and that's a freakin hillarious post.  r u 4 real? hehe...
like u shouldnt' havta ask strangers how u look--u should know urself!  or at least have a good idea!
but if ur being serious, then i wouldn't worry, ur average, from what I can tell...no major malformation or anything!
but guess what?  if u want a gf, u gotta be confident (NOT cocky), take pride in who u r, and be respectful of others.
as a chick, I will tell you this advice:
LOOKS COUNT but they are not the be all and end all. if a guy is hot but is boring/rude/bum then ---cya!  but if he's like a 6.5 out of 10, but really funny/sweet/educated/employed....then I see him MORE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE!

and if ur interested in ur looks:
1) eat well
2) excersise/play sports (you'll be more confident, trust me)
3)sleep well
4) proper hygene is a MUST
5) take an interest in fashion (somewhat anyways--u are what u wear)
5) SMILE!

how ugly am I?

scale of 1 - 10, 0.

Am i slighty attractive at all?

Yes.

do i ever have a chance of getting a girlfriend again?

uh yeah.

what is it that makes me so ugly? is it the nose, eyes?

it may be the attitude, kiddo.

I think Captain Obvious got it all right...my thoughts exactly.

We all know people who are just not attractive...they have some very prominent or odd features, but I think they are rare. ?And that isn't the case with you. ?Most people seem more or less attractive based on their personality and level of confidence...everything Captain Obvious said. ?You have nothing to worry about, just relax and don't worry about it so much. ?Some girl or girls will likely come chasing after you. ?

im not young though im 18 in july. at a football game I said i was 15 so i could pay $6.50 instead of $13 and they beleived me  :hihi:. that girl is my sister and yeah i am a bit shy around cameras and pretty shy in general. and ive got round shoulders

Dude, u gotta have confidence

dont go by that stupid hot or not either

once i put mypic on hot or not and i was an 8.0

however there were some people who gave me a 1

i had like 6 or 7 1's.
now how the hell can i get an 8.0 but some rate me a 1?

im not the most attractive guy *well.... :hihi:* but i know i sure as fuck aint a 1.

so take that hot or not with a grain of salt.

to get a high score on that u have to be a preppy metrosexual lookin fuck *no offense to the preppy metrosexual fucks on the board*

so be confident, find something u do well and be patient.

it may take some time to find the right one but if u stay confident and out going it will happen.

You are just a boy, no offense meant by this at all. But listen to me on this.

When you go to meet girls make sure that guy on the left is with you....you'll fuckin' score everytime!!!

Always hang out with ugly people!!!

 ;D ;D ;D ;D You are mean.

dude u arent ugly

u remind me of Dante Hicks from that movie clerks, u look like a skinny Dante.

some advice for u, girls love a confident guy

they dont like a guy who is negative and down himself all the time.

if u dont respect yourself, no girl or anyone for that matter will.

changin your hairstyle would help some, maybe a bit shorter in the back with some highlights in the front

who's that chick beside u? have u ever tried to talk to her?

dont fret much about it though, I was a fat dorky geek throughout highschool and once i got out of high school i blossomed and am becoming more attractive with age.

id rather be less attractive in my earlier years and get attractive later as i got older
than be like a lot of the jocks in high school and be all buff and good lookin in high school but get bald,ugly and fat as they get older.

hang in there, u will see.

Maybe I am..... :hihi:

But I'll get a girl to talk to this guy at least!!

*****

Seriously...you are a good looking guy. Personality is the big winner, hands down over looks. I've seen pretty girls open their mouths and ruin everything, and girls who became perfect tens just because they were so darn cool. It really does make a difference.

Seems to me that YOU DO care what others think about you.

Well listen to you!  Highlights huh D?   :hihi:   : ok:

He's mean, funny, and probably right.


Well, maybe just girls?

LOL, maybe sure.

In this thread anyway right?

I should stay on topic. :P

I have a feeling he is too hard on himself, which, we all are...we are all our own worst critics.

Well except me...I'm usually contemplating my greatness, when I'm not looking in the mirror.

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Well except me...I'm usually contemplating my greatness, when I'm not looking in the mirror.



do u use your left or right hand for that? :hihi: :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

Well, rickjames, considering the kind of posts you usually write, you didn't leave me prepared for your photo.  I mean, judging from your general persona, I thought you were gonna look like the Elephant Man or something.  But I look at that photo and...hey, you're a perfectly good-looking guy.  There's really nothing wrong I can see with you.  So what's the problem here?  Why are you down on your luck with love?  I think it's pretty obvious at this point...

YOU'RE TOO DEPRESSING.

In the past week, you've started one thread called "depression", one called "loser", and one where you ask people if you're as ugly as you think you are.  The thing is, I can identify with the feelings you're having, but even I'm getting a little tired of hearing you say how depressed you are.  I mean, in that photo, you look fine.  I don't know what you're concerned about.  Maybe you're a little skinny, but hey, I'm a stick figure myself.  And that doesn't have to be a bad thing...I can think of tons of rock stars who were skinny bitches just like you and me.  Either way, it wouldn't hurt for either of us to try and pump up a little.  Women like a guy who can protect them...it's primal instinct, I'm sure.

But yeah, the problem is, if you're down on yourself all the time, who's going to want to hang out with you?  I realized a long time ago that girls don't want to hang out with guys who will bring them down, but guys who will be fun to hang around.  It's said often that girls like confident guys, and that's true.  But I don't think you can fake confidence.  You have to turn your whole thought process around so that you ARE confident.  That can take awhile, but once it does, I'm told there's plenty of reward.

The thing is, rickjames, I do sympathize with you in a lot of respects.  I'm 18, I'm skinny, and I haven't had much luck with girls overall.  But I keep on trying.  And it pays off every now and then.  I got laid for the first time last summer, and just last weekend I had a one-night stand.  But what I'd like to now is find a real girlfriend.  I tend to think of myself as a "work in progress" - even if I'm a little unsuccessful now, I feel that by cultivating some confidence and building myself up, I'll eventually become a real alpha male.  It's only a matter of time, and I'm working at it.

In the meantime, if ther's one piece of advice you get out this post, it's this: GET CONFIDENT.  You can either fake it, or be it.  As far as I'm concerned, the latter is far more useful and lasting.  Go to a mirror sometime and stare at it until you like what you see.

rick james, you're very attractive, but that won't mean anything to you because you have low self-esteem.

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: thats my sister and the other guy is my brother. my sister is about 14 or 15 aswell that would make me a pedaphile. even though shes my sister i can see that she would be good looking. u know what i mean. my freinds have told me she is good looking aswell.

do u think this is a better haircut and clothes? i look more confident in the picture aswell  :hihi:. feel free to laugh at the guitar. yeah thats all i can afford. http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=BZGLSUG&key=AWE

Hey, you look alright in either picture, but the way I see it, the guitar is the world's best chick magnet anyway.  I'll bet if you formed a band you'd score quite a bit.  It's like automatic cool.  :smoking:

As for the haircut...well, as far as I'm concerned, shaggy is always the best way to go.  They say it's coming back in fashion, too!  Funny thing, though...I can only really tell if a another guy is good-looking or not if he has shaggy hair.  Weird.  Maybe because I have it.  My advice is to get that good shaggy look going, but then I would give that advice to anyone... ;D

Wait around for an opinion from an actual girl.  At any rate, nice to see you look slightly happier.

Its a better picture for sure. ?I'm not sure if its the haircut, or just the fact that you look happier. ?People almost always look more attractive when they smile. ?

You're good looking. Everything is gonna be fine. : ok:

dude if you are ugly u can still get a gf, but not if you act all insecure and desperate about it. women will see that and be turned off right away.

I agree with everything these people are saying!

I hate when a guy is down all the time, it's understandable things happen in life and people are sometimes sad, but when they are down about themselves all the time it is a huge turn off, if you don't want to be with yourself why should someone else? You're a good looking guy, and you need not be so insicure!

Yo go girl :) MB

thanx for the help i feel more confident now.  :hihi: i use this board as a counsilour huh

On the second picture with the guitar, i like the poster in the background! ;)
A true legend and the game misses him!

he sure is a legend. thats good how he got a century in his last test. the best way to end a career. are u from australia or england or something?

England...im the guy u called a shithead last week! :D

Rickjames, why not post your pictures in the Gallery on HTGTH. : ok:

Does anyone else  feel  a  bit uneasy at the fact that this thread is being used as a substitute  for professional help by a trained doctor? ???

There was a research once in the country where I live (Greece). The research was refering why lots of greek people don't go to psychologists like people from other countries do. The result of the research said that this fact happens because most Greeks have their friends where they can share their problems. So every kind of substitute is welcome. :yes:

No.  Who says he needs a doctor?  Because he's having a little confidence issue, which is completely normal?  There is nothing in his post to suggest there is anything wrong with him.  Just relax.

Also, how do you know that no one here is a trained doctor? 

whats better?

advice from people who have lived and breathed it?

or someone who learned it from a book?

your call

sorry man i was in a bad mood that day cause i failed my test. there is 2 other aussie greats behind me to andrew johns and adam gilchrist. have u heard of them?
well this is alot cheaper  :hihi:

Dude...lol....just tell the chicks you're a boxer.  That will not only explain the facial distortion...but it will also make them think you're macho and such.  Win win!  : ok:

Well I agree that you need to be secure, girls always want a guy that brings her confidence to her they dont need to see someone who crumbles with pressuare so everything you do try to be secure of what you are doing  ;), beers also help jajajajajaja  :beer:

Gilchrist yes, the other guy no. Gilchrist is one of my Fave Batsman in the world, despite The Aussie And England rivalry, im hopefully gonna catch a couple of Test Match days this year from the Ashes....

And thanks for the apology, it takes a stronger man to apologise that to walk away and not.

I respect you for that.

And get that Self Confidence up Rick, your a good man, dont let any other fucker tell you otherwise!

facial distortion thats a bit mean. i dont see anything wrong with rick james's face. ive got a question about girls. im a straight guy. dont let my avatar fool u i just think that pic looks funny  :hihi: anyway ive got no social life i have 3 freinds. i dont go to partys i might go to a freind's house once a month or something. do girls care about that? do they want to be taken to partys and shit or would they just go to the movies and shit like that?

no two girls are the same so its hard to say

some girls dont like parties or clubs, some chicks dont like the movies

just depends on the girl, talk to her, ask her what she likes and go from there.

The club stuff really bothers me. I can't stand club's music. I go to hard-rock cafe places to hear the music I like. I've gotta find a rocker girl  :hihi:

One of the greatest comments of all time.   : ok:

This thread is a classic.

"Did anyone suspect that protopsychozoid was indeed im rickjames bitch? muhahah"

If all else fails just start having sex with animals. They don't care what you look like, they just like the cock.

you are cute, your very young, dont worry so much about your looks, you look just like god made you and he doesnt make mistakes : ok:

Wrong. Case in point: Kevin Federline

That's never bothered me... I have music playing pretty much all the time when I'm at home, so I don't really need to hear "the music I like" when I go out - I hear plenty of it at other times :) Plus, after listening to standard pop/dance music the whole night, you truly appreciate blasting some Andromeda or Winds later on!

What the fuck is this ? How sick is this ? Now people upload their pictures to be torched by others ?

Man, something's clearly wrong these days.

Also, why was this thread brought back from the dead?

Nope...keep it coming!!